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Friday Film Favorites: Movies that had an impact on your teen years

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Contributing Editor Stefania Pomponi Butler blogs CityMama and Family Food, and contributes to KimchiMamas.

I grew up in Atherton, California, a sleepy commuter suburb of San Francisco. Like every suburban small town viewed through "teen eyes," it was booooooooring. ("God, there's nothing to do here. This town sucks.") What didn't suck, however, was the Varsity Theater in nearby Palo Alto (now a Borders Books; yes, I signed the petition) where all the cute skater boys hung out and where you could see a double feature for $4 every Friday and Saturday night. I spent more time watching movies there with my friends than doing just about anything else. It was our weekend ritual.

It was there that I learned to love movies, especially the angst-ridden teen movies that are so etched in my being. Like a good teenager, I internalized every. single. one. (Then was a complete asshole to my parents.)

I'm so going to date myself, but I'd like to present five movies for a tortured teenage soul that had the greatest impact on me. I could watch them over and over again. In no particular order I give you:>

1. Valley Girl (1983): Like ohmygawd!  It's a young Nic Nage in his star-making role as a punk rock teenager! Deborah Foreman (the female lead, whatever happened to her?) totally looked as old as mom even back then.

2. The Outsiders (1983): The movie version of the S.E. Hinton classic starred Matt Dillion, Ralph Macchio, C. Thomas Howell, Patrick Swayze, Rob Lowe, Emilio Estevez, Tom Cruise, Leif Garrett, and, oh yeah, Diane Lane.  Director Francis Ford Coppola is no fool.  He knew exactly who his target market was and made sure every single member of it would pay to see this movie.

3. Fame (1980): This movie changed my life. I had been taking ballet classes since I was five years old and loved dance more than anything. After I saw Fame, I concentrated less on ballet and focused on other forms of dance. And, I also wanted to attend the High School for the Performing Arts. (Fame joins The Turning Point, and Flashdance to complete my ultimate dance movie triumverate.)

4. Quadrophenia (1979): I have seen this movie too many times to count.  My favorite part?  Sting, of course. I always said that when I was old enough I'd go to Brighton...I've been England, but never made it there. Maybe I'm holding out to see it by Vespa.

5. Endless Love (1981): My love...there's only you in my life...the only thing that's right... Come on, admit it. You loved this movie, too. It had everything: King of Melodrama Franco Zeffirelli directing, Brooke Shields doing what she does best—teen sex, and tons of teenage angst. "What do mean I can't see him?!  He's my boyfriend!!! (sob!)"  If you haven't seen this recently, trust me, you must. rent. it.

I showed you mine, now you show me yours! Which movies had the greatest impact on your teen years?

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Vixendoll 5 pts

yah - but she made up for the bad dress by driving the cool karma ghia.

Vixendoll 5 pts

Ok I'll bite - I mean share...

In this order…

Heathers
Valley Girl (when I wasn’t watching Sarah Jessica Parker play a nerd in ‘Square Pegs’)
Less Than Zero
Pretty in Pink
Sixteen Candles
Breakfast Club
Princess Bride

dferrero 5 pts

In addition to several mentioned above (Sixteen Candles, The Breakfast Club, Dirty Dancing, et. al.) some of my favorite "classics" (cough) include:

The Princess Bride - ""Life is pain, highness, anyone who says anything different is selling something."

Ferris Beuler's Day Off - "Its a little childish and stupid, but then again, so is high-school."

An Officer & a Gentleman - "In every class, there's always one joker who thinks that he's smarter than me. In this class, that happens to be you. Isn't it, Mayonnaise?"

ET - The Extraterrestrial - "Beeeeeee. Gooood."

kimba 5 pts

I forgot all about Franco Zefferelli's 'Romeo and Juliet'!!! How scandalous that he used actual teenagers for the parts of the doomed romantic lovers.

(And then there was also 'Love Story', 'Tommy', 'Jesus Christ Superstar', 'Hair' and 'Apocolypse Now', all done in the 70s.)

maryrwise 5 pts

I was a teenager in the 60s. (Oof!) Here are the three that came immediately to my mind:

Doctor Zhivago -- I must have seen it 15 times. So tragic! So romantic! And Omar Sharif was so hot!

West Side Story -- More romance! More tragedy! But I only saw that one about 8 times.

A Hard Day's Night -- I was 13 and the Beatles had just exploded into America. I loved it, loved them, and became a rock and roll addict.

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Julie Marsh 5 pts

Definitely "Dead Poets Society". Good-looking (mostly) guys reading poetry - what's not to love?

And Rocky Horror, of course. Seen in the theater, every Saturday night, accompanied by props.

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crazedparent 5 pts

Pretty In Pink by far, one of my favorites.

Sixteen Candles

Say Anything (I still love that movie, though Ione Skye really bugs me now).

I'm almost embarrassed to admit this one: Lucas. When Charlie Sheen wasn't such a freak!

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kimba 5 pts

Hmmm .... even in the 70s there weren't any teenage movies. I think we had to wait until the 80s before teenagers were considered to a teenage commodity and by then I was in my twenties.

The biggest impact commerical movie of the 70s for us young folk back then - Star Wars. It showed us we could do anything.

CityMama 5 pts

But there are only so many times you can walk Santa Cruz or Univ. Ave (both of which pretty much sucked back then). They were not the chichi destinations they are now, not by a long shot. Univ. Ave was full of hippies and weird head shops and every other person on Santa Cruz Ave was 70 or older.

We spent a lot of time at the Woolworth's (candy, anyone?) in Stanford Shopping Center (Yes! A Woolworths! In the same mall that houses Nieman-Marcus, Tiffany, and Oilily! I'm telling you, it wasn't like it is now...It was right where Banana Republic currently is.) And I think the Contempo Casuals is now Bally store.

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CityMama 5 pts

I remember thinking: "You borrow all those cool dresses from Annie Potts and "THAT'S WHAT YOU COME UP WITH?!"

But yes, I did love Ducky. "Juice box?"

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Elisa Camahort 8 pts

Not so exciting. Most of the movies I remember most fondly are from my 20s.

Although my friends and I did go see Hair more than once at the midnight movies. It was our Rocky Horror, I suppose.

PS-Atherton itself may be a sleepy town, but it's a few spare minutes away from lots to do. When I went to college it was the kids from places like Rio Vista and Crescent City and other small towns in the middle of more small towns who were the major drinkers and druggies...because movies like Dazed and Confused had it right: there was literally nothing else to do but gather in someone's basement or an empty lot and drink!

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Clamo88 6 pts

Sixteen Candles of course!...Anything that had Molly Ringwald in it!..OH and I SOOOO loved John Cusak. I think that I watched every cheesy 80's movie that he was in. For example, Better Off Dead...and some other forgettable role about sailing a boat in some contest. I would definitely agree that Dirty Dancing was a big one. I remember my best friend owned the movie and would constantly watch it. She had the soundtrack and would sing to it and act out all the parts. So many "up til 3am slumber parties" watching all of these movies that I can't even remember them all. It was fun!

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Karen Walrond 5 pts

I admit it -- I was in love with Ducky! Come ON! Those shoes? That hair?

Great post, Stefania!

K.

Debra Roby 5 pts

Is it sad that I can think of no movies that had a great impact on my teenaged years? Most of the movies being made in the late 60s were aimed at the adult audience or they were kitchy-hip but completely forgettable. (I'm thinking of the Beach Blanket/Gidget/Tammy/ Elvis variety of movie. Looking through the AFI lists of movies for that period:

In the Heat of Night
Guess Who's Coming To Dinner
Cool Hand Luke
Midnight Cowboy
Bonnie and Clyde
The Graduate
The Producers (the original..and still the better film)
The Odd Couple

Great movies.. but nothing to feed the teenaged-angst ridden soul. All that came later, you lucky ducks.
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CityMama 5 pts

Excellent choice.

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Karen Rani 5 pts

I must have watched that movie 100's of times. I carried a watermelon. I carried a watermelon?

Still love it.
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AngieLaa 5 pts

Say Anything!

Everyone is looking for a Lloyd Dobbler right? This movie came out when I was 8 years old. Now I didn't watch it then, but it became a crucial part of my movie collection in my teenage years! This movie is timeless and everyone can identify with it!

I've been sitting here trying to think of some teen movies from actually my time, but none of them compare to that movie. My teen years were the beginning of those cheesy stupid teen movie phase they starting makeing like She's All That and Drive Me Crazy! Not quite the same as those great 80's movies!

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CityMama 5 pts

It was the first movie I ever saw her in and she blew me away. (Now I don't like her so much.)

I was obsessed with every John Hughes movie...but Breakfast Club was definitely my favorite.

Was that the pirate movie with the singing? Pirates of Penzance?

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Erin Kotecki Vest 5 pts

The Breakfast Club (I actually left a diamond stud earring in the "bad" boy's locker at school.)

Mystic Pizza (I have a formal dress from homecoming that looks just like the one Julia Roberts wore)

Heathers (those stupid bad boys, again...I didn't kill anyone, though)

Some horrible Pirate dream movie with Kristy McNichol and that blonde boy. All I remember is thinking it was really dirty.
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