Nothing Feels Better Than Family
By CHRISTYPHX09 on January 25, 2009
2008 was a hard year for millions of people. Many of us probably are still struggling with finances and wondering if our jobs are safe.
What better time is it to reconnect with our families? Spend more time at home playing games with your kids or just go for a walk with them. Read books, go outside or just ’hang out’ with them? What would your children say to you if you were 100% there for them with no distractions?
The next time they go to their room, go with them and just be there for them. Just sit there with them and do nothing but watch them until they start interacting with you.
Depending on their age they might hand you a toy (2-3 year olds), they might want you to play ‘make believe’ with them (4-5 year olds), or they might just say something so astoundingly astute to you such as ”our democracy is a great thing, except for the part about letting anyone vote” (6-7 year olds). And yes, my 7 1/2 year old daughter really said that. It was last October during election season! We laughed so hard.
Anywho, what do you think your children would say to you if they noticed you sitting there for 5 minutes just totally focused on them?
Remember when our children were babies and we would just sit on the floor with them and watch them explore? Remember their sincere delight when they noticed you were sitting there just for them? Our children still need that closeness.
Something that I found that works really well to break the ice is right after dinner go around the table and start with the youngest and play the ‘high/low’ game. Their high is what made them smile the most that day, and their low is what made them sad or unhappy that day. I wish I could take credit for this idea but I can’t. It came from the movie “Story of Us” with Michelle Pheifer and Bruce Willis. Love that movie and I still cry every time I watch it!
Also, don’t neglect your spouse. They need one on one time as well. Get the kids to bed a little earlier tonight and make a separate dinner under candle light for just the 2 of you.
I’m feeling a little mushy tonight because today we had a family photo shoot with the photographer who’s going to shoot our wedding. It was supposed to be an engagement session but we already got that done so we wanted to include the kids.
We met Jennifer from O’Grace Photography at the Fairmont Scottsdale Princess
and she took some really great photos. She’s big on candid shots and so I am so I can’t wait to see all the images. I’ll post some once I get them.
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