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OFFICIAL BLOGHER '10 LIVEBLOG: Little Fish in a Big Pond - Understanding and Loving Your Small Blog

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NORA: I should probably start by making sure you’re all in the right place. This is Little Fish in a Big Pond. And it’s good to know that so many people are here. I’m Nora. And we’re going to talk some about some of the benefits of having a small blog, the ways that you might love it a little more at the end and potentially some ways to make change if you decide you don’t want to have a small blog and we’ll hopefully be guided a lot by your thoughts and questions. I wanted to open by saying, My name is Nora and I have a small blog. Now that that’s out of the way our Small Bloggers Anon. meeting can begin. Basically the three of us talked on the phone and over e-mail and I blinked first on who would organize the session, so if I start to say something and start dumb I’ll refer to Catherine and Celeste. I know people start blogs for different reasons but a lot of people start blogs to inform their families about their travel, their children, whatever. You do it to build an audience, to practice your writing, to promote your art, your writing, your photography, etc. You want to change the world. That seems really important. And I know that the first time you get a comment you feel really excited and you think oh, wow. And after a while you think maybe that one isn’t enough maybe I need more readers and more comments. I’m been blogging for five years and some days I love my small blog and some days I hate it. But I wrote down some things I really lie about having a small blog and one of them is, it’s a lot less work. I know that sounds terrible, but I have a five year old and twin one-year olds. And one coming. And I also have a job and I can leave the blog for several days and not worry that my readers will be pounding down the door or will go away and not come back. And I think there’s also a lot of work involved in getting readers that has nothing to do with your blog, it’s commenting and visiting and Twitter.

CATHERINE: to some extent you can get out there and comment, comment, comment, read, post, etc., and it doesn’t always work. There are 10 billion other blogs out there and traffic is spread around a lot. I agree with Nora that the less work aspect is pretty nice. A big reason I started blogging was to be a part of the community. I have a small circle of faithful readers and commenters and I love it. I know I’m going to hear from them and I feel lucky, I consider them my friends. The bigger you get the harder it’d be to know them personally.

CELESTE: It never occurred to me there was such a big community. The first blog I read didn’t have comments for years. He just wrote about anything he felt like, his daughter, his dog, ordering pizza, and I thought well if he can do that, okay. And I’ve never changed my mind about how I feel about my blog since then. It’s whatever I want and that won’t be of interest to everyone in the world so I’m happy with the audience I get for that. You kind of have to decide what your goals are and how much you’re willing to put in. The community part was a huge bonus.

NORA: One of the other things is that, and maybe the audience will have something to say on this, but the idea on the mental track, this is supposed to be a fun thing, I would jokingly say my navel-gazing thing. But sometimes I think, oh, I need to post, and how do I write this in a way to elicit a response. And I don’t know if that ever happens to you or how you get past it?

CATHERINE: It’s happened to me less in the past year. I think since BlogHer. I can’t point to any moment, but I thought, I like the way it is, I like who I’m writing for and I don’t need fame and fortune and since then I’ve never checked my stats and I write when I feel like writing. It was very

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bfeldman 5 pts

Although I have a network of sites that get over a million visitors a month, I also am the owner of a small blog, where I writing for personal reasons (http://mymothersjewelrybox.com).

And where I do frequently feel the sting of "writing for the wind."

whitneybee 5 pts

I've had a small blog for almost 10 years (no advertising, rarely linked to by anyone else), and it's just been in the past year or so that I've begun to get over the jealousy of bigger blogs and started to appreciate my blog for what it is. Reading everything above just helps confirm what I've started to realize about my little blog. I wish I would have been there in person to participate, but reading it here still really helped. Thank you!

ceceev 5 pts

I was unable to make the conference, and I so appreciate this report on the live discussion! We are a small blog and we write for the joy of writing and to put a voice to things that are important to us.We get very few comments. We are 2 voices from 2 women who are very different and each post is a creative challenge as we meld our voices and write back and forth on each post...."we laugh and tell the other "add you 2,4,6 or 8 cents!

We keep looking to discover other writers in our same niche and really cannot find any yet...but we keep looking and we so love the good fit we have at Blog Her!

Thanks for your perspectives on the "Little Pond!"
cece

Cece-one of The Two Whos

http://www.thetwowhos.com

guarros 5 pts

Listening to the panel and their point of view was fantastic. By in large the full participation, excitement and honesty of the group and room as a whole was inspiring! Great session! I love my little pond, but it needs work. I want to have the best dang pond to swim in! This session has jolted a drive to continue to improve. Thank you!

Celeste Lindell 5 pts

It's so gratifying to hear such positive comments about the panel. I think we're actually building our own little community here.

Celeste Lindell
averagejane.blogs.com ( http://averagejane.blogs.com )

fouragainsttwo 6 pts

This session was perfect for me in the fact that my blogging isn't my "job" or my way to make money, just my way to have a little bit of fun. The entire conference was fun and informative, but this hour was just what I needed for my little blog!
Mandy W.

FourAgainstTwo.com

Dawn 5 pts

after thinking about this session more. I proposed a conference stream (?) or stand alone small conference for Small Bloggers - or perhaps people more concerned about their story telling or other aspects of their blog, rather than monetization.

(In my head I called it either the "Art" of blogging - or the Blogher conference for Introverts)

Not that I am hating on the other angles - it just doesn't appeal to me in the least.

I think there are places for all of us - Those who want to get bigger, and those of us who have a different vision for our blogs and why we are attracted to blogging.

But thank you for being the only session I attended AND a springboard for (maybe) retaining a little BlogHer world for us small blogs.

mayberry 5 pts

Thank you for this liveblog and to all who attended or left a supportive comment! It was amazing to be in the room with you all.

I promised to include here some of the links Nora, Celeste and I traded while preparing for this session. They are (with some commentary from us):

Manifesto: I Am Not A Brand - http://www.blogher.com/manifesto I think this speaks to a lot of "life bloggers" who balk at the idea of commodifying their blogs. This is a great follow-up on the subject: http://www.knottyyarn.com/blog/commodification-bra... ( http://www.knottyyarn.com/blog/commodification-bra... )

http://twitter.com/gapingvoid/status/16862046094 - A great tweet, "It's always tempting to think, 'I should have more readers'. Wrong. You have EXACTLY the number of readers you deserve, no more, no less..."

20 Warning Signs that Your Content Sucks: http://www.copyblogger.com/does-my-content-suck/ - I think this topic is worth touching on, especially for people who are actively trying to grow their blogs and may not realize what could be holding them back.

http://twitpic.com/1ixu03 "No matter what ... I think it is awesome that you blog."

This post by Loralee Choate @ BlogHer touches on some of the attacks bigger bloggers get: http://www.blogher.com/hey-jealousy-blogigng-kind-... And this post by Lindsey from Suburban Turmoil has a nice "why I do this" message: http://suburbanturmoil.blogspot.com/2010/03/little...

post by Megan Jordan about stats: http://www.velveteenmind.com/velveteenmind/2010/02... ( http://www.velveteenmind.com/velveteenmind/2010/02... )
and also: http://outspokenmedia.com/blogging/outdated-blog-r...

some ways to grow that are true to your style and needs, in this post from Kim Moldofsky: http://hormonecoloreddays.blogspot.com/2010/02/how... ( http://hormonecoloreddays.blogspot.com/2010/02/how... )

If anyone else has links to share, please post them here.

Mayberry

http://mayberrymom.com ( http://mayberrymom.blogspot.com/ )
http://familyfitness.about.com ( http://familyfitness.about.com/ )

redheadedjen 5 pts

Thanks for having this session. This session was, for me, the best of the conference. I was able to find people who felt like me.

Jen
www.losingtheshadow.blogspot.com ( http://www.losingtheshadow.blogspot.com )

joywilder 5 pts

I have yet to start a blog because I am focusing on perfection...perfect SEO, perfect grammar, perfect topics....

I've intimidated myself right out of blogging!

A few months back, I wrote a yoga blog. It wasn't anything fantastic, but it was fun because I didn't care about stats or comments or google placement.

It was me. On the web. Pure and simple.

Thank you so much for the insight,
Joy Wilder
www.wilderoffice.com ( http://www.wilderoffice.com )

BlondieChicago 5 pts

One of the things that kind of turned me off at BlogHer '09 was that I accidentally kept ending up in sessions that were talking about branding and money and ads and things, which is totally not my scene. I understand it, but it's not for me. I'm not even sure who most of the Big Fish are, and that's OK with me. I would have LOVED to have been in this session. I'm so glad you posted it so I could enjoy it from home. Thank you!!!

norarachel 5 pts

I had such a great time preparing for and participating in this session. I hope it was as fun for others!

(for the record, I am not pregnant. Sounds like Justgirlinworld misheard me, as she wrote I have a kid on the way! Otherwise she. Did a great job, thanks!)

Long live the small blog!

http://www.nonlineargirl.com

magpie 5 pts

I so liked this session. It was incredibly validating.

Bernadette Joolen 5 pts

What a lovely and useful dialogue. I have only just begun, and feel almost silly sometimes! But thought to just try to grow it slowly, so that I am comfortable each step of the way, and at each step, decide what's enough. Nice to read there are others, too, who are not always keen on self-promotion. It's the actual writing that's truly delicious and fun!

Bernadette Joolen, Seattle. Writer, mother, walker, singer, dreamer. Author of 3 novels ( http://www.bernadettejoolen.com/StorefrontCentral.... ) and 2 blogs ( http://www.bernadettejoolen.com/SummerBlog1.html ). Come visit.=)