OLD FRIENDS/NEW FRIENDS.....WHATS CLOGGING YOUR DRAINS?...GET PRESENT.....A LITTLE PIECE OF HEAVEN....CHOICES....PROMISES.....

People who get stuck in life even in a good place who become willing to make a change often see dramatic results for the positive in their lives…Change even sometimes for change sake can be a very good thing….The Right Changes….

 

DEALING WITH EMBARRASSMENT….

We all have said something we wished we could take back….We all have done something that we are likely to be embarrassed about….And yet, to live in that embarrassement and to beat ourselves up over it serves no positive purpose…

We all make mistakes….We should learn from our mistakes…..Embarrassment is temporary or at least it should be….When we can laugh at ourselves while holding our head high we tend to do better than if we were to slink off into hiding over what we messed up on….Simply keeping an attitude of acceptance of our imperfections and our mess ups is part of who we are…..Embarrassment is only embarrassment if you allow it to get into your Soul….The best way to handle embarrassment is to simply let it go….stand tall….move forward…

 

ONE RIGHT DECISION cannot correct a wrong decision but it can be a good start…

It would be great if we could simply turn a wrong decision into a right decision but that simply is not so…..Often many right decisions can be messed up through one wrong decision…..but most often one wrong decision takes a lot more than one right decision to correct it…

When we have made a wrong choice often it is best to admit it and simply move forward with right decisions knowing that it may take time for the wrong decision to correct itself through a series of right decisions….Life is about decisions and when we mess up often people and sitautions simply do not easily allow us to forget….The key is to get back out there….Do not repeat what we do not want people to remember….and simply keep on going….People do forget….and we have to hope they forget, but even if they don’t…..we push forth…

 

CHANGE TO CREATE A NEW LIFE….WHAT DO YOU NEED TO DO?

What do you need to do to create what it is you want….If we keep doing the same things over and over we will simply get the same old results….We likely have to do something new and different to get different results…..

 

THINK AHEAD OF EVERYONE ELSE….22 STEPS AHEAD….

I always like to say I think 22 Steps ahead of everyone else….The truth is we all have to think ahead of what the other person is thinking if we want to be ahead of the game…Life is often about forecasting the same way one does with the weather....We forecast both our obstacles and our successes.....When we do this we can more easily cope with problems that may arise......I always say it is better to be 22 Steps ahead than to be 2 steps behind....

 

 

 

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