Since my friends got a kick out of my "LIST" that I wrote when I was 22, I decided to  write a new list for my single girls to follow. Now I am a 30 year old, so my friends are over 27. This is the list you should follow.  Because THE QUEEN said so....more

What If Bruce Jenner/ Caitlyn Jenner was your husband/father?

I know everyone is going on and on about how brave Bruce Jenner is for becoming Caitlyn Jenner. And yes I agree.  But did you sit there and imagine if your own father told you he always wanted to be a woman? OR if your husband suddenly was showing signs of this?...more

Being a SONGWRITER means you have to be a PRODUCER too

I come from a musical family. My father is in a band with his brothers since he was about 8 years old. My sister and I write songs. My cousin raps, and 3 other cousins sing as well. My sister Maria and Alexa can sing, I can sing too but not as strong. ...more

Did You Like the CGI Effects Used on Paul Walker's Final Performance in 'Furious 7?'

My husband and I decided to go see Furious 7. This is the last movie that actor Paul Walker appeared in before he tragically died.  I was anxious to see the CGI effects used to finish the film to see if I could tell which parts were the  computerized versions of him and which parts were his final performance. ...more

It is NOT OK to be the OTHER WOMAN

I have read a couple of blogs on here about being the "OTHER WOMAN." If you like someone in another relationship whether or not he is married, it is NOT OKAY to get involved. Women make up all these excuses as to why they start something with a man who is already involved. The same goes for Men.  They say,"He is not happy with his Wife/GF""They got together young""He said that he is going to break up with her anyway"...more
I agree!  Be smart and don't be the other woman.  Set a better standard for yourself.  You want ...more

Being an Adult vs. Being a kid

Do you remember when you were a kid and you used to say "I can't wait to be an adult." Well now that I am an adult, I wish I was still a little kid. Little children's biggest worries are if the other kid is going to share that toy.  I remember going to my grandparents house with the whole family, playing with my 25 cousins. Wednesdays was McDonald's day and my dad or the other uncles would take turns taking us to McDonald's after school. Dancing in the yard was always fun too....more

Do You Believe in GHOSTS & the Afterlife?

I know what you may think? Ghosts? Come on girl! But wait I have proof!My family and I are known to be spiritual in some way or another. My cousin Lucia sees a little girl in a bedroom almost everynight. She feels her and sees her with her white nightgown staring at the mirror. She says she used to be scared of her but not anymore. Ever since Lucia changed the decor of her room, she has not really seen the little girl ghost that she calls "Emily." A medium asked her - "Do you see a little girl? She wants you to know her name is Camille."...more


You know what annoys me? The media. They make people mad over something that has nothing to do with the situation.  Why do they have to title things : WHITE COP KILLS BLACK MAN.  Why can't they write: MIDDLE-AGED MAN KILLED BY OFFICER.And some people fall for it! I am sure there is racism still these days but not just for blacks. Some people say "Oh your family is in the mafia?" because I am Italian.  That is just ignorance. I just shrug it off - what can you do? Do I cause a scene? Do I get violent? NO because that is TRASHY....more


While I was  on the train yesterday, I overheard two girls having a conversation about a guy one of them was seeing. I was not trying to listen but they were right next to me. She said to her friend, "I don't see myself as being the jealous type but I feel like all the girls think he is cute and it makes me uncomfortable, like they should know he is with me." The way she was talking, sounded as if she was either in college or in her early twenties."EYE ROLL"  I so wanted to interrupt (in a way) and give her some advice. But then again, I have no patience for that....more

Do You Share a Facebook Account with Your Significant Other?

Most of my friends already know that I share my Facebook account with my husband, Enzo.  It has my name on it, but we both use it. When he feels the need to comment on a post, he puts an E symbol to indicate that he is the one posting. ...more
its isnt a big deal - hes not into social media  - and has nothing to do with trustmore