Stirrup Queens

I'm the Blogging & Social Media editor as well as the Health editor at BlogHer.  Which means some days I'm talking about new ways to navigate Facebook and then turning around and discussing your heart health.

I write Stirrup Queens when I'm not reading other people's blogs, cooking, or chasing after my twins.

I'm the author of four books: Life from Scratch (Belle Books, 2010), a novel about blogging, Measure of Love (Belle Books, 2013), and the forthcoming Apart at the Seams (Belle Books, 2014).  I also wrote Navigating the Land of If (Seal Press, 2009), a non-fiction book about infertility and pregnancy loss.  You can always find information about my books on my author site.  Plus I love to talk about writing and publishing.

You can find me on Facebook and on Twitter. And you can reach me via email at

Did We Create Digital Addiction?

Okay, here’s a question: If we (and by “we,” I mean people in general and not you and I) hadn’t invented the smartphone, would we have social media addiction?...more

643rd Friday Blog Roundup

We signed up for Hulu for Buffy the Vampire Slayer....more

Changing the Script

I have started this post three times now because each thing I wrote strayed from “the script” as Nathan Bransford would say....more

Resting the Mind

We have emergency rooms for physical injuries, but where are the emergency rooms for battered souls? ******* I clicked on the headline because it promised me refuge from mentally looping through the news about North Korea for a 3000th time....more

#MicroblogMondays 138: Easter

Not sure what #MicroblogMondays is? Read the inaugural post which explains the idea and how you can participate too. ******* Linus’s breeder announced that she has a few new guinea pig babies that will be ready for homes in the next month....more

The Magic Play

Some people have a normal love of magic....more

642nd Friday Blog Roundup

The Guardian had a really good story about two Lisa Davises born on the same day and living in the same city that New York cannot seem to tell apart....more


We accidentally wake up the kids in the middle of the night on a regular basis, putting laundry back in their drawers or checking on them....more

You Were a Child Once, Too

The topic of DC restaurants banning kids came up at a meeting last week....more

#MicroblogMondays 137: Picking Prizes

Not sure what #MicroblogMondays is? Read the inaugural post which explains the idea and how you can participate too. ******* The ChickieNob beat me in cards, and I told her that she could pick the prize....more