Not your traditional bridal stuff
Yes, I am a fiancee, a bride to be. The thing is, I hate weddings. I like the idea of being married, but the hub-bub necessary to get to that point freaks me out.
Before I even met my fiance, Paul, I had decided that if I ever do get married, we’re having a small wedding in Las Vegas. I don’t even know 100 people I’d invite to a party, much less have the means to pay for such a huge shindig. Personally, I’d rather spend that money on a trip or a down payment on a house, or both.
Aside from the monetary issue, there is the stress issue. I don’t need unnecessary stress in my life and I don’t want to get stressed out about becoming Paul’s wife and Paul becoming my husband.
First off, don’t ask about the engagement ring. Personally, I got turned off by them when I found out in college that they were pretty much created by a diamond company to artificially inflate the diamond market. There’s an example of marketing well done.
However, if Paul has his heart set on giving me one, I will accept it. I’m not a fool and it would make him happy. We’ve already booked the ceremony and our flights for our trip to Vegas and subsequent honeymoon, so a ring is just a formality. We are engaged to be married because we have been discussing it for months and came to a meeting of the minds on it.
Technically, we didn’t get engaged on Christmas. We just announced it on Facebook that day...
Read the entire post at my blog, Chronicles of Nothing.