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Real Pushups vs. Girly Pushups

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I had established a goal: I wanted to graduate from doing girly pushups on my knees, to being able to do real pushups from my toes. I’m happy to report that I have now accomplished this goal. (It had become somewhat of an obsession. I was constantly talking about it, because I knew I was close.)

Right now I can only do one real pushup before my arms give out (if I wait a few minutes, I can usually pull off another). And for some strange reason, whenever I do them my shoulders pop and crack like a little old lady – it’s quite disturbing. A friend told me it’s because my shoulders aren’t used to the motion and that the sounds will dissipate over time.

Is the ability to do a real pushup a big deal, or not? I think it depends on who you ask. Since I’ve never been able to do a real pushup in my life until last week, I would say HELL YES, it’s a big deal. Then again, there are tons of women who can do many more real pushups than I can – indeed, they can even do multiple pushups, and from all sorts of crazy-difficult positions. (Check out this pushup medley video from the Ice Chamber gym.)

Here’s the thing. I have more upper-body strength right now than I’ve ever had before in my LIFE, and that is a huge deal for me. I’ve always been a weakling. As a kid, I could never propel myself across the monkey bars at a playground, or pull myself up a rope. I’ve had to fight for every bit of strength I’ve obtained, and I’m damn proud of that.

Now that I can do one real pushup, of course I’d like to get to the point where I can do more than one in a row, without having to wait a few minutes before my arms decide they’re capable of trying again. But I’m not worrying about it, because I know if I’ve gotten to the point where I can do one, the ability to do more is sure to come. And I can’t help it – every time I complete another pushup, a voice inside my head shouts, "YES!" I know that I look physically different in the mirror since I started strength-training last summer, but aiming for a particular goal, and having realized it, is a really good feeling.

As an additional motivator, I promised that once I was able to do a real pushup, I would videotape it as proof (with the additional benefit of fulfilling #90 on my 101 Things list: “Post a video on the internet that has me in it”). My camcorder is still buried in my closet and I’ve never tried hooking it up to my Macbook before -- but I did make the promise, so I’ll be doing that very soon.

I’d already started this Pushup Quest before I read the article about pushups in the New York Times a few weeks ago. The author, Tara Parker-Pope, says there aren’t as many people who can do them anymore; that we put more emphasis on cardiovascular fitness instead of building muscle, and people are heavier in general than they used to be. But here’s why pushups are important:

The push-up is the ultimate barometer of fitness. It tests the whole body, engaging muscle groups in the arms, chest, abdomen, hips and legs. It requires the body to be taut like a plank with toes and palms on the floor. The act of lifting and lowering one’s entire weight is taxing even for the very fit.

This article caused a reaction in the blogosphere, as you can imagine. This is what Maggie Wang had say:

[L]adies, hop on the push-up train today if you haven’t already. There’s no reason that women can’t do just as many push-ups as men if they are properly trained (if not more, since many of us are pears with lower centers of gravity than our male counterparts, and therefore don’t have to push as much weight), and honestly, how pathetic are the chicks in the NY Times video [see it here] bouncing away with barely an elbow bend while doing so-called push-ups from their knees? If you look anything like that when performing this mother of all bodyweight exercises, then you really need to get with

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flip-misss 5 pts

push ups was always a concern of mine also. as a kid until now being a teen i was only the small asian girl with no butt and my strenth didnt actually catch up to my mean side. i always had fast metabolism and can run or exercise for whatever length i tried to, IF i tried to, not including exercises that need props =x however i was never ever able to do a push up. i was never forced to try if i can either, so it wasnt a big deal to me.

when i was like 13-15 yrs old,   my weights varied /gradually increased as i got older from 70 lbs to no more than 83. the only times in life, before this, that i had ever done a push up was-----well, never. i did half a push up a couple times. and as i developed i got sick of hearing how too skinny i am! i also never complained about it, but i knew i loveeed to eat and i NEVER cared about what i ate as long as i liked it. fatty foods,n o problem. i was never exactly strong, i was just skinny, and i havent even hit 90lbs until a 5 months ago when i started smoking more and munching much more.that time i started noticing that whenever i gain weight it truly doesnt go to my boobs or ass, just my bellyy haha! i felt like i had a big belly, and thats the only place, because i had scronny thighs and arms and calves and it didnt look like they were getting any of the fat like my belly ever did. also, my itty bitty bit of abs went away lol!

i always felt like i had a goal of being as strong as im able to portray myself to be, NOT to be INTIMIDATING, just for a self-relief and confidence, (im in highschool, turning 16, i dont want to depend on another person to make me look tough) and it came to a point where i wanted to make it a little bit real. about 4 months ago, more or less, i tried doing a push up. tried again the next day and the next, got the hang of it, and did it a little more. i told myslef "once a week i should do this, n ill get a little better i guess"  it wasnt easy of course, because i havent been exercising my muscles like i did when i was the least bit more active in elementary school.

a while ago i decided to do push ups more than that.... more like every day. it may not improve how id do in other strenth exercises but i like to get rid of the feeling like im not below average anymore. i got up to doing 30 push ups a set last week. and i do push ups every day now. right now i do them twice, or three times, maybe even 4 times, of sets of 20-35.  i usually do the little bit of 20 when i slacked off and didnt get around to it the day before or the day before. but when i feel like i missed yesterdays work, i do the 20 or 25, wait a bit until im not too tired and do small stretches in between and the next set im able to do 30, and i like pushing myself to 35 :)  when i do push ups there isnt really a strict routine, i just do it during the most convenient time of my day whenever that is, but i do try to make sure i do a couple sets before the end of every day !

when you practice a certain amount, and feel accomplished, practice it a litte while, and youll achieve a greater accomplishment the next time.

i was especially proud of myself that im able to do 40 push ups the most right now, after reading on the internet that A LOT of people would struggle with this. i weight 93lbs, i hope more( i didnt check in a couple months), possibly less? and im 5'1, one of the girls who get called flat and skinny, but i bet i can do more push ups than you!

Vered 5 pts

Including "real" push-ups!

Vered DeLeeuw
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Maria Niles 5 pts

Well, since my trainer, Jessica, is in that fun Ice Chamber video (she's the one in black) I'd have to say yes :) Though it's taken me time to work up to it. We do pushups at every workout and today I did 12 on my toes.

And, I sure hope that Jezebel post was meant tongue in cheek.

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Zandria 5 pts

Boy, you guys really make me feel motivated to keep going.  I want to be strong enough to do as many pushups as you guys do!

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kazari 5 pts

I've taken up rock-climbing this year, and it's done wonders for my upper body strength.  i still find pushups a challenge, but I start with the 'proper' version and only switch to my knees when I'm beat.

My BIG fitness goal is to be able to climb across the ceiling at my climbing gym.  I'm probably 12 months (or more) away from that.

My current baby-step is being able to swing all the way across the monkey bars in the park.  I can only do two swings now.

Carmen S 5 pts

I just tried it.

 I think I could have done more, but my arms are wiped from yesterday, when we did 200 pushups at capoeira class and I did pull up work at the gym after weight work.

This year's goal is to do ten pullups.  Last year was to do ten pushups. 

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KatieBeez 5 pts

I reserve the right to choose! 

It actually depends on how many push-ups I want to make. Doing real ones, I run out of steam at 20. But my boyfriend and I do the 100 push-up pyramid together. It goes like so:

Do 1 push-up then rest a moment (the other person does theirs while you rest if you are doing it together).

Do 2 push-ups then rest a moment.

Then 3, 4, and so on up to 10 push-ups in a row, resting between reps.

Once you hit 10, you go back to 9, then 8, etc, down to 1 push-up which makes 100.  It's actually kinda fun and even if you have to take longer breaks, or switch to girly push-ups, it's still good.

Debra Roby 5 pts

I had toe surgery last year, and still can't put the pressure on my toes to do standard planks or pushups.  I put my feet on an exercise ball and work from there, instead. 

After reading that article, I've been inspired to give the pushup a real try.  So when I'm doing my reverse crunches, ( http://www.shapefit.com/abs-exercises-exercise-bal... )I add a push up to ever even crunch.  It ain't easy.. but it's getting better.

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Vered 5 pts

I do 20 daily and frankly, with weight lifting, I wouldn't want to work my upper body any more than that. Five to seven hundred over two hours? Wow, but not exactly a goal of mine.

Of course you will be able to do more! It's just like any other exercise. You build strength and endurance - gradually.

Vered DeLeeuw
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heivilinj 5 pts

in the wrong place for women who can do regular pushups.

I study Gojo Ryu karate and our assistant instructor (a ju dan black belt) can do them easily. I've met several female black belts in other chapters of our art and I'm certain they can do lots and lots of them (we routinely do five to seven hundred of them over a two hour period during our testing workouts).

Her husband, our sensei, can likely do more (but then he's been studying the art for more years) but if she hits you she'll knock you back into the wall. And she has a whole lot more flexibility and core strength than me or any of our male sempai.

And yes, knee pushups work different muscle groups, however they are a good place to start if you want to work up. I've seen a number of our students (I'm a brown belt now) start being unable to do (m)any knee pushups and work their way up to quite a few.

Jim Heivilin