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A Primer on Journaling

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Occasionally on Own Your Beauty, I've mentioned pulling out your journal to do some of the prompts, which may have led you to believe that I am an avid journaler. You would be correct. However! Despite appearances, I only started journaling in earnest for about a year and half now. Before that, I would not have been caught dead journaling. You see, originally, I assumed journaling was about writing very lofty thoughts in beautifully bound journals every single day, for the purposes of baring one's darkest and most emotionally-wrenching secrets from the depths of one's soul for all posterity. You know, like Anne Frank, except more profound.

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You can see why perhaps I found the thought of journaling a little daunting.

And while, obviously, there's nothing wrong with journaling in that way, a conversation with my friend Jen Lee a year and a half ago made me realize that there really is no right or wrong way to journal at all; and in fact, it might possibly be far more rewarding, and freeing even, to look at journaling as merely a way to capture the ephemera of your life. By journaling this way -- just capturing your messy, imperfect life, with no thought about how you want the final product to look or read -- the result, of course, is that you'll have an accidentally beautiful record of your life and times. Since that conversation, I've journaled almost every day. And honestly? It has changed my life. My journals have kept me very organized with respect to my daily schedule and life but have also provided me lots of inspiration for my work as well -- things I'd like to photograph or write, or projects I'd like to tackle, or even future goals to whch to aspire.

Over the months, my journals has evolved from very simple books to something quite a bit more complex, but each time I've added something new, it's just been about whatever I've felt like putting in the pages, as opposed to What Is Supposed To Be Recorded In A Journal. And so, today, I thought I'd share with you the various sections in my journal, from the very basic to the more elaborate. If you don't journal, as we begin the new year, I'd strongly encourage you to give it a go, and just see what comes of it. You can do as many of these levels that you want, or just stick with Level 1 -- it's entirely up to you. And you never know: just starting a practice of handwriting things down might help you discover and more deeply appreciate your Beautiful Different.

 

The Rules and the Tools of a Journal

As I mentioned above, journaling should be completely freeform and generally rule-free; that said, the only rule for myself (and I would suggest, for anyone just starting out), is that you are not allowed to rip out any pages. In other words, if you make a mistake, or you try doodling something you don't like, or you don't think it's neat enough, or heck, of someone rests their coffee cup on the open page leaving a ring stain, it stays in the book. I know this might feel very frustrating at first, but just trust me on this. Years from now, after you've forgotten about it, you'll come across the scribble, or the coffee stain, and might actually be charmed by this.

So, since this is my rule, I never buy spiral-bound journals, since the temptation to rip out a page is too strong. Instead, I buy tightly-bound journals -- Moleskines are great (hard to rip out pages), and I started using those, but then I found a more eco-friendly version and have been using those instead. And I always get the unlined versions, so that I can write as big or small as I want, but it doesn't matter, really. And also, since you're going to want to have it on you as much as possible (you'll see why, below), be sure to get a size that's big enough to write in, but portable enough to throw

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halflifecrisis 5 pts

Thank you for this post! I've been journaling since my English teacher forced us to keep a journal in 8th grade. At first I tried to write stories or little plays, but eventually my journal became the place where I address life events, purge my worries and consider future actions.

It was only when I bought a sketchbook journal by mistake that I realized I could do more than write in it. I started drawing in it, and posting ephemera from memorable events. Eventually I started leaving it by my bed at night, and it also became a dream journal. Now my journal is my all purpose scrapbook. I rarely go back to re-read, but when I do there is a rich, multi-media account of my life rather than a simple written log.

Thank you for giving me more ideas.

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@MultitaskMumma 5 pts

I have been journaling since grade 6 (not an exaggeration) and have a large tote filled with them. I have never thought to fill the pages with colour or art! What a wonderful variation and one I will use!

ColletteB 5 pts

What a great idea - you've inspired me! Never thought of all my random little lists as ephemera before...and how nice to have them all in one spot. Thanks!

stressandstars 5 pts

Those photos of your journal are actually pretty inspiring for me all on your own. I love this post!

alethafaye 5 pts

This is awesome! I just re-started journaling this month and I love your approach.
BTW my partner and I did 'vision boards' after reading your post. This flow is really working for me! keep up the great articles <3

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healthyperhaps 5 pts

You know, I've been writing in diaries for 9 years now. I have over 20 of them. I'm definitely all about the fancy bound book. I had never thought about including things like cards and drawings from my children, yet I have always quoted and described in my diaries these personal articles that have touched me.

Like you, I also write down things I have to do or things that I have to remember. And I have gone back to diaries for that information. It almost becomes like a calendar, only there's no space restriction per day.

I love your thoughts on writing without editing, not removing anything and just letting the words flow. Just getting it out. I agree. It feels good and it helps you move on. Like you, I don't often look back on things that I've written, but the act of simply writing it down is enough to remember it, to help me figure it out.

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Emily B 5 pts

I've journaled for twenty years now, more during some years than others, of course, but I credit the simple act of writing it all down (or sketching! or quoting! or whatever!) to my deep love of images and words. This is a fantastic post. I plan to share it with my creative writing students. I'm certain it will inspire them as it has me.

Grace Hwang Lynch 7 pts

I'm a huge fan of The Artist's Way morning pages, but used them during the 12-week program and then mostly in times of crisis or transition when I really needed to clarify my thoughts. I found it a very valuable way of cutting through the "shoulds" and finding the things that are truly important to me. This post is inspiring me to take up the practice again, especially with the art aspect mixed in.

Thanks for posting this!

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kybarb 5 pts

Your journaling ideas are the best I've seen and I just started my first journal this morning following yours! Thank you for posting and being so inspiring!

njgeiger 5 pts

I've done this since Jr High! Last year on my husband's birthday card I was able to write what we had done on his birthday for the past 30 years we've been together - he really got a kick out of it!

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IWantThursdays 5 pts

I actually do something very similar in my work. We have a lot of meetings for various reasons and I keep color coded journals for each type of meeting or program. I can pull stuff out of there from 3 years ago that everyone else has long lost and forgotten about.

Sadly, I can never seem to have my journal at home work the same way. Perhaps 2011 is the year for me to try a new method.

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lappdancer 5 pts

If privacy is a concern for those who want to journal, a journaling book I have (Journal to the Self) suggested that you write something like this on the very first page: "This is my private journal. It contains information of no use to anyone except me. Please return if found. Thank you for respecting my privacy." Then put your contact information under that. It might not prevent someone from reading your journal, but they might think twice about it. This was such an inspirational post, thank you!

The Shakespearean Tomato 5 pts

Awwwwww...my Dad totally used to do that with the little day planner journaling! I remember when I was a kid I used to love going into the drawer where he kept the old ones and pulling out 1981 and reading the entry for my birthday - "Christine Elizabeth Henderson, 6:10pm, 9 lbs. 6 oz. Perfect!"

It is nice sometimes to have something just that brief to give you an overview of what has been going on. A lot less cumbersome than rereading full journal entries later on just to give a snapshot of your life at the moment.

musingdryad 5 pts

You have really expanded my notion of journaling with this article! I do love to journal as morning pages and as a means to exploring my daily life, and I'm obsessive keeper of lists (to-do lists, blog idea lists, favorite quote lists, etc.), but I have never thought of keeping it all in one place!

As I look toward the new year and set up my systems around where I keep track of everything, I plan to find ways to incorporate my journaling, list making, doodling, and "scrapbooking" all in one journal. I can hardly wait to see where this leads!

Thank you so much for sharing!

Lisa Morrow 5 pts

I loved reading this post. I journaled through many of my teen years and those journals are some of my most precious possessions. You have inspired me to start again. I wrote my first entry this morning before turning on my laptop. I will commit to doing it for a full year and look forward to this new part of my morning routine. Thank you for writing this and sharing it before the new year.

Lisa Nicole Morrow

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Karen Walrond 5 pts

Thanks for all the awesome tips! And for what it's worth, the Ecosystem journals are the exact dimensions of the Moleskine ones -- so I'm excited to see what inserts/covers Moleskine offers, to try them out on mine. Thanks for that pointer as well!

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Karen Walrond is a writer and photographer in Houston, Texas, and the author of the book, The Beauty of Different ( http://www.amazon.com/Beauty-Different-Karen-Walro... ). You can read/see more of her life at Chookooloonks ( http://www.chookooloonks.com ).

Melissa Ford 5 pts

At first I was going to say that I don't journal anymore, but once I read this post, I realized what a narrow view I was holding of journaling. I do have a notebook that goes pretty much everywhere with me where I write down things I'm remembering at the moment or must do or names I like or story ideas.

My friend has a great journal that I always wish I would do and then never do (alas, it's almost Jan 1, I could do it this year!). She buys one of those pretty calendar books from the bookstore and then she writes what she did that day in it at the end of the day. It only can hold two or three sentences or brief thoughts, but she marks the major moments of the day. She does this for her kids too. She can look back on any day of her life and recall exactly what happened due to these books. Which is pretty damn cool.

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Evergreen_Grrrl 5 pts

First of all, let me say that I simply love the ideas which you have put forth on this blog. I use my Moleskine to sketch, art journal, write poetry, start my book, or just to capture a pretty image. I keep mine with me most of the time for just that purpose. Secondly, I would like to suggest that a person who is artistically inclined should keep a small set of water-color pencils, eraser, and pencil sharpener with them as well. Who know when you will see an image that just has to be put down on paper! Finally, I would like to recommend that readers check out www.moleskine.com ( http://www.moleskine.com ). Although they are not as eco-friendly as other journals, they allow journalers to download every format of Moleskine that they wish to use to fit their own journal (blank, lined, grid, daily/monthly schedules, and now their "loves" pages. These you can type out or simply print from your computer (and in many cases just transfer from your blog into a paper format), cut, and glue into your journal of choice. I use a blank one as well. I especially love that they have created a template for decorating the cover of your journal. I plan on doing this for the New Year by printing the template, transferring it to card stock, creating the design in color of my choosing, and then gluing the flaps as directed. There are amazing works of art that simply comes from the imagination.

I have taken to creating mandalas in mine as a form of meditation along with the inspirations for creating Artist Trading Cards. If you are interested in creating an art journal or are looking for prompts, please check out the website www.milliande.com ( http://www.milliande.com ) - an online woman's art consortium. There are lots of great women out there who swap journal entries, tell how to create items for journals and serve as great inspiration for all of us who just "doodle." I hope to finally complete a journal in the upcoming year and will be adding moleskine pages, to-do lists, calendars, and collages. I love the pockets in the back!!! So much to do, so little time. Thank you for the suggestions listed above. They will now be added to my own reading list.

Evergreen_Girl

Karen Walrond 5 pts

I think you hit the nail on the head -- there's certainly nothing wrong with being deep and emotionally raw in your journal, but you certainly should never feel pressure to do so. Journaling should be fun, and healing, and empowering first and foremost, I think. At least that's how I approach it.

And I didn't know that about Da Vinci's journals -- thanks for sharing!

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The Shakespearean Tomato 5 pts

One of my communications classes I took had us read about Leonardo Da Vinci and how he kept his journal as a hodgepodge of writing, ideas, drawings, inventions, whatever came to his mind went in it. The teacher encouraged us to keep this kind of free form journal to stimulate both sides of the brain and to always have our ideas close at hand.

I LOVED keeping the journal like this when the class was happening, but then I just let it slide and when I have picked up journaling again I have stuck very close to your hilarious description of feeling the need to be more profound than Anne Frank :-P

I think I am going to get back to this more free form and creative way of journaling though...I feel like so much more can come out without the pressure to be constantly deep and emotionally raw every single time I open my journal!

Kelly Pratt 5 pts

I love your post! I'm a newbie to blogHer but obviously I'm in the right place! I could have written this post myself. You can often find me sitting watching movies doodling or painting in my VJs (visual journals!) - have you discovered water color pencils?

I've been an avid traditional journalist - daughter of an english teacher and writer - and about 10 years ago started adding visual elements to my journals... love love love it. Totally cracks my right brain open! Now it's something I use with my clients...

I too like the hardbound books for my journals, but usually pull out a couple pages from each "signature" (the sections that are sewn together) so the fat-factor doesn't get out of hand with all the ephemera!

I use my journal pages to accomplish stuff - like you do, Karen - but every once in a while, something that resembles art happens! It's fun, huh!

thanks for a great post. I'll be watching you!

Pammer 5 pts

That link to Teesha's work is not even FAIR. That is unbelievable.

And now, I need a journal...

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Karen Walrond 5 pts

It's so easy to get caught up in that whole "what it's supposed to look like" thing! And the truth is that when you just relax and do whatever the hell it is you want to do on the pages, the final result ends up being far more awesome than the way anyone else would do it.

Hmm. Sort of a metaphor for life, when you think about it. ;)

K.

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Karen Walrond is a writer and photographer in Houston, Texas, and the author of the book, The Beauty of Different ( http://www.amazon.com/Beauty-Different-Karen-Walro... ). You can read/see more about her life at Chookooloonks ( http://www.chookooloonks.com ).

JennaHatfield 9 pts

I have 398590496 started but incomplete journals. I think I've been putting too much pressure on myself to "do it right" as well. Beautiful post.

As an aside, I was signed up for the original 1000 Journals Project, but my journal never made its way to me. I was pretty bummed about it.

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