Crushes Are NOT For Me!

I recently read a blog post about crushes that happened to mesh pretty well with thoughts that were already inside this pretty little mind of mine. If by mesh you mean I think that it is totally wrong and I can completely explain why.The post was about non-obligation crushes....more
SadWhaleFamily ugh put me right in that camp, the camp for jerksmore

Party Hard & Play Harder: Confessions from a Fetish Party

About a month ago, I went to a fetish party. Last time, I was considerably late everything was winding down and it was simply very sensual but I was not actively participating. But this time. This time was different.What was different this time?I promise it had nothing to do with the beer I had before I got there.Or the three drinks I had while I was there. Totally not....more

I've Slept with Fat Guys

The other day I linked an article on Facebook that was about dating and the effort boys put should put into something when a girl's heart is on the line. But that isn't what this is about. Oh no. That article stirred up a conversation that infuriated me....more

The Journey Into BDSM 'Subspace'

Sometimes, you have to allow your sexual journey to flow. Other times, you have to grab it by the balls and say "I'm going to get laid". It was more the latter of those choices when I decided to say "Yes" and get together with [Mostly Harmless]....more
A great read!  People who are into kink function differently in the bedroom...although a lot of ...more

Fetishists, I Want You!

Part of the reason that I blog is because I talk about a lo t of the things people want to hear about or they, themselves, want to talk about but are too afraid to do so. ...more

71% of Women & I'm Not One

Someone once gave me a complex about orgasms. They told me I am hard to get off....more
I'm obviously not a woman, but I have learned a lot from women who were "hard to make cum". They ...more

How I Lost My Self-Respect & Got It Back

I wrote a letter and it cost me my dignity and my self respect. The letter went a little something like this:I'm going to be frank and dominant here and say maybe we should just fuck. We can take away the pressure of being friends and trying to hang out. Let's face it, we have rock star sex together and maybe that is all it needs to be. If you don't respond, I will go and I won't bother you again. But I thought I would try....more
Thanks VickieFowler445 I really appreciate the sentiments. I find that I still think about him ...more

My Body is My Temple

When it comes to overcoming fears and anxieties, this is hands down the hardest thing to overcome because no one can do it but you. Anyone can tell you're beautiful (you are, by the way) but only you can believe it....more

What I Learned By Having Sex on the First Date

We are all grown up enough to know that not every date we go on is going to be exactly the same. Some are going to make for great stories because you had to tell the guy your lips weren't chew toys. Some are going to end after one coffee and an awkward handshake. Some will end in explosive orgasms and that is that....more
mryjhnsn Throw them at the guys who say girls can't have casual sex. Can't forget them! :)more

Masturbation: The White Elephant in the Room

Being my normal bookworm self, I was reading a book Hooking Up (there are plenty of books out there but I don't recommend this one) and it was talking about how humiliated the author was about saying she masturbated and I realized holy shit, this is a real problem. I used to be the same exact same way....more