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Oh, the Places You'll Go: Why Travel Matters

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I spent my first 18 years in the northern suburbs of Chicago. My family was your average mild class Jewish clan clinging to the American dream; my grandparents worked in factories, as secretaries, and skilled construction. My parents were the first generation to obtain college degrees. Vacations as I knew them involved stuffing my parents, grandparents, sister, and me into our rusted blue sedan, then driving four hours to a resort in Michigan filled with elderly Jews and mold. World travel was not something I ever expected to do.

However, during my sophomore year of college, I was fortunate to be accepted into a special program at my university. The program offered supplemental cultural activities, like concerts and lectures. It also, once a year, took students on a heavily subsidized trip over winter break. That year, the group planned a 12 day journey to Italy, where they inherited a property in Florence. Although the entire cost to students for airfare, lodging, and two meals (breakfast and dinner) was $100, I initially did not plan to go. Although 'd always wanted to see the museums of Florence, I only had a month off of school, during which I planned to go home to see my family. Also, I was nervous to go to a place where I did not speak the language. Plus, I thought that I should work over my break. My parents saw the opportunity for what it was and insisted that I go. It changed the way I thought about the world.

In Italy, I discovered that I was competent enough to get around on public transportation even when I didn't understand the local language. I could order food and locate bathrooms. I discovered that people want to help others find their way around town and see what is wonderful about where they live. I found that it was fun to explore in a foreign land, even to get lost a little bit. My trip made me look at the world and my own country a little bit differently. I couldn't wait to go on another trip.

Since that fateful first Atlantic crossing, I've been to Germany (Berlin, Meissen, Dresden, and Munich), the Czech Republic (Prague, Pilsen), England (London), France (Paris), Argentina (Buenos Aires), Italy (Florence, Rome, Milan), India (Delhi, Jaipur, Agra), the Dominican Republic (Santo Domingo and the southwest part of the country), Israel (Tel Aviv, Jerusalem, Tiberias), Switzerland (Zurich), and the Netherlands (Amsterdam, albeit only for a day when I missed a connecting flight). I've learned something about other cultures on every trip, which is also true of all the places that I've subsequently also been to in the United States. Travel made me more patient, more open to new experiences, more tolerant.

Syvia Rimm, the author of See Jane Win: The Rimm Report on How 1,000 Girls Became Successful Women, recommends travel as an important element of girls' lives. She notes that, "Travel provides a spirit of adventure, enrichment, family bonding, and self-confidence." Exactly! The sense of independence that I got from my first trip abroad was great. It's great if people can travel with girls when they are young, but it is never too late to reap the benefits of travel.

There are gads of women who travel with their families and blog. Some great family travel blogs include Delicious Baby, Wander Mom, and Traveling Mom.

When it comes to travel, most travel magazines are driven by advertising, and women are targeted in the most stereotypical ways. This is why I don't bother reading them. I don't like spas. I don't like sequestered luxury resorts that hide the social reality of the place I visit. I don't want to eat in hip expensive restaurants or shop at the trendiest boutiques. Thus, I haven't been this excited about a travel magazine (online or off) in, oh, ever, but Galavanting (and the Galavanting blog, A View from a Broad) is right up my alley. Their mission:

When it comes to travel, we believe women are interested in more than just fashion & style columns and reviews of ludicrously expensive resorts. We know that not every female is in search of the world's perfect facial. And that women without trust funds travel too.

need more inspiration or tips on how to finance a trip? Women of all

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midnightbliss 5 pts

i love travelling, because travelling outside the country is expensive, i am lucky to live in an archpelago, every island has its own culture and dialect and there's just so much to learn. since i started working, i try to travel in a different place once or twice a year.

NAOmni 5 pts

Thanks for posting this. I am mainly focusing on a food blog and becoming more of a food writer, but travel is part of who I am. When I started my blog I wanted it to have one of its subtopics be travel. I haven't been able to write on it as much as I would like because I've been in school all semester and not traveling. I am already getting antsy.

Anyways, I just clicked over here and read this and I'm glad I did. It's made me remember that when not traveling, I can plan for my next travels, and I'm excited to read the work of people who devote their writing to it.

NAOmni 

notanotheromnivore.blogspot.com

Kim_Mance 5 pts

Great post and very well said. I love the story about how your early travels to Italy made you feel empowered.

Thanks so much for the shoutout to Galavanting too. I'm very glad it's resonating, especially since it was founded by feminists! 

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Kim Mance
Editor-In-Chief
Galavanting ( http://www.gogalavanting.com/ ) online women's travel magazine

Fly Girl 5 pts

Farsighted Fly Girl: http://rosalindcummingsyeates.com/blog

I never even thought about how my early travel experiences shaped me from a feminist perspective but it is so true, it makes you more daring and adventurous. My grandmother went through 10 passports traveling the world. When I graduated from college, it never occured to me not to travel or to be afraid to travel alone. Travel was a given because I had watched my grandmother do it for all those years. To this day, people tell me how they don't understand how I can travel to different countries as woman alone. Now I'll say my grandma taught me!

Colored With Memories 5 pts

it sounds like we went on similar highly subsidized first trips abroad. although mine was to Spain as a junior in highschool and cost $800.  still a deal!

traveling really does open your eyes in ways that studying a textbook or looking at a friend's photos simply cannot do.

as a mom of two young ones, our traveling as waned over the past few years.  i can't wait to check out some of the links you provided.

i love the quote about people without trust funds traveling. that is great!

Kerry @ Colored With Memories

http://www.justusgibsons.blogspot.com ( http://www.justusgibsons.blogspot.com/ )

soultravelers3 5 pts

I loved this!

You have mentioned some great websites, but don't forget Soultravelers3 ( http://www.soultravelers3.com/soultravelers3.html ) which National Geographic Traveler called "one of the best family travel sites in cyberspace"!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wn9rDTZj-m4

We have begun our 3rd year of an open ended world tour that started when our daughter was 5 and  now she is 8 and we are absolutely astounded by what this travel has done for our her! It has been the best education in the world for a global citizen of the 21st century! She has already seen more ancient sights that most people will see in a lifetime. At 6 she rode in on a camel to the Sahara desert to give a violin concert for 60 Berber kids who live without running water and had never seen a violin. They all bonded instantly and we were all changed forever!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IrrAFDt9W_U

We travel slow, plus spend every winter in a 15th century village in Spain that allows her to immerse deeply, spending months at a time in various places. We have been to 4 continents, 28 countries, gone over 60.000 miles...most of it over land or water, not flights.Her life is one big field trip and we homeschool with books based on our travels. 

We also bring disadvantaged school kids with us virtually as we travel by volunteering through the award winning non profit Reach The World. Not everyone can travel around the world, but the internet allows us to collaborate now more than we ever have been able to, so there are lots of resouces for all girls and kids.We recently met our school kids in Harlem, Bronx, Queens and the Lower East Side and they had so much enthusiam. 

Thanks so much for bringing attention to this important issue. Travel and education go together ...today more than ever!

Suzanne 5 pts

90% of the time I think the best part of my travels is what I ate.

Suzanne Reisman ( http://www.blogher.com/member/suzanne-reisman ), Contributing Editor - Feminism & Gender ( http://blogher.org/topic/feminism-gender )
Campaign for Unshaved Snatch (CUSS) & Other Rants ( http://cussandotherrants.com/ )

Suzanne 5 pts

Yes, I will absolutely be there this summer. I'm looking forward to seeing you again and also getting together with all the great travel bloggers! It's such a great blogging community!

Suzanne Reisman ( http://www.blogher.com/member/suzanne-reisman ), Contributing Editor - Feminism & Gender ( http://blogher.org/topic/feminism-gender )
Campaign for Unshaved Snatch (CUSS) & Other Rants ( http://cussandotherrants.com/ )

Suzanne 5 pts

Thanks to you for the topic idea! Travel and collaboration - the two things go hand-in-hand!

Suzanne Reisman ( http://www.blogher.com/member/suzanne-reisman ), Contributing Editor - Feminism & Gender ( http://blogher.org/topic/feminism-gender )
Campaign for Unshaved Snatch (CUSS) & Other Rants ( http://cussandotherrants.com/ )

Wilma Ham 5 pts

For her 21 birthday my daughter asked for a travel adventure with me, so she had something she would never forget.
We made it a 3 weeks Vietnam trip on a very tight budget.

Boy, was that trip special, in every aspect AND it delivered as a very memorable time together.
We learned so much about a different culture and instead of making that other culture wrong, we got to see that we can respect difference and adapt.
For example;
The vietnamese don't specify prices, they just try to get the highest price.
That is not cheating, that is how they play the game.
If you cannot bargain like me, you are a loser in that game.  
My daughter however showed unexpected skills and could do the business side by playing their game beautifully and you saw mutual respect growing.  
I could determine what was going on, she could then deal with doing the different behaviour.

Going to places where you really don't have a clue what to do, is fantastic IF you have the ability to observe without judging and adjust and adapt.
If you judge you are lost and nobody is gaining anything.

Travel is so much more than just visitng tourist attractions and staying in your familiar comfort zone.
It stretches and it really broadens one's outlook.
Travel shows life can be done in different ways and I haven;t even mentioned the FOOD! 

Wilma Ham

www.wilmasblog.com ( http://www.wilmasblog.com/ )

wandermom 5 pts

Hi Suzanne,

Seems like we had similar upbringings - just in different countries. The kids-stuffed-in-aging-car resonates so well.

And now look at us. What an amazing journey we're on. 

We have to keep speaking out so that more girls and women are encouraged to travel alone and with friends, before, during and after parenthood (if that's where their path takes them). 

Wandermom (Michelle)

http://www.wandermom.com

Nancy Brown WhataTrip 5 pts

Hey Suzanne, 

Great post!  My 16yo had an opporunity to travel to the Galapagos Islands with her high school biology class this past summer.  While it was an expensive trip, she helped pay with her lifeguarding money and loved her experience. 

 On another subject...maybe I'll see you in Chicago this summer at BlogHer?  I sent an e-mail recommending a travel blogger panel with suggested speakers.  Let's hope we get more than a meetup this year.

Nancy Brown

http://www.nancydbrown.com/  WHAT A TRIP ( http://blogs.bootsnall.com/What-a-Trip/ )

http://twitter.com/Nancydbrown ( http://twitter.com/WhataTrip )

sforshner 5 pts

Prior to my junior year in college, when I was lucky enough to have the opportunity to study abroad in Ireland, the furthest I had traveled from Boston was to Montreal for a hockey tournament that my little brother was in, as a child. The five of us all jammed into my dad's white truck that carried all of his tools and crossed the border. 

While my travels started late, I am a firm beleiver that getting out there is invaluable.

Thanks for this post!

http://transienttravels.com/ ( http://transienttravels.wordpress.com/ )

Alissa-Taylor Gifts 5 pts

My friend and I, minutes ago, were just talking about the places we've been, want to re-visit, and the places we want to go.  I think it is important to travel and get to know places aside from what is the norm for me.  There is so much to learn outside of where one lives - literally go out and get to know the world - it's amazing.

Alissa - Taylor Gifts

Taylor Gifts Blog ( http://www.taylorgifts.com/blog )

Pam 5 pts

It's not just for the wealthy, and it can be critical to success in
life. When a woman travels, she's going somewhere in all senses.

 Halleluhah. Thanks for the shout out and for this post. It speaks to my hear.

Nerd's Eye View ( http://www.nerdseyeview.com )

MrsWsKitchen 5 pts

Very well said.

I agree so much that it's important to get out there into the world.  My travels have been to the less-likely destinations, such as South Korea, Ethiopia and South Africa.  Certainly not to spas! 

Travel offers the opportunity to discover the world, and in doing so, discover yourself.  I learned how to eat alone in restaurants.  I learned how to haggle.  I learned that I love a variety of ethnic cuisines.  I learned how to avoid pickpocketers.  I learned that I have a gift for understanding languages.  I learned that the world isn't a scary place.

And the road less-travelled is, in my opinion, the best way to gain an understanding of the world situation--not just the one you see on tv.

Amanda
Mrs.W's Kitchen