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On the Road to Election Day, Part III: How much do we have to put up with?

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No candidate for political office should have to put up with any test of his or her mettle beyond what is demanded by the role of occupying that job and serving the public.  And yet, time and again - the current time as good as any - we read about, hear about or witness examples of just how incredibly harsh the light can be shined on someone seeking public office.  This Women's Media Center video called, Sexism Sells But We're Not Buying It, is a classic that everyone, man or woman, needs to see on the off chance that they don't agree with this assertion:

Sometimes, we say, that's what you get.  But we are, in part, to blame: it's what titillates us. And so, it's what the media offers us. And so, it's what we get.  Just take a look at the headlines on the Huffington Post's front pages or those on Politico, where this is currently the biggest thing they've got going:

Ensign's Mistress May Decide His Future

Of course, Ensign is still in office.  But if this were a woman... (and let's not even start talking about how the media shapes the stories that do feature women: this article is drawing us in with a headline about a woman as mistress and in control; ugh - why is it not about Ensign and his unabashed belief that if he just keeps apologizing, he should not only be able to stay in office but deserves re-election?).

Sarah Palin's resignation and Hillary Clinton's acceptance of the cabinet position of Secretary of State demonstrate two dramatically different paths in terms of how female politicians have chosen to deal with the bright lights, though not necessarily big cities - just public-owned mansions like the White House.  And yet, even as they've made these choices, the unabashed sexism continues, as Jenn Pozner wrote about for NPR last week in her oped, Hot and Bothered: Media Treatment of Sarah Palin. Tina Brown's piece in The Daily Beast just yesterday demonstrates how some Clinton supports continue to feel about the sexist mistreatment of Clinton. 

Entire books have been written about why women don't run for office, and the fear of having too thin skin plays a big role. More recently, and in part because of the attention groups like the Women's Media Center have been giving sexism in the media toward female politicians, some say that women won't run and don't run because they just don't want to be picked apart for what they look like rather than how they think or work (though of course WMC's hope, and mine as well, is that by highlighting such sexism in the media, we can eliminate or at least neutralize it).

Then there is issue of family and having one's children, if the candidate is a parent, brought into the campaign.  Now, maybe this is a more gender neutral issue - men are, after all, also parents.  But because our society continues to place a different set of expectations, still, on women regarding childrearing as compared to men, there's an expectation that when a woman runs for office and has a family that anything happening with her children could reflect more on her, in relation to her political run, than would reflect on a male candidate. 

Ohio is seeing this play out, as I reference in this post, in the U.S. Senate Democratic primary between Lee Fisher and Jennifer Brunner. Both have children and recently, the financial issues one of Brunner's adult children has had, though it's an admittedly small issue even by newspaper accounts, has been running its course in some mainstream media outlets and blogs.

Then there's how women are treated if they're pregnant while in office. From a 2007 letter to an editor regarding New York's Kirsten Gillibrand: Regarding a story that appeared in The Post-Star on Dec. 6: "Rep. Gillibrand announces she is pregnant."

First of all, I must admit that I am a male chauvinist and that there are, thankfully, differences between men and women. There are many occupations suitable for women and their physical attributes. Carrying a weapon while serving in the Armed Forces and firefighting are not suitable lines of work for women to prove that they are physically equal to men. How many male

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Femisex 5 pts

Editors of Femisex.com

The ugly, nonpartisan truth is that corporate media have always seen women in power as threatening. ~ the NPR story.

 Thanks Jenn and Jill for putting this out there!  Corporate media is almost exclusively owned by men, and thus women in media--whose very livelihood is dependent upon top dog media males--succumb to readily to what is expected of them: sexism.

It is a complicated mess, but one that is finally getting some attention!

Jill Miller Zimon 5 pts

Ugh! I wrote more about it at my blog ( http://www.writeslikeshetalks.com/2009/07/15/carto... ) but here's the cartoon from the New York Daily News:

There's a link to a poll ( http://blog.cagle.com/news/2009/07/15/now-claims-g... ) where you can weigh in on whether you think it's sexist or not. Warning: many of the comments don't see what at all is wrong with the cartoon.

Jill Writes Like She Talks ( http://www.writeslikeshetalks.com )

Jill Miller Zimon 5 pts

I couldn't say it any better and I agree with what you've written.  One of the reasons I'm running (and I am grateful to BlogHer for letting me write about the run) is that I do want others to see we can do this, and survive and making it all about the learning from it and the experience.  I've had negative experiences in it already but I find a way to turn it to some forward-looking action - the alternative or not running is just not acceptable. 

For people who wonder why this matters - why we need women in office here's a recent article worth reading. ( http://www.blogher.com/#mce_temp_url# )

( http://www.blogher.com/#mce_temp_url# )Jill Writes Like She Talks ( http://www.writeslikeshetalks.com )

JChandler 5 pts

Thank you for such an extensive look into this topic.

Politics is not even on the radar of most girls as a career option. Those women that do enter into the political spotlight certainly take on far more than their desire for public service. The Women's Media Centre has highlighted so many instances of attacks and bias, it is disheartening to even think of throwing your hat in the ring.

"Pressing the system to do better" is important. The system runs on public knowledge, input and informed decision making. The media and news has a responsibility to remain neutral but for many years now the media has become the soap box for blow hards who spout off nothing of true value. We learn little about a candidate; their platform buried in a sea of gender, racial or religious attacks.

No matter what, it is important that women rise above all of this and make their voices and political aspirations a part of the landscape. There is far too much to lose by not pressing forward. Thanks again for your post, truly interesting.