Riding In a Car Gives Me a Headache

Riding In a Car Gives Me a Headache

I've helped people get rid of headaches by placing my hand on their forehead, and backaches by placing my hand on their back. It's a powerful example of love that really works.  ~Shelley Long

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Kyle sporting his new glasses. Love his smile! c. 2009

For the last several years, Kyle has complained about getting headaches.  They only seem to occur during car rides.  It's always just as we head out, he'll say, "My head hurts" or "I have a headache."   Last week Kyle said, "I can't wait till it's nice out and I can put down my window when I get a headache, it makes me feel better".

What's really funny about that statement is I can't ride with just one window down, I have to have a least two or more to cut the pressure in the car or that kills me!

Yesterday, heading to church for our Ashes (Ash Wednesday, signifying the first day of Lent in preparation for Easter.) Kyle made the same remark, "My head hurts."  My response?  "Really buddy?  We just left."  Literally, I just pulled out of the driveway and couldn't have been more than two hundred yards before he spoke up.

What is going on with this kid?  I would be on red alert if this ailment was continuous, inside and outside the car, but it's not, it's only when riding in the car, at least that's what he tells me.

It seemed to start years ago when Kyle first got his glasses.  Granted, he was pretty young when he started wearing them so I can't really speak of the time of pre-glasses.  It's not like the little tyke was able to say, "Excuse me Aunt Heather my head hurts.", while safely strapped into a car seat sucking on a Binky.  However, I don't think he got headaches.

Originally, Kyle was only suppose to wear his glasses when watching television or reading, but then he started wearing them all the time.  Thinking the cause of his head thumping was the magnified pieces of glass suspended by wire frames resting directly in front of his eyes, I use to tell Kyle to take his glasses off when riding in the car.  It seemed to help until he developed a common childhood obsession for video games.  He would play his Nintendo DS and later his iPod, both glued to his fingers.  Yes, he would play video games till his head was pounding!  He learned quickly to minimize his online activity while riding along.  Now he waits for a red light before fighting off stick people.

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Kyle riding the Merry-Go-Round at Idlewild Park in Ligonier, Pa. Rides don't seem to make Kyle sick but cars do. 2012

As this issue continues, my thoughts try to factor in all variables and take into account my car.  Either the way it rides or sits, that sort of thing.  I even considered the very slim chance, it was the driver of the vehicle, a.k.a. me.  I asked Kyle once if his headaches only happened in my car.  His response, "No every time I get in a car."  I know that's a bit of an exaggeration, because I don't think it's EVERY time, just often.  However, yesterday I asked him the same question.  His response, "Yes, I think it's just your car Aunt Heather."  Wonder if that's true or not or if he was teasing me?  Again, that's hard to tell since I am usually the one picking him up and driving him around, not really a fair assessment.

Could it be me, personally, triggering his headaches?  If that was true then one would think he would always have them, since I'm with him so much.

Over the years I've blamed this problem on lack of water, eating too much junk food and playing too many hours of video games, but I have nothing to base my hypothesis on.  Kyle claims these are not the reasoning, but again he has no proof for his argument either.

My biggest fear is it could be something more serious showing itself before it really does.  Between my friend Markelle and her aneurysm bursting More In Her Head Than An Aneurysm and loosing several cousins to brain tumors, I can't...

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Heather Piper
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