A rape that has left people wishing her dead
by snigdhasen

Part II: Interview with writer Pinki Virani

In her column on June 1, titled The woman whom God forgot, Times of India editor Bachi Karkaria -- who I have had the pleasure and honor of working for -- had a death wish for a woman on her 60th birthday; a woman trapped in a hospital bed and a vegetative state for 35 years with an acute sense of pain. The desperation in the tone of a no-nonsense editor like Karkaria had me glued to the story:

Not all women are as sexty as India is this year. In a lonely room in a crowded Mumbai hospital, the woman turning 60 today remains trapped in the perennial midnight hour into which she was pushed on November 27, 1973. Do her a favour. Wish her a happy deathday.

Aruna Shanbaug, a staff nurse at Mumbai's (Bombay) historic King Edward Memorial Hospital, was sodomized and strangulated with a dog chain on the hospital premises in 1973. The attack sent her into a coma from which she progressed into a semiconscious state and has remained thus ever since:

Aruna never come out of the semi-coma into which she lapsed; she has remained on the same hospital bed since 1973. The strangulation took away her sight, speech and mobility, but, perversely not her ability to feel pain. Her tormentor walks free. He was convicted for seven years, only for stealing her jewellery and watch, but not rape. Her hymen, after all, was intact.

The article led me to a book (Aruna's Story), by journalist Pinki Virani, who first heard about Shanbaug when she confronted her mother, who wouldn't stop warning her well-traveled daughter about the risks for being a woman and her late hours. Virani later mentioned Aruna to her then editor, Bachi Karkaria, who commissioned her to do a story. Virani followed her story for years after the Sunday special hit the stands, which subsequently turned into a book.

Aruna's story was a sensation every time it made news; in 1973 when the attack happened, several years later when Virani did her special story, when it became a book, and now, when I read the story in Karkaria's column. Aruna's story has all the ingredients to make your innards flip.

Virani's book tells a story -- in remarkable detail -- of courage, of unbelievable love and hate, overwhelming humanity and cruelty, the sad machinations of government-run hospitals and our legal system, a beautiful life that was so close to being successful, a spirit that is so indomitable that it refuses to leave a body crushed by pain. And the injustice of it all -- while the perpetrator, despite being the focal point of so many people's rage, remains free, the people who care for her want the victim relieved of her misery.

Life, please, let go of her.

Aruna's tragic journey goes something like this: She is all of 25 and a staff nurse at one of the country's most prestigious and historic hospitals. She came from a less-than-well-off family in a coastal village near Mumbai, and was determined to break free of the poverty and mundane existence that came with it. She was known to be sharp-tongued, a rule-breaker, but smart and well-intentioned. And she was pretty, a head-turner. She had ambitions of studying in England, which, of course, she was ready to give up to be married to the most promising doctor at KEM. She was just about to go on leave when tragedy struck.

Or more precisely, a disgruntled sweeper, who couldn't deal with being reprimanded several times by Aruna for slacking off and, as she alleged, stealing food meant for dogs at an experimental lab in the basement of the hospital. Aruna hated her posting in the "dog lab", but made the best of it.
The morning of the attack, Aruna had told the sweeper she was going to complain to the dean about his behavior, and that it would be his last day at KEM. The same evening -- after she changed out of her uniform at the dog lab, [despite repeated orders from the matron and seniors not to do so, many nurses changed in the lab instead of the designated area some floors above] -- she was attacked by the sweeper.

Since she was menstruating, he sodomized her, strangled her with a dog chain while doing so, and left her for dead.

And then began a saga that has left so many who cared for her so dispirited that they'd rather see her dead than have her deal with her excruciating pain. Her family abandoned her for the most part, but wouldn't sign off her custody to the hospital, preventing some crucial tests from being conducted. Her fiancé, after waiting patiently by her bedside for years, moved on, giving her listless body one final hug and her first and only kiss.

She still lives because of the unflinching love of her nurse-colleagues, who went on strike for her cause (Virani notes in her book that this was the first recorded strike by nurses in independent India), who became so possessive that they were ready to block doctors from trying any radical, untested treatment on her. The doctors gave freely of their time to treat her. There were times when the city corporation (that ran the hospital) tried to move her out of the premises to a convalescence home (a veritable death trap) and even succeeded once. KEM nurses found her rotting away in the home, raised a stink, and brought her right back.

The most bizarre part of the story is, however, the accused getting away with a seven-year sentence for robbing and attacking her. Why? Because no one was ready to be the complainant for the sexual assault. Her hymen was intact, so her rape was "unnatural", which is severely punishable by the law. But the hospital -- already beleaguered following the attack --- didn't want to report an "unnatural offense", which could lead to further unrest.

Aruna was attacked before I was born. But her story resonates with so many of us who continue to live with the rage against and fear of such debilitating sexual attacks. Bloghers like Preeti Zachariah at Tenacious Thoughts and And miles to go before I sleep...are angry at Aruna's condition and the innumerable rapes across the country.
Usha Vaidyanathan at Agelessbonding took a stab at understanding why men rape and what in our culture allows this to happen.

I have so many questions swimming in my mind about Aruna Shanbaug, as I struggle to come to terms with what happened to her. Is her case so hopeless? Is there not the slightest chance that her suffering can be mitigated?
Why do these brave women who have followed her case want her to go?

I wrote to Pinki Virani, who was kind enough to respond quickly with an email she sent out a day before Aruna's 60th birthday. She has agreed to answer my questions and I will update this post or repost next week. Meanwhile, I quote from the email she sent me:

tomorrow, june 1 2008, a woman called aruna shanbaug turns 60.

she does not need money. the people of bombay -- the city she came to from coastal karnataka to become a nurse, get engaged to a doctor, live happily ever after -- pay for her upkeep through their taxes to the bmc (the hospital aruna lies on a bed in, is run by the bombay municipal corporation).

she does not need publicity. she has the dubious distinction of being recorded in india's first faction book -- it is exclusively on her -- as the only case of her kind in the world.

she does not need food or clothing. the mashed food she is fed, ironically, is what is keeping her alive. her new clothing tends to get stolen. she can't control the theft because she can neither see, nor speak, nor move from her hospital bed.

all she can do is scream.

this, she does. because it is her last memory -- of being sodomised in her workplace, of being strangulated with a dog-chain while being raped.

the coming november 27, 2008, will make it 35 years for that incident.

what aruna needs from you is a small, quick prayer. to whomsoever you believe in: God/Khuda/Malik/Bhagwan/Lord. that she be allowed to die.

please.



Related News:
Four women India forgot (TOI)
The Power of One

Author demands KEM nurse's brain scan (Indian Express)
The Gory Story (How Pinki Virani came to write this book) (IE)
Pinki Virani wins national award (Deccan Herald)
National Award for Author

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What a terrible tragedy

So sad to think that the life of a talented woman has been filled with suffering like this.

Kalyn Denny
Kalyn's Kitchen

 

Tragedy and outrage...

I can't even begin to imagine her suffering, Kalyn. What if she is actually fully aware of all that happened to her and what she has lost?

And there are some reports that the man has served his term, changed his name and city and continues to work as a ward boy in a hospital. Of course, no one has confirmed that, but can you imagine?

He must be old now. He must have grown old reading all these news reports about him and what he had done.

Why am I struggling so hard to forgive him? 

 

 

 

 

they had no dna testing back

they had no dna testing back then.

today he'd be in the slammer. 

 

DNA testing and more

You are right about that, Wetnap, but I am not even sure that's where the problem lay. The doctors had fiugred what had happened. But no one was willing to complain about a rape/sodomy on paper. Not the doctors and certainly not her family: the hospital seemed worried that it would further damanage their reputation (sodomy was quite unthinkable then), and the family, well.

I am not the least bit surprised that the we tend to think only about the victim -- the damage is done, so why bother?

Rape convictions are still low in India, but, yes, in this case, I guess he would be in the slammer if it happened today. 

 

God bless her soul

I dont know exactly what to react when I was reading through this blog. I am a strong believer that everything happens for a reason, but to be in this torment for so long...

But still, I would want to hope that one day, just one day she'll wake from her coma and just be free from all, the physical and emotional pain. 

God bless her soul. 

 

Amen to that

Without a doubt discussions about her karma came up. But what about the rapist's karma?

Some said Aruna Shanbaug would live until justice was done and the man was punished for his crime.

Either way, we all want her to be relieved of her pain. 

 

 

Seven years!

Thanks for shining light on this story, Snigda. We don't want to hear about horror, but sometimes we must listen and see so we will understand how much work there's left to do to make this world better.

And the hospital thought it was better that the man get a shorter sentence that for them to deal with more unrest?

Her pain must be like a living hell. 

Aruna's story will stick with me.

 

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Yes, 7 years and why...

I couldn't agree with you more, Nordette. This happened in 1973. How far have we really come since then with our laws on sexual abuse, conviction rates for rape and social stigma? Not too far, I dare say, at least not in India, yet. The pace is remarkably slow, despite the obvious horror of the crime.

About the seven years: According to the book, technically, he was serving 14 -- seven for robbery and seven for attempt to murder. Since he had no prior records, the sentences ran concurrently.

Another two years could've piled on for "outraging modesty". Another 10 could have been added if anyone filed a case of "unnatural offence". [Sodomy is treated as an unnatural offence by Indian law. There is a movement to decrimilinalize certain parts of the law to make gay sexual relations between consenting adults legal, but that's a different story.]

About the hospital's decision: I don't agree with it, but I am not too surprised. This was 1973 India. The book notes a conversation between nurses, where one nurse was at a loss when she was told Aruna was raped although her hymen was in place.

I sometimes can't help wondering what Aruna thinks about all day.

 

 

 

Truly death seems to be the

Truly death seems to be the only way out for Aruna Shanbaugh. What a tragedy! I have only one question? I wonder whether any one has tried whispering to her that what happened was no fault of hers? People in a coma do hear and maybe what she screams about is not just the pain. From what I have read, one of the biggest traumas for a rape victim to get over, is the feeling that it is the victim's fault in some way. May she find peace and blessed release soon.

 

Good question

Suemamma, you've asked the most pertinent question relating to sexual abuse -- guilt. Yes, some people wondered then if this was avoidable.

Such questions are asked of a rape victim even today. 

I do not know if people have told her she is not responsible for what happened to her. But from reading the book, it seems there were many who beat down any attempt to shift the blame on her. I doubt any of the caring nurses and doctors would ever whisper a single negative word into her ear.

Also, Aruna seemed to be a woman of grit. Even in those times she questioned the traditional role of a woman in Indian society. She was a go-getter. So, to me, it seems unlikely she would blame herself. But regret? That's possible. She was just a few days away from her dream life -- all planned and provisioned for. If only...

 

 

 

This is horrible!

I was shocked to read this, Snigdha. I don't know how the scoundrel got away with such a light sentence. He should have been sentenced to life imprisonment until death! Why was he not sentenced for causing grievous injury?

Raj 

 

The Why's...

Raj, the "why's" in Aruna Shanbaug's case are indeed baffling. That's what makes the story. As I've mentioned in the story and comments, his sentences (seven years each) ran concurrently, and nobody was willing to officially file a sexual attack case.

Check out my interview with the author, Pinki Virani. That should clear up a few things. If you get a chance, do pick up the book. It's a baffling case and we'll be better off as a people if we don't ever forget what happened to her and how badly things can go wrong.

Good to see you back here, Raj :)

 

 

Baffling, indeed!

I did read the interview. What happened to Aruna after the murderous sexual assault is terrible. It's heartening to know that Pinki and her husband and other well-wishers are taking care of Aruna.

I had a few problems logging in after I forgot my blogher password, but now everything works fine.

Raj