The War on Women: Government

Let’s imagine for a moment that the women of this country are denied access to birth control and that abortion is no longer an option. We now live in a country where any woman who becomes pregnant has to give birth to that child, regardless of circumstance. How would that affect the country?...more

The War on Women: The Economy

One of the most confusing points conservatives make regarding women’s rights in The United States is the one of cost. The idea that it is too costly to make birth control easily accessible or free is convoluted. A responsible woman who knows using protection is a better alternative to unwanted pregnancy should be denied birth control just because she can’t afford it? Sex is a natural part of being human. By their 19th birthday, seven in ten female and male teens have had intercourse....more

The War on Women: Religion

I live in a country that I appreciate because we are allowed some freedoms many countries are not. In my country, women without means have access to birth control. Women can terminate a pregnancy if necessary without threat of being criminalized or having to risk an illegal procedure that can be life threatening and dangerous. These rights are under attack. It has been proposed that abortion be made illegal, that our government shouldn’t pay for birth control....more
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Casual Sex: Nobody is Perfect

Everyone makes mistakes.  There are rules but it’s still easy to make mistakes.  If you let something slide you can still wind up in a pseudo-relationship.  Now you know the rules!  Sometimes it’s hard to follow them and when you start ignoring them you can easily find yourself in a situation that isn’t going to end well.  You’ll quickly find that you are more invested than you planned....more
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Casual Sex: The Rules of Casual Sex

There are some simple rules to help keep you out of trouble when it comes to having casual sex.  They are some basic ground rules that will help you understand the separation of sex and emotion and why it can be important not only in a casual situation but in a relationship as well.The RulesHave sex with someone you find insanely, physically attractive.  The more involved your privates are the less you’ll be thinking with your brain and… you want to fuck someone hot....more
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Casual Sex: The Basic Types of Casual Sex

Casual sex is simple really.  Of course everything can get complicated.  You have to understand the nature of the encounter.  You have to be aware of the nature of your relationship with your sexual partner.   You have to be clear, even if only with yourself, about what you are wanting.  If you understand the situation and there is no confusion about what is going transpire then sex is simple.  If you are conflicted then the whole experience can be emotionally damaging....more

Casual Sex: Some Male Perspective

As promised, this installment of Casual Sex is written by my very good friend, Doug (aka Dark Water) at diaryofadougfiend.  I wanted a man’s perspective on the role of sex in relationship.  I felt it was important to include a male voice and this is one male voice I greatly respect and relate to.  He did an amazing job and I am so thankful to him for taking some time to offer his own perspective.  I’ll let Doug take it from here....more

Casual Sex: The Value of Sex

Admittedly, casual sex isn’t for everyone.  In the case of women, most of us were raised from a very young age that sex was something that came after love and that commitment we made with our bodies was some sort of lifetime connection we made with our partner.  As you women we learn, with some disappointment, this is not always the case.  In fact it may never be the case. ...more
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Ted was born on a naval base in Bremerton, WA., in 1933. His father died in the South Pacific during World War II, in 1943. After Ted’s father’s death, his mother moved, with her children, to San Diego, CA. Resentful after the death of her husband, she began to drink. She became angry and beat Ted and his younger sister. At the age of sixteen Ted dropped out of high school, lied about his age and enlisted in the U.S Navy. He was eager to escape his troubled home life. He was soon assigned to an aircraft carrier and deployed to Korea....more