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Stop CyberBullying Day: Some Advice and Inspiration from the Blogosphere

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First off, I want to thank Andy Carvin for organizing this day and the ning site and leading by example - showing us how to take an issue and integrate the use of new social media tools!  Also, hats off to Lisa, Jory, and Elisa (as well as to my fellow CE editors) for posting such brilliant thoughts about this topic. 

Andy's post yesterday describes how he is experimenting incorporating the use of Twitter into this campaign.   He hasn't neglected the traditional tools either - yesterday he and I as well as Elisa Camahort were interviewed on the BBC about this issue.

This issue is so massive that it is going to take an ongoing effort from many different angles -- educatiing young people with help from teachers and parents as well as everyone who is using the Internet now - to model good behavior and continue to the dialogue around this.   I also think that those who make the tools need to have awareness of this too. 

As I think about my own children getting to the age when they will use the web, I'm trying not to get too depressed about what educators have said about this growing problem of cyberbullies over at the Stop CyberBullying site.  Yet, I have only to click over to Vicky Davis and I'm inspired.

Here's her advice for educators, students, and parents on how to stop Cyberbullying Today!:

  • JOIN the Stop Cyberbullying networkto
    create a central repository of information that is rated and reviewed
    by educators and to discuss what works. View it like the front lines
    establishing a form of communication. (If the network is blocked, I've
    got a template on my blog
    that you can mail your IT person to ask for it to be unblocked.) After
    joining, post hyperlinks or review and comment on the resources of
    others, join the conversation.
  • SHARE -Plan to show this video to your students
    during the next several weeks and talk about the importance of telling
    someone when they are being harassed online. (You can also see a wealth of other videos collected at the Stop Cyberbullying Network)
  • REPORT - Every little BIT
    helps. When you see someone inappropriately attacking another blogger
    either on comments on or a blog, say something! (Often we DON"T see it
    because of comment moderation.) We often don't say things because we
    are afraid. Afraid that some "nut case" is going to come after us.
    However, if we agree that we will all band together and speak up. If we
    are afraid to "stand up," Wired Safety has a Cyber 911 tipline that you can also use.
  • SPEAK - Use a badge from Scott McLeod on your blog and hyperlink it to http://stopcyberbullying.ning.com, or just copy the link and image from the picture.  Post and share the facts from the experts and tag it <a
    href="http://www.technorati.com/tag/stopcyberbullying"
    rel="tag" >stopcyberbullying</a>. Speak up in your sphere of
    influence: the classroom, the PTO, the civic group, the government
    agency, the educators organization. Make sure this is a topic that your
    teachers learn about and understand. We must become a cacophony of
    voices speaking out about how to be wise, civil, and successful online.
  • BE AN ADVOCATE FOR WISDOM - When the leaders of the Dark Ages became afraid of thoughts and dissension, they burned books.  We cannot afford to burn blogs (as ill-thought out DOPA would do) and the
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kperfetto 5 pts

I don't think that can be stressed enough. When you feel the urge to retaliate or namecall, take a breath, and take a step back from the computer.

Five Dollar Camera ( http://www.fivedollarcamera.com/blog/ )

kanter 5 pts

Laura,

Thanks for posting the link!

kanter 5 pts

This is really interesting all the different perspectives. If anything positive out of this, we're talking about it.

kanter 5 pts

before you hit the publish button - ask yourself "Would I say this if we were face-to-face?

Laura Scott 5 pts

Cyberbullies and Community Standards ( http://rarepattern.com/nodes/2007/03/cyberbullies-... ). Coming off of a making a presentation at OSCMS at Yahoo! last week on Building Online Communities, where we touched on this topic in a general sense, I realize it's long past due time for this discussion. Thanks!

Laura Scott
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Nordette Adams 6 pts

And congrats to you and Elisa on the interviews. I mentioned Cyberbullying and linked to you yesterday in this post called "Have You Been Shamed Online?" ( http://jerseygoddess.blogspot.com/2007/03/have-you... ) I'll update the to you with a link to this post instead.

"Love is liquid. Brew and be drunkards!" ~~Nordette ( http://nexus.writingjunkie.net ) And here's a link to the blog ( http://jerseygoddess.blogspot.com/ ).

Debra Roby 5 pts

what is the big difference between the Choose Civility pledge above and the already existing Kind Blog pledge? ( http://chookooloonks.typepad.com/kindblog/ )

Except perhaps a more masculine badge?

Debra
A Stitch In Time ( http://astitchintime.blogspot.com )
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Elana Centor 5 pts

I will be adding the badge on my blog as soon as I finish this comment. One of the things that struck me on the video that the Link Text ( http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=seOQyMvG99w )AD Council created is an easy to remember guideline,
Don't say anything online that you wouldn't say to someone's face." That works for me.

elana
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