A BJ Strike

March 14th was National Steak And Blowjob Day. Yes, it was. You read correctly. This isn’t some sort of April Fool’s joke. Steak and a BJ Day was supposed to be some sort of antidote to Valentine’s Day.  I’m not diametrically opposed to this holiday in theory. In reality I’m a vegetarian with a sensitive gag reflex so my actual celebration will be limited to simply saying, “Happy Steak and a B.J. day, honey.” My main issue with this male manufactured holiday is that Valentine’s Day is for mutual consumption. Gifts are reciprocal. Whereas Steak & a B.J....more

Repairs For One

By Sonja Warfield...more

Expect The Best

In Cameron Crowe’s 1992 film Singles, one of his characters joins a dating service and their slogan is: expect the best.  Why is it that we don’t expect the best when dating?  So many girlfriends have said to me that they’ve met a great guy, but they’re just waiting for the other shoe to drop.  They’re practically waiting for him to be a jerk.  Have we been conditioned by society and Sex and the City to have low dating expectations?  Has the shortage of males in college and seemingly the world forced us to settle for irregular men?...more