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What to Wear When You Go Back to Work: Six Tips for an Office-Ready Look

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For many women, the hardest part of a new job is getting dressed. After a whole lot of freelancing and telecommuting and part-timing and generally squeaking by in the professional world with the bare wardrobe necessities, I've recently found myself with a wonderful opportunity that puts me back in an office, full time, every day. And not just any old office, but an office full of Prada-loving, expensive-haircut-having, disposable-income-spending, fashionable peers.

Suddenly my small stable of so-called "dressy" clothes have become my work clothes, and they're working almost as hard as I am.

I realize I'm probably not alone here. With the economy the way it is, more part-timers are going full-time, more moms are returning to work sooner (maybe not 7 hours after giving birth, but still -- sooner than they used to), and more women in general are looking outside the home for a little more financial stability.

So short of finding a spare $20k in your old purse and hitting Bendel's with abandon, here are a few tips to help you look and feel your professional best.

Identify the office uniform. This may sound obvious, but look around and see what your coworkers are wearing, and then go do that. I mean reeeeeally look. If they're in jeans, are they designer or Gap? Are the shoes 9 West or Marc Jacobs? What kinds of bags are they carrying? Figuring out the corporate "uniform" is less about keeping up with the Joneses and more about sending the signal that you belong. You don't need a different designer handbag for each day, but you do want to upgrade from that Target tote you've been hauling the diaper stuff around in.

This isn't to say you shouldn't have personal style, by the way. But not everyone can be an Elle Woods succeeding in a Harvard Law world. Use accessories to express your personality rather than relying on a wardrobe of hot-pink micro-minis (unless that's the uniform at your office, of course).

Skip the jeans. Despite what I just said about jeans at the office, I don't entirely understand the American addiction to blue jeans for every occasion and every moment of every day. Even if you can wear jeans to work, sometimes it's better not to; dressing for battle often makes you feel more battle ready. See also: Fake it til you make it.

Gap white fitted shirtOwn one fabulous white shirt. You always have an outfit if you have one perfect, fitted, crisp, to-die-for white shirt. BeautyHacks editor and Work it Mom fashion columnist Susan Wagner agrees with me on this one. Personally I'm in love with everything at Anne Fontaine which specializes in white blouses of every style, but they're not cheap. For a preppier take try J Crew or the Gap. You might also have luck at stores like Marshall's, Daffy's, and Filene's Basement, where you just might find something fab for less. The shirt pictured here is from the Gap and retails for $44 -- totally affordable, and entirely worth buying.

Wear makeup. I swear I'm not some chauvinist trying to keep women down with the patriarchal shackles of lengthening mascara, but looking polished beats looking like you just rolled out of bed -- which is generally how you look without makeup, and often how you look if you're juggling a family and a job. Take five minutes in the morning to put on a little makeup -- unless you're a lifeguard. In which case, carry on.

Take care of your shoes. If you can't splurge on new shoes, at least keep the old ones spiffy with a good resoling and a polish. Splurge on a professional shine if you can; every time I do, I look down and think ahhhh, right. That's why I did it.

Get a killer haircut. If you do nothing else, do this first. If you color your hair, make sure it doesn't look like you had an accident with the Manic Panic in your bathroom, or that you're still playing with Sun-In. Remember, you can always change your clothes, but you wear your hair every day.

Once your basics are covered, invest in one trendy piece. As much as classic pieces like neutral cardigans, a black skirt, black leggings a simple dress can serve you well, when you wear something from this

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JenniferZ 5 pts

I liked your ideas a lot. I recently shifted from a very informal environment to a downtown Manhattan financial services environment and had nothing to wear. I took my husband shopping - he's been in financial services for 20 years. Even though he's obviously a "he" - he has noticed the dress code (and I asked him to look at what the female directors were wearing in his shop in a non-gross way and report). Then I took him with me to shop!

My environment is very formal here - so I wear a lot of black. I wore safe black the first two weeks while I observed our team's lead (female) and one of her female peers - both senior directors. Dress for the job you want next, basically. Our team lead is always dressed very elegantly, flattering fit, nice things - and I noticed, she has a limited "range" (nothing wildly different from sheath dress/jacket/tailored pants) so it all mixes.

Agree good shoes = critical - upscales an entire outfit.

On the haircut - "killer" is a good word. I've seen some patchy outbreaks of "Mom" hair (that wretched Martha Stewart old before your time thing) and it dates the woman wearing it. Just say no to frumpy hair!

Jennifer Z.

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Mom101 5 pts

You're right, the interview is a great opportunity to scope out the fashion situation. But I might take it a step further and suggest that you get the 411 if you can before the interview.

I know too many stories from an exec recruiter in the family, of people losing jobs because they wore suits in a creative culture, or wore argyle socks in a corporate culture.

Seriously. Someone didn't get a job over his socks. Nuts.

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suburbangrandma 5 pts

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Best thing is to keep an eye on what people are wearing in that work place,when you go for an interview. 

It is ways safe to wear nice clean, pressed, clothes, which do not need to be expensive.

Black slacks and a nice button down shirt fit any company culture.

I would strongly discourage anyone from wearing something that would make you look like you are going out to a night club, rather than to work.

Susan Getgood 5 pts

A few years ago, I decided to just go with a uniform look -- black or tan slacks with turtlenecks (long & shortsleeved) in cooler months,  dressy t-s in warmer months. Accessorized by funky jackets, overshirts and scarves as the occasion warrants. I have a few skirts and dresses, which get pulled out for dressy occasions.

Makes packing easy for trips. Count the days, that's the number of shirts I need. Plus two for spills. I also try to pick a single color family for a trip, so I can mix the same scarves and jewelry for different looks. 

May not be stylish, but it is my style. 

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Mom101 5 pts

I'd like to say, you're more like a blank canvas and the artistry awaits!

Good luck with that spring cleaning Melissa. Can't wait to see pics of the results.

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Mom101 5 pts

It's so true Devra, brutal is good!

I also find it's a great idea to have a (sleek, stylish, trustworthy) friend over when you're paring down your closet. She can tell you what looks good without any emotional attachment to the clothes, but more than that - she can try stuff on herself. Sometimes seeing your clothes on someone else makes you either see the possibilities - or realize it's time to pick up the phone and call Goodwill.

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midnightbliss 5 pts

nothing makes me more comfortabel tahn a pair of jeans and I wear it everyday in the office. lols. but I noe try to invest in good clothing in case I needed it one day.

Devra Renner 5 pts

Look for sales at the pricier stores. My mother still brags about the Pucci dress she purchased for 15.00 at Saks 5th Avenue in the '60's. If the item is a classic, who cares if it's from last year. You can always update it with accessories. Also, find a personal shopper at a store that carries things you like. I have been shopping with the same woman at Nordstrom for 5 years, she jokes our relationship is the longest she's ever had, but the wonderous thing is I can call her a day or two ahead of time, tell her my budget, what I need and she has everything waiting for me to try on when I arrive.  Not only do I wind up saving money, I save a lot of time too.  But you need to find a personal shopper who won't blow sunshine up your ass. Someone who is honest and will force you out of bad habits you may have formed while you had your career in the freezer.  The other thing about working with a personal shopper is they learn your wardrobe and can remind you "You have a white shirt, put that shirt back, all you need is an updated pencil skirt. Try this on. Good it fits. Go home." A smart personal shopper is worth his/her weight in gold because their goal will be to dress you at your budget.

My biggest problem when I went to grow a professional wardrobe is I had a closet filled with clothes I just needed a (fill in the blank) to find to wear with it. I think the true success knowing you've got what you need is you dont' have clothes hanging in your closet you aren't wearing regularly. Everything in my closet I now wear. It's a fabulous feeling. I've become The Packing Ninja for conferences ,because now I have a collection of clothes that does exactly what I need it to do.

abbeyviolet 5 pts

I wonder about the someday return as I continue my work from home world.  I absolutely agree about the boots and continue my search for the perfect white shirt.  Some good advice here for me to file away. Thanks!

Mom101 5 pts

We city folk have to make the most out of our lone closets. How I would loooove to have a second. My linen could frolick with my tissue gauze! My wool could get cozy with my cashmere! Imagine the fun!

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lizzy81 5 pts

I like to move anything out of season (like sweaters in summer) into another closet. Makes it easier to go through if your entire wardrobe isn't all in one closet.

Giyen 5 pts

Housing Works is DANGEROUS. I cant stop browsing.

Thanks!

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Melissa Ford 5 pts

Oh no!  I am every fashion don't from jeans to no make-up to no white shirts in sight.  I'm not in the office every day, but I have a lot of meetings and some of these tips still apply.  So thank you--going to go through the closet and rethink things as part of spring cleaning.

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closetcoach 5 pts

I second the scarf love! A little scarf knotted at the neck makes any outfit look just a little bit more Parisian.

Ditto for a crisp, white shirt. A simple button-front, collared version is a must-have, but can be supplemented by fun variations. I've got one with 3/4 sleeves and ruffle detailing along the placket that I love for spring into summer. Or borrow one from your husband's closet, a la Sharon Stone, and tie at the waist or cinch with a wide belt.

I have to disagree about jeans, though. A pair in a good denim with a dark wash, no embellishment and straight legs can make a great work trouser with our friend the white shirt, a great fitting blazer or a patterned top.

Lately I've also been loving cardigans, belted over tops. Maybe it's the Shelley O effect? :)

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Mom101 5 pts

I love this list - so smart and so true. (Although I admit I don't have a blazer.)

I'd also add boots to the list - a good pair of nice, above-the-calf, sleek black leather boots which can dress up jeans, funkify a dress, or get a daytime work outfit ready for night. It's really a 3 season item.

Thanks Chicostylist!

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ChicoStylist 5 pts

The clothes we wear send a message to the world about how we want to be perceived.

There are 10 essential items every woman should own:

1. Blazer
2. White Shirt
3. Classic dress pants
4. Trench Coat
5. Jeans
6. Cashmere sweater
7. Skirt
8. Day dress
9. Basic Black Dress
10. Attractive high (YES MOM'S) heel pump

Purchase these basics, working Mom's and you can create hundreds of outfits.

ChicoStylist 5 pts

The clothes we wear send a message to the world about how we want to be perceived.

There are 10 essential items every woman should own:

1. Blazer
2. White Shirt
3. Classic dress pants
4. Trench Coat
5. Jeans
6. Cashmere sweater
7. Skirt
8. Day dress
9. Basic Black Dress
10. Attractive high (YES MOM'S) heel pump

Purchase these basics, working Mom's and you can create hundreds of outfits.

Mom101 5 pts

I've invested a little in good handwash detergent from The Laundress (love the wool + cashmere shampoo ( http://store.thelaundress.com/merchant.mvc?Screen=... )), and now I save a ton on dry cleaning by hand washing all my knits. Plus it's better for the environment, and my cashmere smells divine!

Actually, my cheap-o $19 H+M tunic smells divine too.

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Mom101 5 pts

I've dug up some old sheath dresses and brought them up from calf-length to knee-length and voila - 2010 ready. Thrift shops are also great for cool jackets, especially now that motorcycle and fur embellished is back in. I happen to love Housing Works ( http://www.shophousingworks.com/ ) in NYC. It's not Salvation Army prices, but it sure beats Barneys - and they just added an online shop too.

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Mom101 5 pts

Scarves are a great wardrobe fix-me-up. Also? Good trick for making a too-big sweater look right, is to loop the scarf at the neckline. Good for us postpartum mamas, making more out of our every changing wardrboe sizes.

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Just_Margaret 5 pts

after almost 7 year out of the 'rat race', I entered a completely different field.  Pre-kids, I worked in International Finance.  Post-kids--Academia.

Your suggestions are spot-on--and scoping out the environment, the 'uniform', is key.  When I was in the financial world I wore to work suits, high heels, nylons, snazzy dress coats, leather winter gloves, etc.   This didn't really work when my job was in a special collection of a College Library.  I had to reevaluate and *fast*, because I really felt out of touch at first.   

RE:  The crisp white shirt.  Yes, I say!  But times TWO.  My white blouses got a serious workout, which is why I suggest more than one.  They go with *anything* and frankly, the same shirt with two totally different kinds of necklaces (one small and simple, the other a more chunky, or larger piece--or alternatively, a scarf), can give the illusion of a different outfit. Generally speaking, simple and classic will work in many types of workplaces. 

My only other suggestion is this:  unless the environment is strictly "dry clean only" type of clothes, make sure that any new pieces you pick up are easy care, low maintenence stuff.  Wash and wear makes a huge difference time-wise!

Great Article and suggestions, Liz!

~Margaret

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millytant 5 pts

It's much the same as starting a new job I suppose.  The difficulty in balancing comfort with style and NOT going over the top is tricky. 

I'm never likely to work in a Pradaesque environment but nonetheless want to feel good about myself.

I make sure to put on some special lingerie that is both comfortable and I know makes me feel good after that, sure new season dresses and smart shoes - just go easy on the accessories in the first week.

Giyen 5 pts

I am a true believer in consignment/thrift store shopping and a good tailor. As a single parent, I really can't afford to buy new clothes all of the time so I go to places like Buffalo Exchange and Crossroads Trading Company (which are national chains) for gently used items. I have found that if you are diligent and try things on, you can find some awesome designer items. The key is to not go overboard and stick with things that you love, not like.

Also, nothing refreshes an outfit like accessories. The right scarf, necklace or earings can make a ho-hum outfit look chic and ready for the office.

Giyen

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LadyM 5 pts

is to work with lots of men who would never notice if I wore the same thing every day.  Kidding aside, it's been fun to have some more women join the team in the last year.  I now have a new scarf(!), some dress pants that aren't shabby at the knees, and a couple of spiffy blazers.

I need to get that crisp white shirt you describe though.

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