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Tipping Etiquette: The Art of Gratuity

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Everyday we find ourselves tossing a few dollars towards a service gratuity whether it be a drink, lunch, morning coffee, valet or spa service. Many times after I've finished up skin care treatment, my client will ask me what I expect for a tip or what the proper tipping etiquette is.

This question usually baffles me because I've always considered tipping a bonus and not an expectation. What I do hope is that after every service, I gain a new client who will forever brag about the service and pimp me out to their friends!

If you've ever considered not tipping because the meal or service was expensive, think again. Many people who work in the service industry are only paid either a small percentage of that service whether it be commission or an hourly wage.

I once interviewed for a well known, high end reputable spa, that offered me an insane work schedule with a compensation of minimum wage plus 10% of the service. I would have depended on those tips in order to survive.

Many service employees work solely on commission and are required to stay all day even if there are no clients. I once worked for a place where I was required to come in and wait for clients and if there were none, it was expected of me to clean, answer phones and do laundry. Of course this didn't last long because she never paid me for this.

After speaking with a few of the spas around here, I've learned that many of them don't pay their employees that are providing services until they've met their 3 month probation period.

These are just a few examples to give you an idea of the terms that these talented people are working on.

When in doubt, follow the general rule of 15% to 20%. If the service was exceptional, then go for the 20%.

If you feel that the service didn't meet your expectations, discuss it with the manager. Much of the time, it can simply be a minor miscommunication or perhaps the person providing the service was having a difficult time personally. Imagine trying to work after you've had a death in the family or struggling with illness. Many businesses would appreciate honesty and the chance to redeem themselves in order to keep your business.

Not sure who to tip? I've found a wonderful Tipping Guide that will answer all your questions from who, what and where of tipping.

Don't worry, if you decide not to tip, you won't be executed! It's completely up to you and to your discretion if you do decide to leave a gratuity, but greatly appreciated by those for your generosity and it will be remembered!

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Jocelyn 5 pts

Thanks for the tipping advice. That link is quite an exhaustive and helpful list. Here are more spa etiquette tips ( http://advisor.triphub.com/2006/04/spa_etiquette_f... ) and also tips for groups at spas ( http://advisor.triphub.com/2006/04/helpful_hints_f... ) (cell phone etiquette and more).

Jocelyn blogs about group travel tips at TripHub ( http://advisor.triphub.com ).

heivilinj 5 pts

One of my best friend's brother worked as a bartender (and still does as far as I know) and he told us numerous horror stories about tippers.

So when I'm out the service has to be on par with eating an MRE in the German woods while freezing before I don't tip *at least* 15%. If you tried hard or were friendly it's going up from there. Because basically it's not a kind of job I would want to have. :O

Jim Heivilin