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Porn On A Treadmill

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 A while ago, I figured out that the best way to deal with the gym workouts that my broken neck require of me (as opposed to what I used to call "real" workouts, doing real things in the real world,) is to watch TV and movies on my iPod. Today I watched the first two hours of a truly interesting documentary about the history of porn as it relates to the history of civilization.

The other thing that came from my broken neck workouts are extremely modified movements, intended to eliminate jostling of and impact to my neck. As such, though I used to be an avid runner, I have now developed a strange no-impact gait. It must be very funny looking, like someone running in slow-motion, with an exaggerated long gait, deep bends, exaggerated movements happening slowly. In order to make it more challenging, I often "run" sideways and backwards, which has proven to be an excellent workout.

The gym is crowded, as it always is on Sunday. I am engrossed in my porn documentary.  I am intensely fascinated with the way sexual power is used to control, enslave and sometimes liberate people. It fascinates me in one-on-one relationships, it fascinates me in how sexual manipulation is used to control people, it even fascinates me in terms of how organized religion uses it to enslave people into turning their own personal sexuality into a sort of fuel that serves the church instead of the individual.

As such, looking at how porn has developed, from the earliest cave drawings to internet chat rooms, fascinates me.

What I hadn't thought about previously was the origin of the word. Indeed, although graphically sexual art of all forms has been around since the dawn of civilization, it wasn't considered to be any different from any other art and was displayed and discussed the same way. The word porn didn't exist until the Victorian period, faced with a sudden political need to hide sexual images from society (and drive people into the pews as a way to amass "armies" for a religious war that would define political power.)

Specifically, it was a reaction to Pompeii. It seems that when the buried city of Pompeii was discovered, so was the largest collection of porn you can imagine. This revered civilization revealed houses with graphic depictions of sex on nearly every wall of any  house. Painted onto the walls, not well-hung on them. The social standing of a person could be judged by both the quality and the quantity of these artworks - especially "fine" people even had the paintings placed on their servants quarters, even if those quarters were usually in the rear, of the house. There were statues of people engaged in all manner of sex acts in public squares, including one of the most famous pieces of erotic art in existence, a marble statue of Pan having sex with a goat.

Needless to say, given the era of this discovery, these works of art were all scuttled immediately into a secret room in the back of a museum in Naples. The last thing that anyone wanted, as we all descended into what would eventually lead to a Puritan revolution, was to see sex celebrated as something that everyone did, in lots of ways, and was as natural as eating, breathing and making art in the first place.

It was around this time that the word pornography came into being, with the sole purpose of protecting people from images of sexuality that may cause them to not think clearly, or...  The political and academic discussions around the word, and the future legislation that would use the word in order to censor artistic expression for centuries to come, focused on the idea that people needed to be protected from images that tapped into their sexual energy. Because, it seems, people

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stute 5 pts

It's a prerequisite for living in Seattle. This article led me to others you have written and I have spent half a day reading them and loved it. Probably lost my mind asking you to be my FB friend. You can rain on me anytime.

glenn

alyssaroyse 10 pts

I agree with you 100% on all fronts. Freedom and responsibility are intertwined. Consensual sex, in all it's forms, is just natural. Repressing it and does nothing but harm.

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stute 5 pts

I believe societal suppression of sexuality leads to sex crimes and at the same time promotes the porn industry. I suspicion there is far less of both in Europe. A wedding band wouldn't keep me from a friendly flirt because I know first hand being married doesn't automatically equal sexual activity. Your biceps might give me reservation and your lack of consent to pursue things further would put a stop to my behavior. I am in favor of mutual empowerment and freedom when it comes to sexual activity.

alyssaroyse 10 pts

@Stute - yes, it happens all the time. I notice their bodies, and assume they notice mine. I agree that sex and sexuality are healthy, and they are both around us all the time. The problem comes, I think, when anyone thinks that the presence of sexual feelings gives them the "right" to do something to another person. Whether it is to judge and punish them, or to have sex with them. Rather, I think we need to work towards an understanding that these impulses are normal, and teach the importance of things like consent, communication and the rights and responsibilities of freedom. But yah, it does skeeve me out a bit when men hit on me at the gym, which is why I wear an enormous, and fake, wedding set. :)

@nelle - ugh! Comstock, that's a whole other post. The history of people trying to use sex to manipulate politics is so messy, and not in the good way. Just ask the Marquis De Sade - he never did any of the things he's credited with, just wrote stories about people in power doing them, to make a political point, and spent his life in jail.

@emily - never read it, but the image that popped into my head made me laugh. I'll check it out.

And yes, all in all, porn is just porn. In my ideal world, it probably wouldn't even exist because we wouldn't need to find secretive outlets for sexuality that we're afraid to admit to. There would be plenty of erotic -maybe even kinky - art, but it would be produced in the light of day, where some of the filth that taints the industry wouldn't be able to flourish.

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stute 5 pts

I wonder if you would have felt the same way if it was an adult male appreciating your female form as the kid did. I think sex is a beautiful, freeing part of human existence and should not be suppressed. Porn wouldn't exist if sex was perceived as a healthy, beneficial activity.

nellewrites 64 pts

Good post...

The Anthony Comstock era was a terror for NY and for women in NY. He went after things deemed porn, (his view of porn was a whole lot narrower than what we might put in that category) and he went after Madame Restell for her providing abortion services. Marge Piercy (in Sex Wars) does a great job of showing the Comstock influence on NY over the last 30 years of the 19th century (he also was behind getting Victoria Woodhull tossed in prison after she ran for president, and she remained in prison on election day - one way to keep women from fighting for the right to vote and participate, eh?

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emilysteers 7 pts

this is a fabulous essay.
have you ever read "the pornography of meat"?

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