Up with families, down with racism

All parents have an assortment of hopes and dreams for their children. Maybe he'll find a cure for cancer. Maybe she'll argue before the Supreme Court. Maybe he'll play in the big leagues. Maybe she'll star on Broadway. And maybe they'll grow up in a world free of racism.

I know, right? Most of the time it feels more realistic to dream of the majors or the Nobel Prize than a world devoid of racism.

Allow me to introduce you to your newest resource in the quest for a tolerant, respectful world where our children can see (and are seen) beyond skin color: Anti-Racist Parent. It's not about everyone being the same, it's just about being who they are.

Founders Jen Chau and Carmen Van Kerckhove sum it up:

This is a blog for parents who are committed to raising children with an anti-racist outlook. If you’re a parent who is tired of having your child learn about race and identity through the mixing of neapolitan ice cream, playing dress-up with national costumes, and absorbing the same handful of sanitized historical facts every single Black/Latino/Native American/Asian-Pacific American Heritage Month, this blog is for you.

The Goal
Parents often ask us for resources and express an intense interest in being able to discuss parenting from an anti-racist perspective. We hope that this blog will serve to inform, connect, and support parents as they work to raise their families with a healthy and realistic approach to race and identity.

How about that... pairing race with identity rather than throwing everyone in a big pot and insisting that race doesn't matter. I love the atmosphere here; race is a crucial component of identity, one to be acknowledged and explored, but not to be used to set people apart.

Anti-Racist Parent is the latest in a long line of successful projects where Jen and Carmen strive to shatter racial barriers. In addition to running their anti-racism training company, New Demographic, the pair can be found writing at Racialicious and podcasting at Addicted to Race.

Postings so far run the gamut from anecdotal tales from multicultural families to news stories highlighting racial issues affecting families to Crayola's latest skin-tone crayon colors. Overall, it looks to be a tremendous resource for parents of every hue. And they're open to submissions, as well.

If only there was a way to make Anti-Racist Parent required reading for everyone....

Mir

[image courtesy of Kids 4 Kids]

BlogHer Contributing Editor Mir also blogs at Woulda Coulda Shoulda and Want Not.

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I love this ...

October 11, 2006 - 6:02pm

... which isn't surprising, since Carmen and Jen are pretty brilliant when it comes to tackling the thorny issue of race frankly, honestly and, when appropriate, a sense of humour. And given my own multiracial, multicultural family, there was no way I wasn't going to subscribe to this feed.

Thanks for getting the word out, Mir!

K.
Chookooloonks

 

SWEET!

October 11, 2006 - 6:46pm

Thanks for the heads up! :)

Family Living; Hatfield Style - Our Family Blog
Now a Blogger at AdoptionBlogs - Obviously, I'm Jenna. :)

 

Thank you

October 11, 2006 - 7:59pm

I am glad you posted this.

Birdsword

 

October 12, 2006 - 12:00am

Editor's note: This comment has been deleted for its use of a racist slur. These terms are outside the boundaries of our community guidelines.

 

Utopian slapstick

October 12, 2006 - 12:25am

who say anti-racialism is a utopian now?
who say gender-feminist is not a utopian now?
why the feminism just a slapstick?
Why you became a solitary sex, but have a utopian thought?

 

Mir,

October 12, 2006 - 5:51am

Mir,

Thank you so much for posting about Anti-Racist Parent! The more voices we have in the discussion, the stronger it will be. Jen and I look forward to working with all of you!

Take care,

Carmen

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New Demographic
an anti-racism training company
www.newdemographic.com

Addicted to Race
a podcast about America's obsession with race
www.addictedtorace.com

 

Great resource, Mir

October 12, 2006 - 9:44am

Thanks for the link and write-up. Can't wait to see what I can learn from their site.

Mary
BlogHer Contributing Editor, Mommy & Family
Mom Writes

 

Interesting!

October 13, 2006 - 10:18am

Already dedicated to teaching our children to respect everyone they meet as an individual and to helping them recognize and appreciate differences, this looks like a great resource. Thanks Mir!

mothergoosemouse

 

Thanks for the link! I'll

October 13, 2006 - 7:37pm

Thanks for the link! I'll definitely check it out.

 

Thanks

October 18, 2006 - 12:16pm

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