Reading Saves Us
by sassymonkey

People who wield words often have no idea what the result of their words will be. Words have amazing power. They can cause wars, or negotiate peace. The wrong words can destroy a person. But when the right words hit the right reader, they can save and transform them.

Many people I know, myself included, read as a form of escape. When it's a stressful week at work or something is going on in my life that I can't do much about reading gives me a way to forget about it for a few minutes or hours. Through a book I can go on a trip to Italy, become someone else, sometime even leave the galaxy. In the not so great moments reading helps me see the possibilities that exist. In the good moments it reminds that there is still more that is possible.

For Elizabeth at Take a Whisk, reading got her through rough times in her childhood.

Reading saved me. I got lost in the words and escaped a stressful childhood and school experiences that were less than joyful. The words helped heal my first broken heart and they helped me to see that the world was a much bigger place than I could possibly imagine.

Sometimes books saved us from the monsters in the closet. For write J.L. Powers books got her through the night.

I would creep out of bed and get a book, a safe book, a children’s book, one that wouldn’t contain demons or violence or anything unsafe. I would huddle in the very back of my closet, bathed in the harsh light of the light bulb. Or, better yet (because it made me feel less sequestered from the people I needed to be near me in order to feel safe), I would gently ease open my bedroom door and sit on the cold cement floor of the entryway just outside my bedroom.

For others the fears and monsters weren't easy to get rid of. Dear Author set aside their usual "first sale" series this Monday to post, as they said, a very, very special essay from Chloe on why she reads. It saved her.

I am alive today because of books. Over 5 years ago, my abuse flashbacks were coming to a head and I was getting maybe 30 minutes of sleep each night after I’d wake up screaming from what I call the “five rape marathon flashback”. Nora Roberts/JD Robb’s “In Death” series saved my life. I had started counseling the same year Naked in Death was published and tried to read the book when it came out based on the recommendation of a friend. But as soon as I realized that Eve had been abused as a child, I put the book down and didn’t pick it up again until 3 years later.

The Dear Author blog is right. It is a very, very special essay. Stories can provide an escape when we need it. They can make a sick boy laugh. They can help an abused child survive. They can help a woman heal.

Contributing Editor Sassymonkey also blogs at Sassymonkey and Sassymonkey Reads.

Comments

 

It sure does!

This is so true.  So many times when I needed encouragement and rest, I have turned to books, and when I need to escape the stress of life, I disappear into the adventures of my favorite characters.

Meg Massey
Caffeinated Critic and Caffeinated Critic: Home Edition

 

When you escape into reading

Are you more likely to read new books or reread?

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New books, probably.

I'd say that I get lost in a new book, because I let myself get absorbed into it so easily. There are a few standy books that I've re-read that have the same affect.

 

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I Agree

I so agree with you.  Honestly, reading has helped me to continue growing and that keeps my mind health which saves me from depression and feelings of helplessness.  I'm greatful to all the authors who took time to flush out their thoughts and provide me escape and entertainment.

Trudy

*Face the fear and live your dreams*

 

Yup.

I sometimes think the reason I graduated second in my class in high school is because of my reading habits growing up.  I also did not grow up with television.  Reading activates your brain, forcing it to make images and worlds.  TV feeds everything to you and you are a passive observer.

 

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I think also that reading

Causes you to learn things, whether you want to or not. Have you ever noticed that you'll pick up the oddest bits of trivia from reading novels?

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One time I had a problem and

One time I had a problem and I didn't feel comfortable sharing it with other people, so it is when I discovered teh power or reading. I started to read, inspirational stories and quotations, and it did helped make me feel better and think rational. Until now, I still sollect inspirational quotes or stories.

 

Quotes and stories

They can be quite comforting and inspiring. Any particular favourites?

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