Nobody wants to be Ethel
I was dubbed Ethel to my friend "Lucy",several years ago. She would attach herself to my hip and drag me on crazy adventures when we would volunteer once a week every year for a charitable event. Ethel is often referred to as the "best second banana in the business". I never thought too much about the title until one night I was watching a TV Land documentary on Laverne and Shirley - the 70's female comedy duo. The comparison of their show to I Love Lucy was made. Penny Marshall had lots of family connections with the show's production (her brother was the director) and Cindy Williams said "I don't want to be Ethel". Lucy was the star and Ethel was the nobody. Vivian Vance who played Ethel won one Emmy in her career as Best Supporting Actress; of course Lucille Ball won five in the course of hers. Lucy was always getting the sunlight and Ethel is adding color and depth to her star. It made me think that yes I am an Ethel. I support my family, my patients, my friends, my co-workers - for them to shine. But you know, where would Lucy have been without Ethel? Who would've been her sidekick, her steady stead. The role of Ethel is rare these days because everybody wants to be Lucy. On the Laverne and Shirley show they fought constantly about the number of lines written for each character and trying to keep everything completely balanced and fair. It was chaotic on the show with the writers and crew miserable. The world is full of ego maniacs grabbing the spotlight. Everybody's got to have their five minutes of fame, be it on You Tube or Facebaook. You're nobody until 50 million people have seen you through the internet. Oh I'll admit my ego was the size of the Grand Canyon when I was full of myself as a young girl with hormones and energy. It was fun to be crazy with my girlfriends and see who could be the most outrageous with a comment and get everybody laughing. People thought I was funny. But I would go "over the top" sometimes and then nobody laughed. It happens when you go for the next attention grabber and you don't know when to stop or change the subject. Usually someone gets hurt at that point and people just walk away. There were plenty of comedy teams in the past, not so much anymore. Most comedians go solo to have the spotlight to themselves. But most duos have the "funny" half say her lines and the "straight man" responds. I liken it to tennis a good "straight man" lobs it back to the server and within the lines to keep the banter going and to be sharp to pick up the underlying sarcasm and subtleties. Second bananas are getting their time in the spotlight. Look at Sarah Palin - she's carried her ride into 2010 since the 2008 election. So I've decided that Ethel needs her own identity and not wait for Lucy to define her. Second bananas can have a life outside of the stars they support and be funny. So break out Ethel find your own mojo! But most of the time life is messy and the egos can't always be balanced. So somebody's gotta be Lucy and somebody's gotta be Ethel.
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