OLD FRIENDS/NEW FRIENDS.....WHATS CLOGGING YOUR DRAINS?...GET PRESENT.....A LITTLE PIECE OF HEAVEN....CHOICES....PROMISES.....

We all have made mistakes in our lives. That is a given. If one hasn’t they likely haven’t done much living in life….The key is to forgive oneself of the mistakes and to move on once they have learned from it what not to do again.

Also people often “beat up” those around them by constantly reminding them of what they did wrong. That doesn’t make for a good relationship. The best thing is to provide comfort rather than criticism to the person who has made a mistake….not condoning the mistake, but rather accepting that they are normal and all people make errors in judgment intentional or not…

 

HOW OTHERS SEE THE WORLD…..MAY NOT BE HOW YOU SEE IT…

How I see the world may be a lot different than how you see it. We all see the world in a different way. So when I write about living your best life and reaching for higher levels you may simply be wishing to survive….You see life from the floor up and I am looking up higher….There have been times I have been on the floor looking up as well….Simply said, we all see life differently than another even when our views are similar….respect where a person is coming from and what they are seeing that you are not...

 

NAVIGATING PAST “NO” TO A “YES…..”

I simply think persistance is key….Getting to a yes….A great salesperson is not focused on the no they may get, instead they are focused on the YES they expect. Stay focused on the Yes and you will likely get it….

 

WHEN CHANGE HAPPENS….

Change is never something we want. We all like sameness while craving for change….We don’t like to leave what is safe and consistent for something uncertain. It is simply the way we are. We are creatures of habit. Yet, to better our lives we must make change. Change is a given consistency in life….We must embrace change whether we are afraid of it or not. Life will always change and if we are unwilling to change we will simply wither up…..Life blooms when we embrace change….The right changes....

 

FITTING IN ….

Everyone wants to fit in….but the key is to fit in with the right people….not the wrong ones…..The majority of people out there close up and personal are wrong for our lives and very few truly are right for our lives. The key to successful relationships is to pick the right people for our lives and not the wrong ones to fit in with. If we try to fit in with the wrong people we will meet up with failure in some way….but if we meet up with the right ones we will meet up with Success…

 

GETTING OUT OF WHAT IS NOT RIGHT FOR US OR THOSE WE LOVE….

Life does have it’s seasons…..Often our time is up in a certain situation and it is time to move on…..Staying too long where we no longer belong can result in negative things occuring in our lives. And yet, people often stay well beyond their time in a certain situation…..Determining when it is time to move out and move on for our lives or even for those we love is important so that any negative fallout can be avoided….

Life is about change….Life is about Seasons….Staying too long in any one season and refusing to make the needed changes will lead us right into the path of failure….Getting out of where we don’t any longer belong and putting ourselves where we do can truly be amazing in the turn of events in our lives….One right place can totally change our life around for the best….

 

A FRESH START…..LETS START NEW…..

Sometimes we simply need to start over….A fresh start….There is a new energy and receptivity when we start something new……When people stay too long even in a good place they begin to get dull and the things and people they would normally be receptive to they no longer are…..

Making a change (a postiive one) often is the best thing we can do. It brings an aliveness to us that we otherwise would not have. It brings a whole new energy that creates in us a hightened alertness and a receptivity to things and people we would not ordinarily be receptive to…

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