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Replacing Ourselves: Do We Owe Future Generations Our Reproduction Today?

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We've heard for years the Baby Boomers are going to kill Social Security when they start drawing off it.  X, Y and Millennium just aren't putting it back in fast enough. There just aren't enough of us to take care of all of them.

Is it getting worse?

Well, maybe. According to the U.S. Census Bureau:

  • In 1976, 10.2% of women aged 40-44 had never had a child, 9.6% only had one child and 35.9% had nearly 3 or more children (it gets foggy with the whole percentages of a kid thing, which I can never wrap my head around).  
  • In 2004, 19.3% of women aged 40-44 had never had a child, 17.4% had between one and two children and 34.% percent had fewer than three children (again, this math is sort of fuzzy).  

So it seems we're having fewer children, and we're having them later in life.  The teen birth rate is down. So ... some people are panicking.

Angela at Homeschoolin' Hot Rodders writes in response to a comment from Nancy Pelosi regarding contraception and reduced spending:

America needs to produce 2.1 children per couple to keep up with births to support the population -- and that rate is not being maintained. Economies in Europe have been especially hurt by a drop in birth rates.

Hmm.  Well, sure, we need more kids to take care of us when we're old, but what if we can't afford to have them now? It seems the Pelosi statement highlighted a problem in our current economic downturn:  kids, what with their darned needs for education and healthcare, cost everyone money until they get old enough to get a job and pay taxes.

Katha Pollitt at The Guardian UK writes:

More important, what about the economics of actually existing women and families? This is no time to be saddling people with babies they don't want and can't provide for, who will further reduce the resources available for the kids they already have and further limit parents' ability to get an education or a job. In a Depression, birth rates go down for a reason: People. Have. No. Money.

As far as repopulating the earth goes, I think we're going to be okay. The Census Bureau also says only North Dakota actually lost population between 2000 and 2005, and only a handful of states had flat growth. Not everyone needs to have two kids, because some people have ten.  I do think it's a good idea for anyone with fewer than nine kids to purchase long-term care insurance. I don't think we can safely assume anymore that our kids will be able to care for us in our old age.  They'll probably be dealing with young kids themselves, and they or may not be better off than we are now.  

I firmly believe people should decide whether or not to bear children based on their ability to care for and love those children. I don't think anyone should bear children out of a sense of responsibility or economic pressure. I also don't think anyone should bear children they don't want. I don't understand how we can really talk about childbearing in relation to economics, as bearing children is such a silly thing to do from an economic standpoint. Have you seen how much they eat?

But that's not really why we have kids, now, is it?

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Liz Rizzo 5 pts

I never understand these concerns. If America finds itself low on population, couldn't we just let more people become citizens? Even with all of our troubles, there certainly still seem to be plenty of people who want to come here.

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sandhillsis 5 pts

I would love to see an option to opt out  of SS. I would cut my loses with what they have already rec'd from me in the last 20 years and plan to be self supporting.

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Ocean 5 pts

I applaud you for bringing up this subject, so vital to us all. 

While literally billions of children live in cruel poverty and suffer starvation every day, I can't understand why people in our country would be wondering about what is right about deciding to bear children or not.

It's right to adopt children who need homes rather than to create more.

It's right to find ways to curb human overpopulation which is ruining our planet.

It's right to understand that having an innocent child should only be for his or her nurturance, not for our own selfish ends, like hoping they'll support us in old age.

Having a child should be a calling, and not many of us are well-enough suited to parent the way a precious child deserves, and yes, someone should have adequate monies in place before even contemplating having one.

We're a world first, not only a country, and we need to understand that decisions made globally are the only way our planet will survive with any quality of life for the next generations. Some of your ideas smack of elitism, or of preferences for one type of offspring, whether you meant for them to or not.

Love is wanting something worthwhile to hand down.

Love is taking care of helpless children now. 

Love is including the reality of all the world's chldren suffering now, today,  in any decisions made in life, whether individually or collectively. 

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nmwillia 5 pts

In response to your second point, why should I, a 23 year old woman with a good job who has been paying Social Security taxes for 9 years, have to pay a large chunk of my salary to support this generation's social security, while at the same time figuring out a way to put even more money away to provide for myself someday? We won't have to worry about having kids because there will be no way we could ever hope to support and provide for them. 

The government has forced MY generation into a contract, where we have been paying out SS taxes today, understanding that we will at least receive our money back someday. I for one sincerly hope that if Social Security is cancelled, there will be a number of class action lawsuits brought against the governmental agencies and officials responsible for tanking it in the first place.

sandhillsis 5 pts

First. If you wait to have the kids until you can 'afford' them, you may never have them. It's all about choices and what's important. But if you breed it, be able to feed it.

Second. How about teaching financial responisbility to our kids? Then  when Social Security fails because everyone knows the government doesn't handle money well, who cares. You have already PLANNED ahead and SAVED and can support yourself.

It's really not complicated, if you will live within your means and not beg for handouts.

PS. I feel like I can say this, living debt free on one median income, with plans in place for college and retirement.

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DigitalFrameGirl 5 pts

"Well, sure, we need more kids to take care of us when we're old, but what if we can't afford to have them now?" I totally agree with this phrase. We can't force anybody to make babies more than 1 because of populayion issues. In fact one reasn why, have this number of population is because of abortion.

AmberS 5 pts

You're right, from an economic standpoint kids make no sense.  I also did not have children to care for me in my old age, to pay into a pension plan so that I can collect, or for the benefit of society.  I don't think that we can expect people to procreate for the common good. Having children is such a big thing, it shouldn't be entered into due to misplaced guilt.

People did have larger families in the past, but maybe that wasn't all for the better.  My grandparents all came from large families, but those large families couldn't afford to educate them or provide for them in the way we expect to today.  We all want to provide a good life for our children, and that often means limiting our family size.

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Suzanne 5 pts

Call me crazy, but doesn't it make more sense to reform the social security system instead of asking people to have more kids, who in theory, will eventually prop up the system with their earnings?

Also, perhaps if people had fewer kids, they'd be able to save more for retirement. I hear that college costs about $20,000 a year for four years, plus even before that, there's child care at a couple grand a year, plus all the expenses of raising a kid...

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