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Welcome to the Real World: An Introduction

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On May 8th, 2005 I found myself in the precarious, yet expected, position of being a college graduate. It’s funny how the day before, everything was awesome and I had health insurance and had spent every last dime on a five month bender through Europe. By May 9th, a gorgeous Monday morning, I almost had a nervous breakdown while cruising through Georgetown on babysitting interviews. I had been asked no less than 50 times what I would be doing after graduation and while I had had some idea of what I wanted to do when I first began my college years, suddenly I was at a loss. And there’s really nothing like babysitting after four years of university to make you really question if graduating was really worth it. You will find out soon enough that I tend to be hyperbolic and go to extremes. I thought I was a failure because I didn’t have a job to start that Monday and my “unemployment� lasted all of six weeks. Six strenuous weeks in which I actually started baking and cleaning my apartment on a regular basis. That’s some serious stuff right there.

It was around this time that I started blogging because wouldn’t it be fun to share my woes and over dramatic behavior with the world? I describe my personal blog as a “neurotic and narcissistic account of my first year out of college.� Though I’m now on my second year out, I’m just as neurotic and narcissistic as I was a year ago and still wondering how much to contribute to my 401K. Think of this new little space here on BlogHer as the diary of a “young workaholic.� Though that’s a tad misleading: I’m young, but not yet near workaholic status. I mean really, did you know that jobs – unlike school or internships – require you to be there for like 8 whole hours a day sans a nap? Let’s just say that going from a lovely life of spa visits and shopping at 11 AM on a weekday to a life of having to be responsible and go to work every. Single. Day. Has been quite an awakening. Not to mention that I can’t even afford neither the spa visits nor the shopping anymore.

Anyway that’s me, Heather B. A brand spanking new Contributing Editor to BlogHer. Delving into a world of career-dom (Scary!) and playing grown up. I can tell you one thing though; playing grown up used to be fun, now it just makes me want to cry. I know, I sound really awesome already.

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Accidental Olympian 5 pts

I think what I miss the most is SLEEPING IN! Remember what it was like to have an 'early' class that started at 9:30? Oh how I used to grumble...

The Accidental Olympian ( http://www.accidentalolympian.typepad.com )

Jory Des Jardins 5 pts

One of my favorite topics is getting over the disillusionment I had in my 20s about career. I'm looking foward to living vicariously through your 20s!

Jory Des Jardins
BlogHer
Personal Blog Pause ( http://www.jorydesjardins.com )

lorie 5 pts

You are famous now! Please continue with your awesomeness immediately.

Mistress Of The Dorkness 5 pts

It totally wasn't a bad thing. Swing shifts, nights shifts, day shifts, morning call-ins.
I hated having to wake up at 5:30 to drive into 'the office'. Of course... after about two years or so, I grew to like my quiet early mornings, and it was nice to have a set schedule instead of the way my previous jobs were.
Anyway, I look forward to reading more posts by you, you've got such a fun style! :-D

Melanie Perry
***not all who wander are lost***
http://mistressofthedorkness.blogspot.com

sassymonkey 6 pts

Welcome! And yep, as a newly minted grown up myself I agree that it was far more fun when I used to just pretend to be one.

Monkey Trouble ( http://sassymonkey.wordpress.com/ ), Sassymonkey Reads ( http://sassymonkeyreads.wordpress.com/ ), and Sassymonkey Eats ( http://sassymonkeyeats.wordpress.com/ )

HeatherB 5 pts

I could write an entire post about that. Hmm, maybe I will.

Heather B.
No Pasa Nada
http://heatherbarmore.blogspot.com

jes 5 pts

HB, it took me a full TWO YEARS to acclimate myself to the fact that I would no longer have summer vacations. I'm still working on the not-staying-up-until-two-a.m. thing. Unsuccessully.

jes ( http://www.chirky.com )

Mir Kamin 6 pts

I look forward to reading more, particularly as an old lazy person (sorry, I couldn't resist). ;)

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Mir from WCS
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Elana Centor 5 pts

Looking forward to reading about "a young workaholic" and learning about the business world throught the eyes of someone who doesn't feel they have "been there and done that."

elana
Blogher Contributing Editor,Business&CareersFunnyBusiness ( http://funnybusiness.typepad.com/funnybusiness )