Is "Pretty" A Privilege? Thoughts from #BlogHer14
By AugstMcLaughlin on August 04, 2014
I’ve held back from openly addressing these issues due to my own insecurities—not wanting others to deem me vain, feel somehow shunned or that all of this seems trivial. “Attractiveness” has more perks than downsides, you may think, and you could well be right. Thanks to Ashley and other bold women who spoke at BlogHer, however, I’ve realized that they matter. If women can’t support fellow women, how can we move forward? Or expect negative stereotypes that affect all of us to change?
After speaking and serving on panels at BlogHer, I was blown away by people’s warmth. Many women rushed to me with open arms and shared stories of their own pets. A few cried on my shoulder. I reacted similarly to others’ posts and stories, including Ashley’s gorgeous piece, It’s All One Life. Connecting with other women in such personal ways strengthens all of us, and I feel so blessed.
Although this was my first BlogHer experience, I’m convinced it will be far from my last. Bloggers are a special group of folks, many of whom feel compelled to share their unique voices and stories. What a powerful way to change the world.
Fabulous related posts:
Baddest Mother Ever: The Woman Inside the Mirrror (Ashley’s take on our shared experience. I’m sure you’ll fall in love with her, as I did!)
It’s a Dome Life: I’m Prejudice Against Beautiful Women
Jess Witkins’ Happiness Project: Top 5 Reasons to Go to BlogHer
Good Day, Regular People: BlogHer Timeline: Five Years of Gratitude (recap. 2014)
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