3 Easy Habits to Become a “Porn Free” Home

Can you have a porn-free home? I wish I could say, “absolutely!”, but I can’t. I don’t even like the...more

Are You a Safe Place for Your Husband When He Falls?

Can your husband admit his faults to you? Can he come to you with his struggles? One of the best things about marriage is that you have each other’s backs ....more

What To Do When Your Husband Disappoints You

Has your husband ever disappointed you? Or, even worse, has marriage disappointed you? Every Wednesday on To Love, Honor and Vacuum we talk marriage, because I love sharing things that will build up your relationship ....more

10 Sexy Questions to Ask Your Husband–To Turn the Heat Up!

Want some sexy questions to ask your husband to get the party started? You’ve come to the right place! In my continuing quest to make marriage as fun as possible, I thought I’d write a post that’s more on the steamier side today, because seriously–if you’re married, sex should be awfully fun! ...more

“Pornography Made Everything Worse.” Are We Listening?

Pornography hijacks people’s sex drives and ruins people’s lives. There are no ifs, ands or buts about it. Pornography is not harmless ....more

When Your Marriage Feels Distant–It’s Usually Not What You Think!

What if feeling distant in your marriage isn’t something that has to last forever? What if you really could turn the corner? Every Friday I like to post a quick 400-word marriage inspirational piece to give you one thought to chew on over the weekend ....more

The One Skill Everyone Must Have Before They Leave Home

In two weeks my daughter Katie moves back to Ottawa for her second year at university. She’s been home for the summer, and it’s been lovely to have her here, but it’s time for her to go back. She misses being an adult, I think ....more

Wifey Wednesday: Setting Goals as a Couple

Goal setting. Usually when you think of those two words your mind immediately shifts to January 1st thinking. You think about the plans you can put in place for a how to better yourself for the upcoming year and what you hope to accomplish ....more

10 Tips for Talking to Your Husband About Your Sex Life

Something is wrong in your bedroom. You’ve been struggling with the sexual intimacy in your marriage bed, and you need to talk to your husband. The conversation is overdue, but you don’t look forward to it ....more

It’s My Birthday. So I’ve Got a Present for You!

Well, it’s not really MY birthday. But a year ago my last book, 9 Thoughts That Can Change Your Marriage, was released. So it’s sort of like my book’s birthday ....more