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I got this email from my 5 month old today (dictated to his dad since he can't type):

"Please feel free to make any contributions to my future education. This early stage of my life is critical for saving for my future. Presents are a ton of fun but since I am easily amused by a box I think money would better be spent on my future. That goes for you too dad. Stop buying me clothes that wont fit in a month, help me save for my future. I love you guys. Love Alex! Make a contribution now"

That last sentence contained a hyperlink to his college fund. His dad sent it out to his grandparents. I'm not entirely sure how I feel about this.

Never too early to teach your child to beg. For a good cause.

He certainly needs an education more than he needs toys. And these are people who love him and generally like giving him things. But still, some part of me feels uncomfortable putting his pudgy little hand out like that.

Perhaps he'll grow up to be a Nigerian prince.

What are your thoughts on the subject? Do you encourage others in what types of gifts they give your children?

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KLZ 5 pts

The idea of Alex in rags next to an old shoebox really cracks me up. Now I want to take that picture for posterity.

I think Alex's college fund has like $50 in it. Perhaps enough to buy him a pizza by the time he's 18. I really, really believe that's it's normal (and GOOD!) for kids to have to find a way to help fun their own college experience.

Can I really meet you at the pub?

Kristin (KLZ)

maryaks 5 pts

I see your point. I tried all kinds of ways, non too subtle too, to encourage my parents to stop with the cheesy outfits for my youngest and move on to something with more lasting in quality. Even a elegant hand knit bonnet for the hope chest or something!

I say college funds are a great idea and that your husband made a link to an actual account vs. your checking account makes it well-intended. I think a college fund is smart and uses humor for those closest to you, like grandparents. If he sends it out to his co-workers and Facebook friends then I'd rethink the presentation. Hope he didn't post a picture of Alex in rags lying in an old shoebox right.

FWIW: I have three and still no college fund.