Race and Gender -- Is It Better to Talk About Them or Pretend They're Not There?
by PunditMom

The conflict about the role that race and gender still play in our society is on display for everyone to see in this presidential race. The press says Geraldine Ferraro is a racist for stating that:

If [Barack] Obama was a white man, he would not be in this position. And if he was a woman [of any color], he would not be in this position. He happens to be very lucky to be who he is. And the country is caught up in the concept.

The "lucky" comment, not so artful.

But what about the general point she was trying to make -- that if Barack Obama was a white man or a woman of any race, that candidate would not be in his position today -- on the verge of changing his address to 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue, Washington, D.C.?

No on likes to admit that race, or gender, is a factor in how people make decisions today, but it is still a fact of our lives. As the mother of an Asian daughter, I want her grow up in a world where she will be valued for who she is, not judged by the color of her skin or the fact that she wears skirts.

But what former vice-presidential candidate Ferraro said isn't that far from the comments made by the grande dame of feminism, Gloria Steinem, in her New York Times op-ed Women Are Never Front-Runners, implying that Obama would not be where he is if he wasn't a man:

The woman in question became a lawyer after some years as a community organizer, married a corporate lawyer and is the mother of two little girls, ages 9 and 6. Herself the daughter of a white American mother and a black African father — in this race-conscious country, she is considered black — she served as a state legislator for eight years, and became an inspirational voice for national unity.

Be honest: Do you think this is the biography of someone who could be elected to the United States Senate? After less than one term there, do you believe she could be a viable candidate to head the most powerful nation on earth?

if (acm.rc) acm.rc.write(); If you answered no to either question, you’re not alone. Gender is probably the most restricting force in American life, whether the question is who must be in the kitchen or who could be in the White House. This country is way down the list of countries electing women and, according to one study, it polarizes gender roles more than the average democracy.

Is it OK to discuss that there are so many things divided by gender but not have that same disucssion about race? Wouldn't we be better if we actually faced the situation and talked about it the way we talk about sexism? While many in the GOP might agree with Ferraro's remarks, not so many on the Democratic side are. But some do recognize at least a small grain of truth in what she said.

Kristen at MOMocrats (and Motherhood Uncensored):

If we were wondering if race was going to play a role in the Democratic race then we should thank the Mississippi primary for firming it up in our minds. Am I saying that Obama's policies or heck, his inspirational speeches, were not the deciding factor for the state's fine residents, but rather that voting could have actually come down to skin color alone?

Yes. I am.

Sadly, it's not surprising. As a five-year resident of Mississippi, and a former professor at the University Barack Obama spoke at on Monday, there's no doubt in my mind that Obama won based on race.

While Liz at MOMocrats (and Mom-101) is conflicted, she said initially after the Ferraro comments:

For better or worse, these are often the details that get politicians ahead. We consider race, gender, religion, hometown, education, sexuality to help determine whether our values will be in sync with our candidate's. Wrongly? Maybe. But we do. This is exactly why liberals feel betrayed by a gay Republican. And conservatives feel betrayed by a Catholic liberal. And so here we are in primary season with Dems rallying around two Not Old White Men.

It's not a coincidence.

And let's be clear: Both Hillary and Barack leverage their Not Old White Men status whenever they can. Whenever it suits them.

Veronica at Viva La Feminsta, sees and discusses both sides of the race/gender coin:

What Geraldine Ferraro said about Barack Obama is correct and insulting all at the same time.
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Then again, I've always known that sexism will win out in almost any race, including against race. When people have asked me if I thought we could see a woman President, I usually would say, "Right after a black man." I don't think that sexism is worse than racism...it's just that I think that given two choices (as we have now) people would rather vote for a man, any man, over a woman.
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Am I glad that Ferraro resigned? Yes. Was her comment inappropriate? Yes. Was it racist? It had a tinge. Is she racist? I don't think so.

To have this conversation doesn't mean we think it's right. It acknowledges the not-so-pleasant reality that still exists in this country -- that race and gender still play a part in many people's decision making. The ferocity of reaction to Ferraro's comments -- and to Steinem's op-ed -- prove that racism and sexism are still here and will be for some time.

But when some people insist that we not talk about these issues, suggesting that they are not problems in this country anymore, it just makes me shake my head in wonder and ask, are they living in the same country I am?

I say, discuss away. It can only help us move past these barriers. I'd like to see them knocked down so I don't have to explain them to my eight-year-old.

When Joanne isn't trying to explain to her second-grader why people ask about the shape of her eyes or the color of her skin, she's trying to look at the presidential race in a way different from other pundits at her place, PunditMom.

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Comments

 

No Black woman, or any woman

No Black woman, or any woman of color, that I know has the luxury of "pretending that race and gender are not there." The silly thing about all these "gender bias worse than race bias" comments is that they ignore that we are not talking, with HRC, of a "woman of any color" but of a *White* woman. To ignore the privileges HRC has received based on her race is historically inaccurate at best and calculatingly racist at best. How many "women of any (other than White) color," for example in the history of the USA been able to launch a career of any kind from being a former First Lady?

I say "calculatingly" because it is quite possible that these remarks are an insidious tactic meant to capitalize on long-standing fears, something that has been used for centuries to cleave poor, working class, and middle income Whites from poor, working class, and middle income non-Whites: "You [White person] are not progressing--not because of Us--but because of Those People taking all of your [jobs/educational spots/women/whatever]."

However, Ms. Ferraro did not stop at invoking this line of thinking but went one step further by voicing the classic line "I am being discriminated against because I am White." ("Racism without racists," indeed.)

Finally, I wonder how folks who have been so sure that people will accept Black men before White women explain the number of Black male governors compared to White female ones, Black male senators compared to White female ones.

(Or, Ms. Ferraro, Black male VP running mates compared to White female ones...)

Really. This whole line of comparison has really gone from the ridiculous to the potentially dangerous. But it seems we are unable to have truly important discussion of intersections among race, gender, class, orientation, and other identities without playing these tired games.

Six Impossible Things Before Breakfast

 

Ferraro and Steinem's comments were unworthy
of them

Hi PunditMom,

I respectfully disagree with your assessment that the reaction to Ferraro and Steinem's comments prove the ferocity of racism and sexism in this country. Race and gender have been discussed ad nauseam throughout this campaign, usually without historical context. And Ferraro and Steinem's contributions to that conversations are particularly disturbing because as trailblazing women, they should know better.

Let me start with this issue of race, and Obama's support among black voters. Remember that throughout much of 2007, the drumbeat was that Obama might not be "black enough" to win black voters over. Here's Time magazine, Jan. 23, 2007, asking, Can Obama count on the Black Vote?:

Much of Obama's overall appeal stems from his image as practically a post-racial politician. Not only does he have a mixed-race background, with a white mother from Kansas and a black father from Kenya, but his rhetoric, most notably his 2004 Democratic National Convention speech, emphasizes the importance of Americans moving beyond political, religious and racial differences. He rarely makes explicit appeals based on his race the way Jackson did. " A lot of black people aren't ready to get beyond race, because race puts them in the situation they're in," said Ron Walters, a professor at the University of Maryland who worked on Jesse Jackson's Presidential runs. "But many whites want to get beyond the past, they want to support a black person who doesn't raise the past and in fact gives them absolution from the past."

It was such an open question that The Nation ran an item when a poll appeared showing that black voters were favorably disposed toward both Obama AND Clinton.

The tide did not turn for Obama with black voters until South Carolina. The Nation observed in December, 2007:

With African-Americans likely to make up a majority of primary voters on the Democratic side, South Carolina's contest is as close to a "black primary" as we're going to get in 2008--the only time in the entire campaign, almost certainly, when Democrats will be fighting all-out for African-American votes. Clinton's support among African-Americans, largely thanks to her husband's popularity, proved surprisingly strong at first, as did her smooth, state-of-the-art machine politics; as late as September, a CNN poll gave her a stunning 57 percent of the black vote here, to Obama's paltry 33. That would deal a death blow to Obama's chances, not only here but in the February 5 primaries, especially in Alabama and Georgia, where large numbers of black voters are weighing their choices--and watching South Carolina.

I could go on, but the record shows that the black vote was divided before South Carolina, and a good argument can be made that black voters were energized byObama's strong showings in Iowa and New Hampshire, as well as high-profile supporters such as Oprah Winfrey and alienated by remarks by people associated with the Clinton campaign such as Bill Shaheen and Bob Johnson.

Now, let's talk about Gloria Steinem, whom I have read with great respect for more than 30 years, until now. If you haven't seen it, I highly recommend that you check out this discussion between Ms. Steinem and Prof. Melissa Harris-Lacewell. For now, I will briefly make two points:

1. Steinem is right to note that race and gender are intersecting oppressions. She is also right to note that men of color benefit by being men. However, she fails to acknowledge the gendered baggage that is particularly attached to black men. This is part of what is behind the anxiety that many African Americans have that Obama will be assassinated if he actually ascends to the Presidency. Reportedly, it's what kept Gen. Colin Powell from even trying.

2. Steinem's argument that black men got the vote 50 years before women of any color is ahistorical and painfully simplistic. She knows full well that black men's voting rights were systematically stripped from them in the decades right after the end of the Civil War. She says that she believes that violence would have been mitigated had the coalition of abolitionists and suffragists held together, and that black men such as Frederick Douglass were ardent advocates of women's rights. She knows, too, that some leaders of the women's suffrage movement, most notably, Alice Paul, actively worked to exclude black women from leadership roles in the National Women's Party. (You can read some of the primary source documents here.)

Finally, it pains me that Steinem, who is well versed in the complex and painful history of these issues, would present her argument in such a polarizing way.

Now, let's talk about Geraldine Ferraro, for whom I voted in 1984. She was in her third term in the House of Representatives when she was plucked from obscurity to run with Walter Mondale. That had been her first elective office. Before that, she had been an assistant district attorney and a lawyer in private practice.

She did not have the record of community service that either Clinton or Obama have. She did not have the international experience or exposure that either Obama or Clinton have, apart from a diplomatic mission to Nicaragua.

This is the person who is saying that Barack Obama's appeal is solely racial, as if his experience, political skills, and positions on the issues count for nothing. In 1988, she echoed Ronald Reagan by saying, "If Jesse Jackson were not black, he wouldn't be in the race." Never mind that Jackson had a history of coalition-building around populist issues that connected with hard-pressed Midwestern farmers as well as struggling urban voters, for all of the controversy and criticism he also engendered.

I was dumbfounded and disappointed by Ferraro's remarks. For her to then compound the problem by claiming that she was being attacked because she is white is beyond ridiculous.

I have said that I was undecided between Clinton and Obama. I ended up voting for Obama in the New Jersey primary, although I am no fawning acolyte. It is my intention to vote for Hillary Clinton in the general election, should she be the nominee.

I have no problems discussing race and gender. I do think that Clinton has been hit by vicious sexism, although I still don't know what Elisa was referring to in an earlier comment when she was

"offended by things that either Obama himself or his staff (paid and unpaid) have said because he is totally capitalizing on the fact that this is still a sexist nation and because, worst sin of all, he is capitalizing on Republican talking points."

The sexism I've seen has been that stupid nutcracker doll, the complete dismissal of her experience as First Lady (although FactCheck.org has noted that Clinton oversold her foreign policy experience), and the big deal that has been made about her tearing up just before two important primaries. Steinem said that like Obama, Clinton's life has been threatened, and I can believe that. Clearly, everyone should expect these kinds of sexist acts to be rejected and condemned.

We need people like Ferraro and Steinem to stand as voices of integrity on these issues. Unfortunately, they have not.

Kim
BlogHer Contributing Editor|Professor Kim|

 

Sojourner Truth's Words Ring So True

It's definitely better to talk about issues of race and gender. Race has been brought up repeatedly by the Clinton campaign. And as a black woman listening to the discussion, I keep thinking about the poem by by Sojourner Truth, "Aint I A Woman." When people say "woman" the assumption is usually about a "white" woman.

I've even noticed it on SNL's sketch with Tina Fey. Her statement that "bitch is the new black" was offensive to me on many levels. I don't like the word bitch. I seldom use it and don't like to be called it. And there was certainly a double meaning to the word "black" in this context. It wasn't just about a little black dress.

Anali's First Amendment

 

What I was referring to...

Hey Kim. I found his "tea party" comment sexist. I found his references to how she behaves when she's "feeling down" to be sexist. He suddenly started using the "polarizing figure" language somewhat recently in the campaign and that is a total Republican talking point. Those are just the three that most immediately pop into my mind.

But as I made the point in my blog: none of it is incredibly vicious, I don't freak out about it; it wouldn't make me not vote for him in the general election should he win the nomination, I just don't like it. I'm just pointing out that he is not "above the fray" from my view...which is a position he tries stake out.

Elisa Camahort
BlogHer
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Thanks, Elisa, for the clarification

I agree with you about the "tea party" comment, although I think the other comment is less clear. And I'll grant that the "polarizing figure" remark is a Republican talking point, although it's always been implicit in his pitch that he can unify people and move us ahead from the "politics of the past." Similarly, Clinton's talk about his unreadiness to be Commander In Chief will likely end up in attack ads this fall, if Obama is the nominee. But you are right that we've seen this kind of thing before. George H.W. Bush lampooned Ronald Reagan's "voodoo economics" during the 1980 Republican primary, but switched up once he was on the ticket. Switch his position on reproductive choice, too.

We'll have to agree to disagree that those comments from Obama are comparable to the drumbeat of attacks directed at him.

Mind you, I think there are a lot of legitimate questions to ask of Sen. Obama. For example, here's a story about the earmarks he requested for the hospital where his wife is an executive, or the company that has his finance chair as a supporter. That's fair game. (I will give him credit at the same time, for making his list of earmarks, as well as his Senate voting record easy to find, by the way.) I think Clinton and McCain should be expected to do the same.

I do think that there is a danger that people will be alienated from the political process if this kind of thing continues.

Kim
BlogHer Contributing Editor|Professor Kim|

 

Bravo Veronica

"...correct and insulting all at the same time."

Wish I had said it so concisely.

Mom-101
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Why was it correct?

I honestly don't understand what would be correct about Ferraro's statement. Please enlighten me.

Kim
BlogHer Contributing Editor|Professor Kim|

 

let me try...

I think that the notion that there is excitement around a black candidate is legitimate, which was an aspect of Ferraro's original statement as quoted in the NYT. (Also in part an article that I based my original but now mostly rescinded Momocrats post on.)

If I were to spin her comments positively (and lose the stupid aspects of it) I'd say that part of his success stems from the fact that liberals are happy to get out of the Old White Man paradigm of nominees, with the expectation that there will be inherent change in having a black - or female - President. This of course is not exclusive of other factors in his apeal - if it were a choice of race alone Al Sharpton would be President now. But I can agree that his diverse heritage holds a lot of appeal, and perhaps an Obama presidency will go along way in repairing the deep racial divide that still exists here.

Mom-101
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Negative, Ghostwriter!

"perhaps an Obama presidency will go along way in repairing the deep racial divide that still exists here."

I really doubt it will.

I'm not too optimistic about America's race relations because we like to pretend everything is fine, that we are a colorblind society, in which you can "make it" no matter where you come from. If Obama wins, that will give the pretenders even more fodder for their position. I think that America, at its core, is a racist country, and until we REALLY deal with all the mumbo-jumbo in our HISTORY, we won't "solve" any race problem in this country. But hey...that's just me.

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Optimistic. Too optimistic?

I suppose if the next generation of American kids grow up with a Black president in the White House - particularly those with no people of color in their communities, and their only ideas about race formed through media portrayals - that could be outstanding progress. Familiarity goes a long way towards erasing stereotypes.

Too optimistic? Maybe. I hope not.

Mom-101
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Let's Talk About It!

Race & Gender should most definitely be discussed. I think the problem arises when we try to convince ourselves that our country has moved past this issue and then it takes something very divisive (OJ anyone?) to reopen the wounds.

Getting into a tit-for-tat about which plight, racism or sexism, is worse is just a waste of time. Until we realize that most 'isms' are inextricably connected, we won't ever reach that mystical, magical place of togetherness.

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This was my point ...

... exactly!

Racism and sexism are both horrible things. But the way they are being "discussed" in this campaign minimizes the fact that both are still, unfortunately, alive and well in our country.

I wish we could find a way to discuss how we can make things better on both fronts -- admit we are still grappling with them and admit we are an imperfect country. If we can start talking about these issues in a real way, maybe there could be a chance to overcome them in our children's lifetimes.

PunditMom
http://punditmom1.blogspot.com
Contributing Editor, Politics & News

 

How About Race and Disability

Lest we get distracted by the call-girls, NY now has the first legally disabled governor in the US (he's legally blind.) He's also black and a gay-rights supporter. If we take the opportunity, we can look at the role of people with disabilities in our country.

Here's my lame humor attempt at starting the dialog on my JUST CAUSE blog.

But yes, i ALWAYS think it's best to talk about it. It's real..... Pretending we're all the same doesn't help anyone.

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Alyssa Royse
JUST CAUSE
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Race and disability, indeed -- and gender,
too

Read your post -- you're right that defining disability is incredibly challenging. I'm planning to talk about some of that in response to LainaD's call for women of color to write letters to our bodies -- I am actually trying to work my way past a well- practiced silence on the subject. It's such a peculiar experience to be who I am with the condition that I have (ankylosing spondylitis) that I never thought anyone else could relate to it. I can't relate to it myself, much of the time.

Kim
BlogHer Contributing Editor|Professor Kim|

 

that's a tried truth

the idea of defining a disability is one that fascinates me, and i really will try to write "in earnest" about it someday.

defining anything really is such a conundrum. any label, i know, that is attached to me, no matter how many of them you put on me, would fall woefully short of painting an accurate picture. and i've come to realize that NO ONE can understand what it's like to be me. period.

sometimes i think it's as simple as ditching the whole idea of "understanding" each other in pursuit of the simultaneously easier and harder goal of respecting each other. not even, necessarily "accepting," just respecting.

we are all so different. our tastes. desires. skills. vision. we cannot be expected to love and except all of it. but we must find a way to respect it. and if we all start treating each other with the basic respect and dignity that we deserve , i have to believe that a lot of our problems would resolve themselves.

think of the things we do to each other that we could not do if respect were our goal.

it's a simple thing. but staggering.

i cannot understand what it's like to be you. you cannot understand what it's like to be me.

but we can respect each other. and from there, learn from each other. grow. shape the world in which we all respectfully coexist.

yeah, i know. i'm a dreamer. (anyone else understand that? i hope so!)
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Alyssa Royse
JUST CAUSE
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