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Note to Parents

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Parents, please note:

  • your child’s teacher does not hate your child;

  • your child’s teacher does not have it in for your child;
  • your child’s teacher is not failing your child;
  • your child’s teacher does not purposely NOT tell the homework assignment to your child;
  • your child’s teacher does not purposely NOT pass handouts to your child.

Parents, if your child is telling you those things:

  • maybe it’s in your child’s mind;
  • maybe your child has done something to disturb the teacher;
  • perhaps your child talks during class;
  • perhaps your child sleeps during class (oh, sorry, rests his head on the desk and closes his eyes so that he can better concentrate);
  • perhaps your child does not pay attention (oh, sorry, focuses well but the way the teacher expresses herself is not understood by your child);
  • perhaps your child left the handout in class;
  • perhaps your child did not: do the homework, take the homework from home, take the homework out of the backpack, and/or pay attention when the teacher collected the homework.

Does your child clean up his/her room when you ask him/her?

Hmmm, maybe there’s a pattern here that is repeated in school.

But wait, how many children do you have and do you ever get upset with them?

As a high school teacher I have approximately 125 students. Guess what?

  • It bothers me when they don’t do their work.
  • It bothers me when they don’t pay attention.
  • It bothers me when they mock me.

Yes, it’s true, I am a person.

So next time you want to accuse a teacher of sabotaging your child’s future, go find your kid in his room and speak to him—honestly—about what is really happening in school because it generally is not the teacher’s fault that he got an F, D, C, or B (if you are so grade-greedy).

Signed,
A caring but annoyed teacher.

Laura, www.RebelliousThoughtsofaWoman.com

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JC 5 pts

Actually, you don't since they reside in Arizona.  Sweet but not the brightest bulbs (the apples don't fall far from the tree.)

I have a niece who's been teaching freshman English for the past three years and she's had some real horror stories.  Her first year out, they gave her the at-risk students (those on the verge of continuation school).  Talk about a birth by fire.  I've heard her stories and it's unbelievable but true.  There are simply parents who don't care.  

Then there are the students who are actually motivated and probably make all the difference to you (I hope). 

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rebellious thinker 5 pts

JC, I've attended parent-teacher conferences (which must be with a counselor present) when the parents seem shocked that I am an actual person, who is not frothing at the mouth as she spit-speaks. They expect to see a fire-breathing dragon or at the very least a teacher like Miss Trunchbull in  Mathilda. It's as if they are confronted for the first time with the possibility that their darling is stretching the truth just a bit.

I wonder if I have your aunt's children's children in some of my classes.    

Laura, www.RebelliousThoughtsofaWoman.com ( http://www.rebelliousthoughtsofawoman.com/ )

JC 5 pts

Rather than take an honest look at our child/home situation, turn off the television, take away the video games.  I had an aunt that used to rail against the school system in her town (even at age 12 I was a bit skeptical).  One out of four of her children actually graduated high school.  Hmm, school's fault?  I think not.

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