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Is Tourist a Dirty Word?

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I rather despise the word, tourist. I always have. Hearing it conjures up all kinds of images in my head, images with sombreros and tequila shots or white legs sticking out of shorts in chic urban areas. My idea of a tourist is someone who is afraid to be alone, goes on tours with groups of people on a crowded bus and speaks only one language. They may or may not go to museums. They may or may not understand the things they are looking at. They may or may not appreciate the local cuisine. They think that having two weeks of vacation time a year is just fine.--Artist at Large

...i always put extreme effort into NOT looking like a tourist, an effort thwarted with almost military precision by grandma, whose motto seems to be "ask more questions." ...probably the crowning humiliation of the entire trip was the point at which she forced me to stand next to a subway musician while she took a picture...-- how now, wit? whither wander you?

Nothing says tourist more than the fold-out map — and nothing is worse than looking like a tourist. --Bagel in Harlem

We all know what these bloggers are talking about. It's the fear of being perceived a white shoes and shorts and t-shirt wearing why don't you take dollars tourist. The horrors. In the blogosphere, this phobia is often accompanied by commentary about how, sorry, there are no photos because "I didn't want to look like one of them."

First off, you need a camera. Don’t worry about looking like a tourist, New York has a large amateur and pro photographer community. Plenty of natives go around getting pictures - the city’s too interesting NOT to.

Real New Yorkers Know has tips on taking pics in New York City and doesn't spend any more time worrying that you'll look like a tourist.

Folks will get in to all kinds of hairsplitting discussions about the difference between travelers and tourists, arguing the superiority of one over the other. But not everyone has the time, freedom, or even the desire to travel below the surface. Being a tourist is not a crime. Plus, odds are high that you actually ARE a tourist, whether you're a gap year backpacker or spending the two weeks you've got sprawling on a tropical beach some where. That is a-okay.

Maybe instead of worrying about how we look when we're traveling, we can worry about how we act instead. Check out the picture of Mongo in Hue.

...it is always important to look the part. Never shave, wear a loud Hawaiian shirt, and always wear your shades!

And here's a quote from his travel story. This guy might look like your typical clueless tourist, but it's his behavior that shows his shining character.

Mongo bowed and gave the traditional Buddhist salute palms pressed together at the chest. The priest smiled at him and dragged him into the room with the Buddha statue by the elbow. He likes you," said the guide. "You very respectful."

Still obsessed about avoiding "the look"? All right. Here's How to Avoid Looking Like a Tourist in New York City. But keep this in mind:

I was worried at first that we would stick out like tourists, but frankly, you probably will anyways.-- Yellow Puma Shoes

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Jill Miller Zimon 7 pts

Pam - we Clevelanders, as you may have heard, just got ROYALLY dissed by NYC theatre people who declared, literally, that they "hate tourists from Cleveland."  Here's the article about it. ( http://blog.cleveland.com/metro/2008/12/broadway_e... )

And here's the article ( http://blog.cleveland.com/metro/2008/12/nyc_says_s... ) about the apologies that came afterwards.

In this economy, it's shocking to me that such hubris would continue to pour out even from NYC theatre folks who most of all should realize the dependence on us dreaded visitors.

JillWrites Like She Talks ( http://www.writeslikeshetalks.com )

SaraMu 5 pts

I've been doing a lot of travel lately and I've totally gotten over the whole "tourist" thing. It used to bother me but now I really could care less. I want to see new things and even if it is a tourist trap, chances are it is new to me. Tourism provides jobs and safe adventures. I say...embrace it.

Sara Mu, freelance writer ( http://www.no2pen.com ), traveler ( http://www.ournewoffice.com ), blogger ( http://www.datingtales.net ), and skin care aficionado. ( http://www.blogher.com/www.skinfitnessfacts.com )

Pam 5 pts

I'm just wrapping up my stay in Vegas, where if you're not a tourist, lord, you must live here and for that, there is no sympathy card. But hallelujah,. Jules, travel isn't a competitive sport and the truly authentic experience happens inside the person doing the - oh, let's say touring for now and walk away from the traveler/tourist debate. It's like there's some kind of chops you earn for not being recognized as not being from somewhere. Whatever.

I was swanning about my city about a month ago,camera on my shoulder, and I wandered in to an unknown tea house after lurking outside the window for a while. "Where you from?" asked the really friendly Chinese lady who ran the shop. "Um, about a mile from here..."

State of mind. And how grand to be exploring in your very own home. What a joy to find the undiscovered in your backyard.

Nerd's Eye View ( http://www.nerdseyeview.com )

Trisha 5 pts

I don't really care if someone calls me a tourist - or what they think about it. Except for the safety issue. I think people who are perceived as being tourist are more likely to be targets for crime.

Jules 5 pts

The whole Traveller/Tourist debate is something that really irks me, probably because every time I have run into a "traveller", they have this cooler-than-thou attitude and are the first to tell you how they did it better/cheaper/more authentic - as if travelling is a competitive sport!

And I'm pretty sure that the locals don't draw the distinction between "traveller" and "tourist" either.

Jules

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Pam 5 pts

I dunno, I might be for reclaiming the word "tourist." Last summer we spent six weeks in western Canada and there was no way we were anything but tourists, roadtripping in our little car full of camping gear, stopping in at all that nat'l parks and scenic view points...and there wasn't anything WRONG with that. And we do Debra's 'traveler at home' all the time right here in Seattle. Head down to the market when a cruise ship is in and tell me who's not a tourist - it's nigh impossible. But so what! It's a-okay to pass through and hit the highlights - I think - if that's what you've got time for.

You're either a local or your not. And while it may be the ultimate flattery to be mistaken for a local, It's not an insult to be asked "Where are you folks from?" The thing that inspires that question isn't always a Hawaiian shirt and a camera, it can just be a sense of wonder on your face. And that sense of wonder is what travel is all about.

Nerd's Eye View ( http://www.nerdseyeview.com )

Julie Marsh 5 pts

Having worked in one of the prime tourist areas of New York (Theater District/Times Square area), I loved the "how to avoid looking like a tourist" link. Most of the advice is right on. I'd add that you shouldn't walk more than two abreast and don't look up at the buildings. Both of those are dead giveaways.

But I've taken pictures while walking around the city myself - in particular, I remember taking a picture of one of the huge inflatable union rats.

When I've traveled, I didn't worry so much about appearing to be a tourist than I did about making sure I researched the trip and hit all the high points while I was there.

Debra Roby 5 pts

IF I'm somewhere where I may never return and I'm there for a very short period of time.. I'm definately a tourist hitting the high spots. I'm usually satisfied with what I've seen, but feel a jipped for not getting to know the place.

Remarkably, I'm coming to discover that what I need to change from a tourist to a traveler is time on my own.

When I accompany my husband on his businss trips, I try to learn about the city. I study maps at breakfast, then flip a coin over which direction I'll head when I walk out the door. I ride the buses and trains, walk for miles, look for lunch spots where the locals are eating and order what they eat at the tables around me.

I rarely shop. And rarely take time mid-day to rest (the main reasons I've always needed to do this alone... other people's expectations). I do actively people-watch.

In a new town, I always try to visit the zoo and atleast one museum... ideally a history or cultural museum that explains something of the place. I always bring my camera. But I get more looks taking pictures in my neighborhood! (my current "photo fad"..)

See? I think in my soul I want to be a traveller. I just may need to find the time, cash and probably a like-minded soul to do more of this.

And truthfully, I live in one of the prime "tourist" areas in North America (the sf bay area), and know I haven't investigated this region enough. I could easily choose to become a traveller here one day a month. Anyone else interested?

Debra
A Stitch In Time ( http://astitchintime.blogspot.com )
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