Love with Your Eyes Wide Open

“You are so free you can choose bondage.” Abraham HicksWhen I was married the first time, I didn’t see that I had chosen the safe route by marrying the one that wouldn’t lie to me, cheat on me or hurt me. At that time in my life, I couldn’t see that the safe route very rarely leads to a passionately lived life....more

Redefining Success for Your Life

“Life should not be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside in a cloud of smoke, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly proclaiming "Wow! What a Ride!”  Hunter S. Thompson...more
Thank you, Sharon! Your insightful comments are precisely the reason we need more women, ...more

The Most Important Step in Finding Love

“Love isn’t something you find. Love is something that finds you.” Loretta YoungWhen we don’t have the love we want in our lives, many times our efforts will go toward finding the person that we can love and that will return that love....more

Everything You Want in Love is Waiting for You

“When the receiver is ready, the gift appears.” Chuck Spezzano, If It Hurts, It Isn’t LoveYou want great, big love in your life this year? It’s waiting for you.You want to experience a miracle in love this year? That’s waiting for you.You want a love that is soulful, nurturing and lasting; one that feels both peaceful and alive? It’s waiting for you....more

If You Want a Love You've Never Had, You Have to do Something You've Never Done.

“The definition of insanity is doing something over and over again and expecting different results.”  Albert EinsteinMy first marriage was pretty safe and secure. He was basically a good guy and I knew he would never deliberately hurt me. But there was very little passion and although we had love for one another, we were never lovers. You know what I’m saying…...more

Our Closest Relationships are Our Greatest Spiritual Teachers

“We are not human beings having a spiritual experience. We are spiritual beings having a human experience.”  Pierre Teilhard de ChardinI am a student; a continual learner. For me, the journey of growth and evolution has no finish line.I seek out those that are the best in their respective areas of expertise and hire them to teach me....more

Relationship Patterns & Soulful Truth Telling

“As long as habit and routine dictate the pattern of living, new dimensions of the soul will not emerge.”  Henry Van Dyke If you want to know what your love life will look like in the coming year, you only need to know the answer to one question: “Are you willing to do something differently in 2015 than you have in years past?”...more

Your Vision for Finding Love

“You must know what you want, to find what you want.” Lailah Gifty Akita      When we’re opening our hearts to love in an effort to find the love of our lives, many times there is a mental, if not a physical, checklist that exists. Sometimes there are 2 separate lists used for finding love: One listing all the traits we want in a partner, andOne of all our “deal-breakers.”...more

I Should be Grateful

“I write about the power of trying because I want to be okay with failing. I write about generosity because I battle selfishness. I write about joy because I know sorrow. I write about faith because I almost lost mine, and I know what it is to be broken and in need of redemption. I write about gratitude because I am thankful – for all of it.” Kristin Armstrong...more

The Reason Why He Left

“When your heart is broken, there’s an opening…a small space…for the light to get through.”  Sharon PopeTo date, there has been nothing in my life that caused me more pain than when I had my heart broken by someone that I loved. The day he came to my home and told me that although he “loved me, but he wasn’t in love with me” sent me spiraling for months with many Sunday afternoons curled up on the sofa in tears....more