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Answering the question of how does she do it

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When I met Chris Jordan in person for the first time about a week and a half ago---despite having "known" her for a time prior---I couldn't get over how calm and rested she appeared to be. She's a mother to seven kids. Couldn't she have the decency to look a little harried??

But harried is not Chris' style, and that's part of why her personal blog, Notes From The Trenches (formerly The Big Yellow House) enjoys such a huge following. I can't speak for anyone else, but I know that I often turn to Chris' unflappable wit to remind myself that with "only" two kids, I should probably find a way to suck it up.

Recently Chris launched a second blog, In The Trenches of Motherhood, aimed at answering the question she hears over and over: "How do you do it?" And I'll confess that even though I know she hates that question, I found myself asking it; because really, either she's a robot or she knows something the rest of us don't. And if it's the latter I want her to TELL ME. Immediately.

This week Chris is tackling vacationing with kids and I'm really looking forward to the whole series. The prospect of actually managing to have fun on a trip with my kids is one that is still slightly foreign to me, in my Type-A existence. I can't wait to learn from Chris' wisdom and perhaps become a little more unflappable, myself.

Mir

BlogHer Contributing Editor Mir also blogs at Woulda Coulda Shoulda and Want Not.

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Denise 40 pts moderator

That, is an understatement. But I've seen you make bigger messes. Luckily you only cooked once today.

~Denise
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Denise 40 pts moderator

I'm not sure why you need to do either/or. You simply need to find livebloggers for both chat and blogs. heh. And, of course, you need a reliable connection for people attempting to live blog, whether it is in chat or on a blog.

I really am working on an email about some of this stuff. But, little kids came home and that was more important.

And, I'm still tired.

~Denise
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TW 9 pts

Ok, this brings me to an important question, much more important than how does she do it. I mean I got that. I can do that. (ha) What I want to know is how does she do it without getting sweaty and dirty? I made breakfast today and messed up my minti t-shirt AND totalled the kitchen. We won't talk about the rest of my sweaty dirty day.~TW ( http://ramblewoman.blogspot.com )

Erin Kotecki Vest 5 pts

I'm not kidding. I was INSISTING there was NO WAY that was her. Even after I met Chris, I stuck to my guns and declared she was actually Chris' sister or something. She looked too good. Too organzied. And waaaay too clean. I mean, there wasn't a wrinkle on that woman! And she was so darn nice. And did I mention friendly? If I had seven kids I'd be in an asylum. She looked like this Angel Mother, sent from happy kid land, here to tell us all how to stay calm and not strangle our tiny ones.

Did I mention I love her? My girl crush list just keeps growing and growing.

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Kalyn Denny 5 pts

I have a sister who had 8 kids, and she amazes me. Sometimes the kids come and stay with me (2 or 3 at a time) and I'm plenty harried by the time they go home.

Kalyn Denny
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peetred 5 pts

I envy her.... She is definately doing something right! :)

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Lisa Stone 7 pts

(thread drift)

I just want to thank you again for being the chat-host with the most-est at the conference.

Next year I am eager to do a much better job of scheduling chats by session. Some people like chats, some people like live blogs. What do you think the right mix is?

Now - I hear toy has some of the podcasts ready, so I'm off to see...

(/thread drift)

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Denise 40 pts moderator

Are you trying to draw attraction to that post up there so I will be forced to gush for the millionth time about Chris?

You, Lisa Stone, are a bad influence. If I have to gush about her again, and that non-stop gushing drives people away from this network then you will have only yourself to blame!

Hey, how about an I worship Big Yellow House errr that Trenches blog workshop at Blogher07? You could fill the room.

~Denise
Daily Dose of Denise ( http://flamingohouse.blogs.com ) and Fast Times @ Homeschool High ( http://fasttimes.clubmom.com )

Denise 40 pts moderator

I know everyone is tired of me talking about how much I adore Chris so I'm ignoring this post. I never saw it. Nope, I'm not going to gush about Chris again.

~Denise
Daily Dose of Denise ( http://flamingohouse.blogs.com ) and Fast Times @ Homeschool High ( http://fasttimes.clubmom.com )