Black Out Blogging For Stuff, How Much Is Too Much?

I'm sure all of you know about the "Black Out" going on at (Would you believe that I googled "mommy bloggers PR products" and the mom dot website pulled up for the black out.) I have no idea what momdot is nor did I really have any idea what the black out was about until I read someone's previous post. This is finally when I had a "aha" moment about women blogging for PR companies. ...more

Why It's Great To Be Single!

You know what’s funny to me? I can’t count how many times married couples have told me, “Do NOT get married!”. While the married people are bitching about being married, the single people are bitching about being single. Each of them think that the grass is greener on the other side of the fence. I think that single people want to get married because they feel as if they are missing out on something, and married people want to be single because they know they are missing out on something. Crazy, eh? ...more

Everyone should stay single till they are at peace with themselves and know what they want ...more

I Finally Lost 40 LBS On My Diet!! Yeehaw!!

 Okay, I think I am finally to the point where I do not want to hear of another diet, ever. I am not sure if you know this or not but I am the self proclaimed “Diet Queen”. So, for “The Queen” to turn her back on her own people, it’s serious people. Serious- as in-seriously aggravating as hell. Why do we continue to think that the next diet is going to be “The One”? ...more

Why Women Need Validation!

Relationship! My lovely people, G’day! Yes, I do apologize..I have been hiding under a small rock. If you can just imagine two big booty cheeks with a rock in the middle, that’s me. I wish I could say that I’ve been vacationing at the Virgin Islands taking away virginity left and right but that isn’t the case. The only excuse that I have is that I have been designing some sort of plan for world peace? Does that work? ...more
Dear relationshipqueen, I have a problem of validation, I'm not sure how it works or how to do ...more

Dating With Fibromyalgia

New relationships are always fun and exciting. New relationships + Fibromyalgia? Mmm, not so much. No, I’m not saying that you can not have a full, exciting healthy relationship with fibromyalgia, it’s just the beginning of the relationship that is the seemingly the hardest. Why? ...more

What Have You Learned From Past Relationships?

Last night, I zoned out. Not surprising,eh? I started to think about the past….past relationships. If you knew me and you knew my past, you would know that it was extremely complicated, painful, and onehell of a learning experience. Growing up in an unpleasant environment where my parents literally hated one another, there was no example of real love, commitment, communication to follow. I had to figure it out all on my own…don’t we all? ...more

I know, I'm pretty stumped myself about it. I actually just figured this out in my last ...more

Why Men Don't Say I Love You

Yes, Ladies & Gentlemen...hamsters & gerbils...kibbles & bits, it's time for somewhat of a more serious post. I know, I hate to be a buzz kill but it had to happen sooner or later. I was actually doing some thinking yesterday (you know, I only do that on Tuesdays and Thursdays). I can't really remember what I was mulling over but I know it had to do with those things that have a penis (men) and those three little words (touch my kitty I love you). ...more're so funny..i totally understand and can relate it to my man..however reading your ...more