You Might Be Married to A Sociopath If.....

If you'd like to read my story please go to As you think back you cannot recall your partner ever accepting responsibility (i.e. broken relationships, jobs, financial hardship, or even a broken down car)....more

I Married A Sociopath: Living with PTSD

To read my complete blog: I have had my son on a full time basis, with thanks, for over 6 months and have continued to pay Peter child support. Part of my support is for day care services, and working over full time I need after school care; technically I have been paying double for the 6 months....more

The Sociopath: I thought it was normal to wonder when my husband would kill me

I'd love for you to read my story at my blog site: ….and I would have thought I deserved it and that my family would be better off without me anyway. I know he wanted to kill me because we would talk about it. I know exactly how he wanted to do it: he would strangle me to feel his power over me and my life. Why in the world did I think that was normal? That desire in him has only increased; I’ve seen it in his eyes....more

Living With My Worst Fears: The Custody Battle

To read my entire blog about my 20 year marriage to a sociopath: So began my new existence. Once or twice every month I would spend an entire Friday in court, waiting to have Peter’s latest motion heard. The motions were meant to humiliate me, break me, and defeat me. Much of the content was completely unnecessary....more

Guilt and Shame: The Vicious and Escalating Cycle

To read my complete blog: I left childhood with a great deal of guilt and shame. I was abused as a child and my experience never validated. Adults involved decided to handle things within the family and not expose the perpetrators, though they abused me and my female cousins in much the same way. The situation and the aftermath were handled despicably....more

Until death do us part: I wish my story were over

Please view my complete blog at I don’t understand this, though; writings from victims of sociopaths all say the same thing: they cannot and will not move on. They could remarry, have other children, move to another country and still…..they remain fanatical about a relationship long gone. They behave and talk in a way that appears the relationship continues....more

Really? Come on...A Sociopath?.....

To read my complete blog: I don’t think anyone that knows Peter would dispute that he is a narcissist. He is completely self-consumed. So perhaps you are pessimistic about me using the controversial term “Sociopath,” with all of its diabolical implications? What I have lived with Peter is nothing less than evil. Also called "antisocial personality disorder" a non-correctable condition affecting up to 4% of the population....more

Negotiating with a Sociopath: The Submission Principle

For my entire blog: “Death doesn’t come until the end of my guests’ visits here, after I’ve grown weary of them. It’s always so fascinating to see their disappointment.” “Disappointment?” “Exactly. Disappointment. They imagine that if they please me, they’ll live. They adapt to my rules....more

My Worst Fears: Custody and the Sociopath

You can read my complete blog at It was a circus. He once again had all of his witnesses in order, prepared to publically humiliate me as much as the courts would allow....more

The Sociopath and Control: It's there from the Beginning

You can read my entire story at:  [It is painfully similar to so many I'm hearing about. It's almost like they have a text book on how to destroy another human being!] I should have seen it....more