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Applying the "S" word in business

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Jory Des Jardins also blogs at Pause.

Last year I met with a respected, retired executive, now a successful excecutive coach who studies and practices Shamanism. He performed a ritual meant to determine my totem animal--a guiding symbol that I could invoke during times of personal or professional consternation.

During the "journeying" ritual, I envisioned my totem animal--a cougar--which symbolizes a transition into learning to recognize one's power and responsibly wielding it. The totem animal seemed appropriate to me. I'd made some bold changes in my career, and they were paying off tremendously. I'd proven that I had power, but acknowledging it and building on it felt awkward to me. Being able to apply this knowledge, as intangible as it may seem to some, helped me with future decisionmaking. I often turn to my totem animal to help me see beyond an immediate business question and to consider instead the underlying power issues that are often really at stake.

I told the executive shaman about my vision, then I asked him about his totem animal. He told me, then he said, "Many people keep their totem animals private." This indicated to me his knowledge of the ways of the Shaman, and a more practical sensitivity to the corporate world's hesitation to embrace "extracurricular" personal development. In essence he was telling me not to broadcast how I got this critical information about myself, lest my clients think I was a little--you know--loony.

It occurred to me how sad this is. There are a significant number of people who consult coaches, spiritual healers, shamans, how-to books, even the Bible to help them put their work in perspective, but like this executive/Shaman, these people keep the source of their knowledge a secret. In his "Day Job" my coach works with corporate CEOs and executives, helping them with organizational strategy. Motivational Speaking is the most woo-woo term he uses publicly to explain what he does, perhaps because the word "Motivation" still connotes how to achieve a business outcome. Before he retired he'd helped businesses thrive and profit; he was well aware of the importance of business acumen and publicly advocated a reasoned, quantitative business approach. Yet, in private, he was actually a translator, applying spiritual principles he'd adopted from his Shamanic practice to corporate dilemmas. To him the spiritual and the professional were one of the same.

Companies are making strides in honoring employees' need for such things as balance and personal challenge and are offering more holistic professional training, but they won't touch any SPIRITUAL development with a ten foot pole. And yet there are hidden costs to prentending that the spiritual doesn't or shouldn't exist in the workplace.

Before I explain why, let's make clear what I mean by "spiritual." On the The Future of Work blog, Charlie Grantham provides a solid distinction that I'd like to carry through this discussion,

"...We're talking here of the spiritual, not the religious dimension of our lives, although the two are often confused. Spirituality (in our sense) is more about the personal search for answers and understanding; religion is more of a socially organized effort, or praxis, towards the same end. We believe that within the context of organizational change and its impact on the individual there should be a more personal approach: a spiritual one."

A resoned response to this approach would be: Why should business address spirituality? It's not our issue; it's a personal choice. From the standpoint that any number of employees with the same business acumen can all be at different levels of spiritial awareness, I agree that addressing spirituality is a dodgy proposition. But we shouldn't confuse it with the dilemma that results from, say, enforcing prayer in school, or any specific belief system on workers. Rather, infusing spiritual awareness is an opening up of a higher-perspective discussion--one from which workers can make much more informed decisions.

In my view, my spiritual development is the strengthening my personal platform, from which all actions result, business-related or otherwise. While spirituality can't necessarily be tied to business outcomes, the lack of it certainly can. As Grantham states:

The spiritual dimension is especially important when it is occurring in the context of other failing social institutions from which we have traditionally brought meaning to our lives, such as political, educational, and religious structures...

...It may be that this is the core issue facing the increasing irrelevance of modern corporations. Obscene profits, reckless lack of regard to the environment, and abuse of power are hallmarks of toxic work

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rainbow_n_eye 5 pts

Spirituality has absolutely nothing to do with politics or corporations. Spirituality is the awakening and enlightenment to "being spirits having a human experience". Awakening to our true core, the spirit Within. Regarding keeping the animals secret, this is ego speaking from fear. The fear is that if one knows then another can attack the powers of a certain animal. The closer one gets to God, Great Mystery, one doesn't have to fear anything. The Animals are given to assist us in knowing who we are, they give us glimpses of our personality, and characteristics we may not be aware about. Knowing who your animal helper is crucial in the development of your true core (the spirit within) to the highest potential.

A Shaman is a Medicine Man or Woman who is dedicated in the healing of others and lives in between the worlds. Not in a corporate setting. Shamans is a calling not a class that someone signs up for. It's unfortunate that people use this title for their ego, as it brings power to them falsely. Totems are animals that will be with you lifelong "set in concrete" so to speak. The Helpers assist. The cougar is a helper for you, not a totem, but could be, if you were pisces, which you are not.
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.After all we're all just making up this "life" thing as we go along!..."

Our life is planned prior to your birth, each millisecond.

Here's a great sight for learning about the animals you may see in dreams or visions. Learn the wisdom that each brings. http://www.geocities.com/RainForest/4076/index61.h...

How this site should be used, is for self examination. If you see a bee that is flying around you, look to the wisdom examine youself and see how this wisdom may apply to you.

rainbow_n_eye

Casey Dawes 5 pts

I'm a refugee from the corporate world as well. I do so much prefer hanging on by a financial thread to working in a place that conflicts with my values. I have been a lifelong seeker and feel that my spirit is connected to everyone around me. I operate, for the most part, from that belief. It also is the impetus behind my values. And I think this is where the conflict at work can be addressed in open.

If I believe that we are all connected, then I have the obligation and joy to support others in their lives, to truly listen to what they say. I get to be respectful in what I say, although I don't limit my statements. When the choice is between my integrity and saying something someone won't like, my integrity wins every time. Integrity is my value.

But many work environments don't value integrity. They want us to go along with the company line, even if it violates our values which are inherent from our spiritual beliefs, I think.

So perhaps the spiritual discussion in the workplace can begin with a discussion of values.
Casey Dawes
Wise Woman Shining
www.WiseWomanShining.com ( http://www.WiseWomanShining.com )
http://cdawes.blogs.com/wisewomanshining/

Tish G 5 pts

Hi Jory,

Great post--and I think I can lend a little insight...

first, what a lot of folks don't know about me is that I spent many years, starting in my late 20's, exploring religion and spirituality. It's taken me from transpersonal healing and tarot card reading back into the study of religion and biblical lit in college (not too long ago acutally.)

When we are on a spiritual quest, it's totally logical to want to integrate the spiritual with whatever we are doing. But the spiritual milieu of the U.S. is a complicated soup, and often spiritual ideas are convoluted with religions. Religions, though, often provide a basis or path for our spirituality (even your executive coach Shaman is practicing a religion--although he may not admit to it and it probably doesn't have the same kind of dogma as codified Western religions or Eastern practices.)

Discussions of spirituality in the workplace often raise the thorny issue of freedom of religion. Some right-wing Christian groups can claim their political agendas to have a spiritual componenet--and, from their perspective they do. From those of us who do not follow their belief system, they do not. Likewise, an employee with a face full of piercings and tattoos can claim that his/her body adornments are part of a spiritual path, even if we do not think they are (a case in Massachusetts found that a young woman who protested the request to remove her piercings was allowed to keep them in because it was indeed her spiritual practice to have them. that, however, isn't always the case.)

So, bringing spirituality to employees can get complicated real quickly. When we do not know what others hold as their personal beliefs, we just may be stepping on them in a way that we, ourselves, might not want to be stepped upon (not to mention any possible legal ramifications.)

If we can, in our own spaces, cultivate our own practices, and then have those practices positively impact our work, then it's a good thing. We can lead by example, and if people ask us how we succeed, then let them know. But to get more open with employees in the workplace might open up businesses to some negative legal consequences that they never anticipated with their best intentions.

As for aligning one's work with one's spirit--well, that's why I'm freelancing now. The pay stinks, but it's better than working myself senseless (and spirit-less):-)

Tish Grier
Editor, Corante Media Hub ( http://media.corante.com )
Blogging at: The Constant Observer ( http://spap-oop.blogspot.com ) and
Love&Hope&Sex&Dreams ( http://loverhopesexdreams.blogspot.com )

Jory Des Jardins 5 pts

"...After all we're all just making up this "life" thing as we go along!..."

Well said, Paula!

Jory Des Jardins
BlogHer
Personal Blog Pause ( http://www.jorydesjardins.com )

paulag01 5 pts

Great post. I love to see more and more people talking about this very topic. I would say that Spirituality is inextricably linked to business because at the heart of any successful business are people. And, the way a person shows up in the world is integrated with his/her spirituality. Again, spirituality, not religion.

For instance, we all search for meaning and answers to those esoteric questions that fall into our path. For that we have to turn to the mystery of spirituality and the messages we get from something "bigger" than us. Whether we look to a religious teaching or the natural world, the essence is the same.

I've found simply exploring the significance of animals that show up unexpectably in my life to be extremely insightful as to what I need to know, do, or be right now. This very week I encountered 3 unusual (to my everyday existance) animals -- bald eagle, fox, and a mother box turtle laying her eggs -- and all 3 have a strong message for me. Some of what I read applies directly to where I am with my business and career.

So, is that woo-woo? Maybe so, but in the challenges of this world, I'll take some faith, messages from the spirit world, and an added bit of guidance any day. After all we're all just making up this "life" thing as we go along!

Thanks for writing such a great post.

Paula Gregorowicz
The Paula G Company
http://www.thepaulagcompany.com
http://www.coaching4lesbians.com

lynD 5 pts

Finding one's spiritual center improves one's overall functionality in the workplace (I'm content, therefore I can be more efficient; my platform is strong, therefore I am consistent), but people sure do get twitchy when the "S" word arises.

Perhaps one way to bring alignment into the workplace may be to regularly frame work within that meaningful context. For example, how you describe BlogHer to a reporter -- by answering that "so what?" question -- may be how your support staff achieves their own alignment with the business goals. "Why am I dealing with this awful airline?" Remind them that what they do (and HOW they do it) matters.

Happy balancing.

DesiGal 5 pts

Thanks for this wonderful post. I'm going through that phase right now, when I'm asking myself what do I really want from my life. There's this feeling of sitting on pins and needles, I just feel the urge to fidget.

From a big picture perspective I see some positives happening within the technology world today. Open source movements, creative commons licensing, community sharing, networking. The fact that people are even trying to allow the spiritual to influence their business/working lives is great.

Priya Ramachandran
Blogher Contributing Editor - South East Asia
Words on Water ( http://dckimaya.blogspot.com )