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Women in Combat: Rick Santorum's Peculiar Way of Courting Female Voters

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I'm a total pacifist -- a vegetarian, animal rescuer, protector of spiders, etc. Until, of course, I feel my family or farm is threatened, in which case, I don’t care what I have to do to protect those I love.

The past few nights, aside from the usual paranormal activity that happens here during a full moon, the tenants on the commercial side of our farm have been seeing people sneaking around the property at night. I mentioned this to the state police, who said they would patrol the farm, and I also told our tenants that if they felt threatened, I had no issue with them heading out their front door carrying a loaded gun. Because this is Bethany, folks, and trespassing on ANYONE'S property at night or any other time is just, plain stupid –- people here have guns, including the women. Or is it especially the women? In any case, all of them will hit their intended target, as they are excellent shots and none would dare miss for fear of accidentally hitting a horse, instead. (I'm only joking here, people . . . kinda . . . but not about their aim.)

I remember reading a story from New Year's Day about an 18-year-old mother in Oklahoma, Sarah McKinley, whose husband had just died of cancer. Two men were trying to break into her house, and she had locked and barricaded the doors, popped a bottle in her infant's mouth and called 911. There was no way help could get to her in time, and Sarah asked the dispatcher if she could shoot the man if he got inside. The woman replied she should do what she had to in order to protect her baby, and when one man finally barged through the door, Sarah shot him dead. The other, who was slower and possibly smarter, took off running. Talk about a woman keeping a cool head under pressure in an emotional situation.

Which, of course, is not at all what I wanted to write about today -– I was actually determined to tell the story of Mikey our bull calf getting out of his pen and into our youngest pig, Petunia Buttercup's paddock. But being a news junkie, one of the first things I do every morning is visit CNN.com, where I generally avoid videos in favor of articles as I need to get my information fast so I can get outside to feed the horses. This morning, however, I got sucked in by two video headlines:

The first one intrigued me because while Mrs. Gingrich is always by her husband Newt’s side, she seldom speaks. And now we know why. Callista Gingrich took an eternity to say her husband’s hobbies are golf and reading, and frankly, I’ve met animatrons at Disney World that had me more convinced they were human than Mrs. Gingrich did. Also, the animatrons were far less scripted.

The second video, in which Rick Santorum opined about how female emotions were not appropriate on the front lines in a battle zone, was flat-out offensive. First, because he suggested females are emotionally different and somehow not as strong as men, and second, because he stated with authority that the men fighting on the front lines would feel so protective of the women with them they wouldn’t be able to focus on the mission at hand. OK, Rick, take a step back and listen to what you just said –- the women aren't the ones with the “emotional” problem; you said, on the record, that the men would be influenced by their feelings. Well, which is it, big boy?


But let's take a moment to talk about war. What about war is not emotional? If you don't have strong feelings about what you’re fighting for, what the hell are you doing on a battlefield? I should hope there is plenty of emotion involved.

Given a choice, whom would I put in a foxhole beside me? Well, let’s see . . . the toughest people I know aren't men . . . they’re women. In fact, they are friends of mine who are country veterinarians who work with large farm animals and horses. These women can be awakened at 2 a.m. by a desperate phone call, drive an hour to treat a patient

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undeterrable 7 pts

My husband, a former active duty Marine, brought up Santorum's statements the other night. He was disgusted more at the idea that a man in combat would not die to save another man, his friend and colleague. My husband said something along the lines of "yeah, you know the Marine Corps moto, save yourself and screw the rest. We've always been about that." (this is sarcasm).

Santorum's ideas are just plain insulting to everyone.

Girl Grenadier 5 pts

As a female service member, I would LOVE to see Santorum keep it together through just one day of basic training! His complete lack of military experience somehow qualifies him to comment on the effectiveness of women in combat? I'm confused. I didn't realize he was a subject matter expert.

Kathleen is correct. Without emotion, or passion, soldiering doesn't exist.

Sadly though, Santorum is not alone in his thinking. I've heard time and time again FROM MALE SOLDIERS that the main reason they don't want to have women "on the front lines" (the concept being irrelevant in this age of non-linear warfare) is because THEY fear that THEY will be distracted trying to protect US. Which is essentially their problem.

Though this is a frustrating notion considering that I receive the same training as my male counterparts and I'm just as capable of taking care of myself in a combat situation as they are, it has NOTHING to do with the emotions of a female soldier and EVERYTHING to do with the male perception of the female.

cynic1 5 pts

Rick isn't doing himself any favors, and then once young people start googling his name ...

Terri3157 5 pts

I'm so glad that you took time off from shoveling "glamor" to write this excellent blog! Where have you been hiding? I look forward to your next post.

Bets 6 pts

First and foremost, we are all human beings: female-male gay-straight. Do you remember when white people OWNED black people or when women COULD NOT vote, to name only 2 of the hundreds of inequalities plaguing our nation through the years. Are we not ashamed? What did I say? We are all human beings, we are one under that heading but still there are those who insist on perpetuating inequality. The main purpose of the military is to defend the country. Seems to me if a person who is gay or a person who is a woman enlists in the service they know what they are getting into and have the desire to play all aspects of that "game." And it's not a glamorous one. They don't join for the opportunity to "hook-up" or to do their fellow service person's nails and hair, they are there to help defend their fellow human beings - black, white, female, male, gay, straight, christian, jewish....

dmelina 7 pts

Oh my GOD!!!! I ONLY want my wife next to me in battle. She's the bravest, most dependable, and fiercest fighter ever. Santorum just lost the entire female vote.

acwitkavitch 6 pts

Amen to that! Something tells me Santorum is going to run into a front line of females who aren't waiting to give him their vote...but a little education on "female emotions!" LOL! Nice job!

art_life 5 pts

Thank you, @Kathleen Schurman, for saying it like it is! Good catch on the "emo" comment.

EaglesShadow 6 pts

I think it's pretty pathetic today to have someone running for political office (any office) who still thinks that women are in any way less-able to do what is needed to get the job done, whether it be in war, in politics, or at home. I think history shows over and over again that not only are women perfectly good at getting things done, but they often have to do things above and beyond the men who did it before, which only goes to show how capable they are.

starmaker 5 pts

Very funny. the closest Rick Santorum has ever gotten to service (military or otherwise) is introducing the National Weather Service Duties Act of 2005, which, if it passed, would have made it against the law for the National Weather Service to publish the weather for free if there was anyone in the private sector who charged.

He is an accomplished mover and shaker. For entertainment, I google "Santorum"

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Jessica Orlowicz
Jessica Orlowicz

As a veteran, I believe he is correct. There are exceptions, but this is reality whether we'd like to admit it or not.