Momo Fali

I am the BlogHer Social Media Manager and a mostly stressed-out, insomniac mom of two kids. I have a 14 year old daughter, an 11 year old son with special-needs, a sports-fanatic husband, one awesome dog, and I have blogged since 2007 at Momo Fali where I desperately seek an audience who feels my pain

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“Making the decision to have a child – it is momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body.” – Elizabeth Stone That Elizabeth Stone was a smart cookie. How else can you describe the feeling of creating and carrying a child; protecting and nurturing her before she can even breathe on her own, then slowly, over the course of time, allow her to become her own being? ...more

Christmas Crafts

In the midst of shopping, wrapping, singing and snacking, our family has been hit with the flu. My 15-year old daughter missed her first day of school in years, I got a bonus bronchial infection and my 12-year old, autistic son felt so bad that he actually allowed a nurse to swab his nose without a fight. My husband? ...more

My Christmas Wish List 2014

All I want for Christmas is a major life shift, world peace, the end to systemic discrimination, and endless love, but since I can’t have those things, here’s my real wishlist. Oh, wait. I can’t have these things either ....more

Why We Should Forgive Ray Rice

Hold on. Let me tell you where I’m coming from. Before I met my husband, to whom I’ve been married for over 17 years, I was in an abusive relationship ....more

Just Listen

I didn’t grow up with black friends. I lived in a white suburb, surrounded by white neighbors. I don’t remember a single person of color in my elementary school and there were only a handful in my very large high school ....more

The Epitome of Morals

My daughter is currently working on a paper for her English class which she has titled, “The Epitome of Morals.” Obviously, I am the subject matter. Oh, okay that’s not true. It’s Atticus Finch ....more


This post was inspired by Netflix. Come see what we’re watching. If you had to pick one friend with whom to get stuck on a deserted island, who would you pick? ...more

My Girl

On Monday, she volunteered for her service project after school then went to basketball practice. On Wednesday, she volunteered again, then dog-sat for her grandmother and babysat her brother. On Thursday, we got a letter saying she had made honor role again ....more


I cried real tears when my first pair of favorite jeans got an irreparable hole in an unfortunate spot. Ahem. There are only so many places you can put a patch ....more

Whistle Practice

Luna’s favorite place, other than the middle of the couch, is the rug in our kitchen. It’s also where she does most of her head-tilting. This is like trumpet practice, but different ....more