A Valentine for Grandma
by Alanna Kellogg

It's the week when the word "love" evokes images of dancing hearts, sultry lingerie and couple romance. But here's a little Valentine to -- and for -- our grandmothers.

From Food "Blogga"

"At 5' 2" tall, my grandmother was a giant of a woman. ... from her little kitchen with four pots, a couple of frying pans, and some wooden spoons, her food was always remarkably delicious.

Nan is 98 years old now and lives in the Alzheimer’s unit ... She doesn’t remember much any more. She doesn’t remember me. She usually forgets my mother, who visits her every day. ... When I saw Nan last month for Christmas, I tried to prompt her. “Nan, remember me? Your granddaughter? Susan?” Nothing."

Got a tissue? Continue the story ...

From Nami Nami

"My dear K turned 35 last November, and his mum included two precious items in her present - his grandmother's handwritten cookbook from 1934, as well as his great-grandmother's handwritten cookbook (in three slim volumes!) from 1894. Precious!"

Check Pille's first recipe from 1934, thoroughly modern ...

Pie is the New Toast ... calls her Nana for tips for perfecting Chicken Adobo

Susanna's Sketchbook ... sees her grandmother's hand-written recipes and considers a family cookbook

Mommy Cooks ... shares Nana's Spaghetti Sauce

My Kitchen ... from Bulgaria, new blogger Svetlana shares her grandmother's recipe for meatballs

Does This Blog Make Me Look Fat? ... mourns her grandmother and decides upon a tribute

The Budding Cook ... shares her grandmother's technique for peppered gio lua sandwich (note the homemade gio lua!)

Simply Recipes ... goes nostalgic with a fancy-sounding (but not!) talerine

Too Many Chefs ... calls Mom for the details for her grandmother's potato pancakes

Contributing Editor Alanna Kellogg recommends her Nana's Cucumbers and Nana's Peroghies.

Comments

 

Great Post

What a wonderful post. I love seeing all these food bloggers remember the heritage of great cooks who came before them. (And I had just today bookmarked Nami Nami's post in my Blogher folder so we are channeling each other again!)

Kalyn Denny
Kalyn's Kitchen

 

Loving memories

I have to share a strategy that my, now 76-year-old Dad employed and shared with we children, When his, then 90 plus Mother lived in a nursing home; physically healthy but, losing her memory, my dad cheerfully put aside his own need for acknowledgement and answered to any name she deemed to give him that day. We children followed along and reveled in the memories she shared with us, as we entered her world as her sister, her cousin or whatever part she assigned to us that day.

Taking away the pressure for her to "be" in the present, enabled us all to enjoy spending time together; gave us a glimpse into her past and fond, rather than anxious memories of each visit.

MC Milker

 

Loving Practice

A loving practice, indeed, MC, and one of the many loving techniques to living with someone whose mind is diminished by Alzheimers or another brain disease. When my mother's lung cancer metastasized into her brain, some times she would say the funniest things. She often 'knew' at some level that what she'd said was off. But when we'd just let ourselves laugh out loud at the humor and silliness, she came to love the moments, just for the laughter and would try again, instead of getting frustrated.

Alanna Kellogg, A Veggie Venture