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So,
We hate to know it but guys juggleall the time.
And when we're in the drivers seat and for whatever reason have a few courters on hand, we frequently fail to take advantage of the situation.
Well mostly.
See Grey's Anatomy lately? See Meredith Grey square McDreamy against McVeterinarian and then screw things up with both?
These are the things that make you cluck your tongue in dismay.
Cluck. Cluck. Cluck.
Which is quite apt because SHE WAS CHICKEN and didn't have the mental fortitude to continue what it took to really suss things out.
Now - we've already learned that there's a few baseline disclosure rules that one needs to set when juggling a few people.
Now comes the point of comparison.
And yes: When you're given more than one option, you're allowed - nay - encouraged to compare.
And totally dish about it with your gal pals.
The short list of what *really* matters
1. Emotional Availability
2. Emotional Maturity
3. Ettiquete and Manners
4. Ethics and Spiritual/Moral allignment
5. Composure and confidence
6. How well you fit into each others' lives
7. Sex appeal
8. ShortTerm/LongTerm possibilities/enjoyment
9. Endurance - as in, you won't get bored with this person over Hors'doerves
10. Do you think that the L-word could be on the horizon with this one.
An honest assessment in those few precious moments to yourself between dates will slowly reveal the keepers from the sleepers.
And if this takes months - milk it.
Because on at least one point in every woman's life, one should absolutley feel swerve-licious and in control.
