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A Month of Movies: What's Your Favorite Quirky Movie Family?

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From the quirky to the truly toxic to the functional dysfunction in between, the fusion of comedy and tragedy that is the family dramedy ranks as my favorite film genre. Unlike the family drama (think Terms of Endearment or Secrets and Lies), the family dramedy rarely takes home the Oscar.

But this year, The Kids Are All Right is in the running for Best Picture.

Kids stars Annette Bening and Julianne Moore as a lesbian couple who, after 20 years and two children, are struggling with issues that face most marriages. When their college-bound daughter contacts her sperm donor father (Mark Ruffalo), this newly extended family gets complicated. Ruffalo never thought about the day a kid might come looking for him, let alone two kids (they also used him to conceive a son), but welcomes them into his life. At home, the reality of the man behind the donor profile brings far more mixed emotions. Kids took home the Golden Globes for Best Actress (for Bening) and Best Picture in the Comedy/Musical categories. In addition to Best Picture, its Oscar noms include Best Actress (Bening), Best Supporting Actor (Ruffalo) and Best Original Screenplay.

In honor of the family dramedy, a week’s worth of titles for your Netflix queue. They’ll make you laugh, make you cry and maybe help make peace with the genetics you can’t escape:

Home for the Holidays -- In a sea of dysfunctional family holiday movies, this rises above them all. Best Thanksgiving film. Ever.

Postcards From the Edge -- Meryl Streep as an actress fresh out of rehab living with her alcoholic actress mother, played by Shirley MacLaine. From the semi-autobiographical novel by Carrie Fisher. Need I say more?

The Squid and The Whale -- Years before you knew him as Mark Zuckerberg, Jesse Eisenberg starred in Noah Baumbach’s Sundance hit, based on his own life in pre-Internet 1980s Brooklyn.

The Royal Tenenbaums -- It’s like JD Salinger’s Glass family brought to life but better: with narration by Alec Baldwin, incredible sets (like the board game closet) and a must-have soundtrack.

Royal Tenenbaums
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National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation -- The Griswolds are one of the greatest dysfunctional families of modern cinema. But family comedies never win awards, so I’m including this one of the Vacation trilogy here.

The Savages -- Laura Linney and Philip Seymour Hoffman are sibs who’ve never outgrown their childhood competitiveness -Tamara Jenkins’s (Slums of Beverly Hills) dialogue is amazing.

Little Miss Sunshine -- A mother won’t let her wannabe self-help guru husband, selective mute son, suicidal brother or drug-addicted father-in-law keep her little girl from her pageant dreams. Just throw them all in a VW van and go.

Seriously, this list could have gone on for several pages. I kept it to the last 25 years, no foreign films and barely skimmed the surface. What favorite films would you add to the list? Are there any family dramedies that have become annual viewing traditions in your home?

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Jane Byers Goodwin 5 pts

. . . with Robin Williams, L.L. CoolJ, Robin Wright, Joan Cusack, and Dumbledore - I mean, Michael Gambon. You want quirky? "Toys" has got your quirky right here.

It also has an awesome soundtrack.

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punkinpie 5 pts

I have two...

"Surviving Christmas" with Ben Affleck, the family he rents out for Christmas is pretty strange.

"The Family Stone"- maybe not quirky as just disfunctional

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paapeseed 5 pts

The Family Stone has to be one of my favorite movies of all time. It's a real story of the holiday drama that most of us experience during the holidays (well, maybe not to the extent of the events in the movie).

I watched The Romantics for the first time this past week & I thought it was an interesting portrayal of the dynamic that friends have after college. All the inside jokes, love, drama & friendship that we try to hold onto as we grow up & sometimes apart from the ones who held us together in school. I just wish Katie Holmes didn't come at her character like another Joie Potter from Dawson's Creek.

I actually just watched The Kids Are Alright & thought it was a good movie. I felt bad and sorry for Mark Ruffalo's character in the end because he wanted a family so bad.

alexash 5 pts

A Christmas Story is truly a modern classic. I'm so glad your family watches it every year!

I haven't seen City Island but am adding it to my queue!

alexash 5 pts

I totally forgot about Pieces of April! It was a great film, but definitely pass the Kleenex.

alexash 5 pts

I adore Anderson's work in general but this one remains my favorite. Very excited about his new project which is supposed to shoot in spring.

alexash 5 pts

I think I could have done half this list just with his films. Darjeeling was wonderful - and yet another fantastic soundtrack, too!

alexash 5 pts

It has so many wonderful moments, doesn't it?

alexash 5 pts

Oh, how I love Bob. There are so many great lines in that film. Whenever I hear someone use the term "baby steps" I envision Bill Murray carrying that goldfish around his neck :)

alexash 5 pts

As I was writing I kept thinking of both Grape and Secrets and Lies, but felt that maybe they both fell under drama more than dramedy? Ugh, it's such a fine line.

Thank you so much for adding GG - it is a wonderful movie.

alexash 5 pts

I don't see the relationship between Bening and Moore as quirky - the unexpected complications that came with the introduction of Ruffalo's character was where I think it shifted into more unexpected comic moments.

I loved Sunshine Cleaning. The relationships in that film were so touching - father/daughter, mother/son, sister/sister - thanks for remembering it!

alexash 5 pts

Myth would definitely count! I love large ensemble pieces like that.

I haven't seen it in a long time but remember a very funny moment when the adult kids don't want to hear about their parent's sex life.

Sunshine was good on so many levels. Steve Carrell really showed a whole different side of himself - hope to see him take more roles beyond the slapstick.

maryrwise 5 pts

A Christmas Story - Ralphie, Randy, Mom, and the Old Man are a wonderful group. Watching this movie is a Christmas tradition at our house.

City Island - The whole family is keeping secrets! This is a terrific indie movie starring Andy Garcia and Juliana Margolies. Don't miss it!

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ModaMama 5 pts

I saw this in a totally empty theater with just my siblings. It spoke to all of us with ridiculous and eerie similarities in our lives and situations.

If you grew up as the black sheep, "Pieces of April" will speak to you but it is not for the weak of heart.

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Elaine W. 5 pts

The Royal Tenebaums isn't just one of the best quirky families on film, it's one of my favorite films, period! Loved everything about it. And it made Stiller watchable, which is no easy feat!

oilfieldwife 5 pts

but The Darjeeling Limited is my favorite. Sometimes, when Houston makes me nuts, I remember that this city produced the genius that is Wes Anderson.

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avengingophelia 5 pts

I'd put What's Eating Gilbert Grape? in this category. I LOVE that movie.

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Virginia DeBolt 5 pts

seemed to me to be about two people trying really hard to be good parents, which doesn't seem to fit the quirky category.

A family movie with quirky characters I really loved was Sunshine Cleaning. Great performances all around (especially Emily Blunt) and truly genuine and touching.

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Nobody wants to be Ethel 5 pts

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Melissa Ford 5 pts

Would Myth of Fingerprints count or is that too family drama instead of dramedy?

Loved Little Miss Sunshine.

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