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Prevent Drowning This Summer: It Doesn't Look Like It Does in the Movies

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This is a really sobering PSA to write, but I hope it might help someone.

Most child deaths after one year old are due to accidents, and drowning accounts for approximately a quarter of deaths for the one-to-four-year-old range. Put another way, drowning is second only to motor vehicle accidents as the leading cause of accidental death for children under the age of five.

NEW YORK - AUGUST 22:  A boy climbs on a lifeguard tower as stong waves created by Hurricane Bill on the closed to swimmers Rockaway Beach August 22, 2009 in the Queens borough of New York City. The weakening Hurricane Bill continued northward generating high seas and closing beaches along the eastern seaboard.  (Photo by Mario Tama/Getty Images)

Tina from The Making of a Modern Mommy sent out an email with the following link from gCaptain to remind us all of water safety, especially as we enter the summer months (in my hemisphere and latitude, at least). This is chilling to read, but do so anyway and help save a life this summer!

Drowning Doesn’t Look Like Drowning

"Drowning is almost always a deceptively quiet event. The waving, splashing, and yelling that dramatic conditioning (television) prepares us to look for, is rarely seen in real life."

Children (and adults) who are drowning do not exhibit the TV-acculturated signs of distress we tend to look for, such as screaming and thrashing and waving their arms.

Here's what a (real) drowning child (person) looks and sounds like:

  • Quiet. Drowning children cannot talk or yell for help, because they are too busy trying desperately to breathe. Talking and screaming are out of the question. If you're in doubt if someone's drowning, ask. If he can answer, he might still be in distress, but he is not yet drowning. If the child doesn't answer, assume the worst and help!
  • Immobile. Drowning children do not have strength to swim toward help or wave their arms to get attention. They bob quietly up and down vertically as they struggle to keep their head above water. They use their arms instinctually to push them upwards. The body is very low in the water, with just part of the head showing.

From the article:

"Sometimes the most common indication that someone is drowning is that they don’t look like they’re drowning. They may just look like they are treading water and looking up at the deck."

Read more signs of drowning at the article on gCaptain.

Children who are drowning can have under a minute before they sink and succumb. Help a drowning child immediately by following these steps, from WikiHow:

  • Yell for help, no matter how good a swimmer you are.
  • Stay calm, and encourage the child to stay calm as well.
  • Try to reach the child from safety (such as a pool deck or boat deck). Lie facedown and use your outstretched arm, a t-shirt, or a tool such as a lifeguard's hook. If you must be in the water yourself, try to hold something strong to anchor yourself, such as a pool ladder, so that the child's frantic grabbing does not push you under, or row in a boat to the child.
  • As a last resort, swim to the child. It is very dangerous to attempt to rescue a drowning victim in the water and could result in your own injury or death. Try to bring an assisting device with you if at all possible, such as a life buoy or float to place between you and the child. If you must swim the child back to shore or the side of the pool, approach from behind and slide one or both your arms under her armpit(s) from the back. With both of you more or less on your backs, kick or sidestroke toward shore. Continue speaking in a calm voice to reassure and calm the child. If you have a flotation device, have it against your chest between you and the victim. If the child is clutching frantically at you and inadvertently bringing you under water, swim downwards until she instinctively lets you go, and then try again or seek additional help.

Even near-drowning and secondary drowning can be severely costly in terms of brain damage and other injuries, so follow these safety tips when your children are in or near water:

  • Never leave children unattended near or in
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Amanda_Magee 5 pts

It is so hard to read this, but so necessary. I try averting my gaze every time I see a headline, no matter how small, with another life lost too soon. Thank you for the reminder.

Amanda

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Ms. S 5 pts

I did a write up on this topic but I still found this write up so helpful! This topic is so important. When I researched this topic a bit, I realized that we should think of creating layers of protection so that we're never relying on just one thing.

I haven't tried this product but another mom used it on vacation and recommended it: the Safety Turtle water-entry alarm system. My readers get a 15% discount. If you're interested, you can check it out here: http://parenting.thesfile.com/pool-and-spa-safety/

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MomSaysBuyThis 5 pts

This information is so important. I see so many parents basically ignoring their child in the water and this article proves it can be deadly. Thank you for putting out this information.

hobomama 5 pts

I was really surprised the first time I heard drowning was so silent and quick, so I know this is important information for parents (and everyone) to have. I also hear so often about parents leaving children unsupervised in bathtubs, or supervised only by other children, but accidents happen so quickly and tragically.

Thank you to pinkpixel for lending your expertise and further information. I can't imagine how gut-wrenching it must have been to be present at so many near-drownings. How terrifying, and glad you were able to help prevent them from being full tragedies. I wonder if the tween/teen issue is that people (parents, the teens themselves) think they're fully competent in the water by then, but I know I was still a fairly poor swimmer, despite having passed the various tests we had in our swim classes, and of course you can get easily distracted at that age. Good to note that we should still have adult supervision for everyone, even other adults — I know I still use the buddy system.

Crousehouse: I would be nervous, too! Glad you're there to watch him.

Thanks again to Tina for passing along that link to me that inspired me to research this further! I owe you a Mountain Dew.

Thanks, all! Please continue to pass along the info about what drowning really looks like to any families you know who might need it. I'm hoping the summer will be safe and fun.

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Deb Chitwood @ Living Montessori Now 5 pts

Wow! That scares me – and my kids are grown up! As much as I had read about child safety when my kids were little, I had never known the true signs of drowning. What an important post. Great job!

Melissa Ford 5 pts

It is scary to read, but it's important information. Thank you for writing this.

Melissa writes Stirrup Queens ( http://stirrup-queens.com ) and Lost and Found ( http://lostandfoundandconnectionsabound.blogspot.c... ). Her book is Navigating the Land of If ( http://thelandofif.blogspot.com/ ).

pinkpixel 5 pts

and on-duty for 6 near-drownings and a few other crises. During all of these incidents, the parents didn't see the child drowning as it was happening. Some of them weren't watching, one had lost track of the child, but most parents were not actually present at the beach - the child was accompanied by another adult (some of whom saw the drowning behavior and reacted appropriately). At least one older child was alone, no adults to be seen.

In my experience, responsible adult supervision solves most problems, and parental supervision usually prevents problems from arising in the first place. Thank you so much for this post! Its exactly what I wanted to tell all the people who brought children to my beach.

I would just add a few things:

Tweens and teenagers are not immune to drowning. We pulled a pair of kids out of the water who were 13-14 years old. It seems like the most troublesome kids, at my beach, were between 11 and 14.

And, make sure to tell the lifeguards if your kid has a serious physical impairment or any medical problem that could cause fainting or seizures, especially if someone else is going to be in charge of your child for the day. The lifeguards really appreciate this, and sometimes they can even offer assistive devices for these children.

I witnessed a near "secondary drowning." It was scary. Until now, I wasn't aware that it had a name. Good to know.

Near-drowning is not only potentially damaging, it's emotionally traumatic - for everybody involved, even the lifeguards. Its worth avoiding.

Again, thanks for the post.

crousehaus 5 pts

Thank you for the informative post. My son's current swim lessons happen right after a full day of camp. He is pretty tired and my eyes are glued to him as he swims back and forth the Olympic-sized pool for 30 minutes.
He is a good swimmer, but I'm so nervous about fatigue. I never realized that drowning doesn't look how I might expect it to look.

JennaHatfield 9 pts

This post is just so important. Thank you for taking the time to write it.

My parents' gate is really gate on their pool fence. I'd really feel better if they'd install an alarm though.

Jenna Hatfield (@FireMom ( http://twitter.com/FireMom )), from Stop, Drop and Blog ( http://stopdropandblog.com ) and The Chronicles of Munchkin Land ( http://thechroniclesofmunchkinland.com ), is a freelance writer and newspaper photographer.