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Oh, Baby! Those shower invitations have changed!

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An invitation for a baby shower came in the mail, and I was a bit taken aback when I opened it.  This wasn't the pastel, cutesy Hallmark card that I expected.  It was a photograph which seemed to be just a dark mass ... a brown blob.  Closer inspection made me realize that it was a copy of an ultrasound and I was eyeing an embryo.  I'm still not sure how I feel about that.  Is that the trend these days?

 

I know that the family is proud of their "very first" baby picture.  The rationalization I heard when I inquired is, "no one ever sees those ultrasounds, and we wanted to share it."  Why ... ummm ... thank you.  Well, alrighty then.  I guess I can't argue with that logic.  Perhaps since we didn't have ultrasounds done when I was pregnant I don't understand the situation.

 

When I tweeted about it,   @Houseonahillorg  asked, "was it tastefully done or did it make your tummy squiggle?"  I can't say that my tummy "squiggled," but I didn't find the picture all that appealing.  Come to think of it, the more I glance at it, the more my tummy wants to squiggle!  Because it is from family, I feel compelled to save it, but I probably won't put it on display.  It might make someone else's tummy squiggle.

 

So, I'm asking what you think, Moms and Moms-To-Be?  Am I behind the times and need to just put on my big girl panties and deal with it?  Do you share your ultrasound pictures on a baby shower announcement?  What do you think about it?

 

 

 


Shelly Kneupper Tucker

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texasebeth 6 pts

Ultrasound on a baby shower invitation seems a little icky to me but then I'm old fashioned and channel Emily Post on occasion.  I don't even like the new fancy 3D & 4D ones I've been shown, although those look less blob-ish.

As for the rationalization that "no one ever sees those ultrasounds" is ridiculous. I've had plenty of people show me their ultrasound photos before the baby was born. I've been shown them at baby showers, at lunch, work, & even church. All they have to do is ask people if they want to see the pictures or ambush the victims with the pictures. As an infertile woman, just getting a baby shower invite was enough to send me to tears. If I had gotten 1 with an ultrasound photo, it would have devastated me.

Charlie's birthmother let me keep a set of ultrasound photos at the 1st appointment we went to together. I treasure those pictures & they are in his baby book. I did show them to people who asked since we were adopting & telling everyone once we were officially matched.

Since it's family I guess you have to deal with it but I am firmly in the "don't do it" catagory for many reasons.