Some Unique Orgasm Tips

Who knew the cure for some really big problems is right under our nose and between our legs. Yup, according a recent post by Penelope Trunk, people who have orgasms earn more, hang out with higher powered people, are better at public speaking, and walk with a more confident gait. Of course, there’s always a hitch. Or in this case, a gap—the "orgasm gap." ...more

Ask a cougar: Why do Younger Men Like Older Women?

I got an email from an anonymous cougar who wonders why younger men like older women. She’s had a relationship with a young man and described it as torture, always worried if he’s comparing you to younger women. ...more

Ask A Cougar: Should You Consider a Job in Porn?

Just when I was wondering, ‘What’s next in porn?’ Along comes an article in the May 2009 issue of Marie Claire about the rise of MILF porn. ...more

Ask A Cougar: How to Be A Cougar Woman

You ever hear that statistic about how the more educated you are, the less likely you’ll want to marry? Or how the divorce rate increases with each marriage? What does that tell you? Maybe that us seasoned gals got more interesting things to do than fuss and fret over what he meant by that comment, or what he was really doing that weekend. We’re busy doing exactly what we want to do and not necessarily because there’s some grand sense of purpose and destiny behind it. Maybe it’s just fun and feels good. ...more

Ask A Cougar: Traveling With Your Younger Boyfriend (and a Dog)

When I told a friend that Michael, my younger boyfriend, and I were taking a road trip to San Diego for the weekend, I could see her eyebrows arch even though we were talking by phone. Then I heard her question even though I was the one talking, “What, Pam, could you possibility have to talk about on a 10 hour car ride with a guy nearly half your age?” ...more

Ask A Cougar: Does a cougar need to be rich, not just sexy?

Is it enough for an older woman wanting to date a younger man to be sexy or does she need to be rich too? I mean, let’s really think about this because we all know the reverse is true. I’m going to take a windy road to answer this vital question. Let’s start with TV, which I deeply love. We all agree, I’m sure, that TV is one of the most powerful persuaders of how we see ourselves. Which is exactly why I drove over to my friend’s house for the 10PM premier of the newest reality show, The Cougar. ...more

Ask A Cougar: When to have sex with a "cub"

There comes a time in every woman’s life when she has to ask herself, does it really matter how long after the first date you wait before having sex with a guy? A question that brings me to another question from a reader calling herself, “Jaguar.”  Jaguar was annoyed at having been left hanging in the last post and asks, “How long should a cougar wait before having sex with a new cub?” ...more

4 Reasons to Avoid Natural Menopause Treatment

I finally hit my limit today. I’m officially fed up with menopause websites that slam “hrt,” or hormone replacement therapy, in order to sell some so called, natural menopause treatment. The natural alternative, they claim, is a miracle product that fixes all your menopause symptoms and makes you feel like a million bucks. Or, at the very least makes them a million bucks. ...more

Looking for the Caring Caveman

Think you’re turned on by the same fantasies that turn on most other women? Take my completely unscientific test and find out. Which one of the following scenes turns your button “on”? ...more

Is to read these three scenarios one after the other. Because when I read those, it makes ...more

Life In the Toilet

I know this isn’t exactly polite conversation, trust me, it’s necessary. You’re about to read the “inside” history, the story of my stomach. For all those with unremitting digestive problems, read on: there is hope. ...more