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Scarf Tying 101

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Earlier this winter, BlogHer's very own Denise asked for some scarf tying help, specifically for help wrapping her scarf so that it would cover her neck and face and actually keep her WARM because goodness it's cold in Chicago these days.  "I see people do it all of the time in movies and on TV. I’ve read books where people do this. I’ve even seen a few people up here in arctic Illinois do it. But when I tried it, the scarf just slipped down. I am scarf illiterate." 

Scarves are perhaps winter's most functional accessory -- they add color and texture and pattern to your outfits, but they ALSO keep you warm and toasty.  A big scarf can double as a shawl or wrap, should you need it to, while a smaller scarf can keep basic sweaters looking fresh and new.  But tying a scarf can be daunting, under the best of circumstances, and when it's below zero and you're trying to pump gas or walk the kids to school or just get from one indoor place to the next, you want your scarf to work as more than just an accessory.

There are three basic ways to tie a wool scarf; my favorite is the hacking knot, which honestly is more decorative than warm.  Fold your scarf in half at the middle, creating a loop (I also like to twist the scarf a little, for good measure); put that around your neck and slip the long end through the loop.  This is a good look if you're going to wear your scarf all day, in place of a necklace, for example.

If you're needing to use your scarf for warmth, you can tie it like an ascot: wrap the scarf around your neck once, and then tie a loose loop by threading the end up through the part you just wrapped around your neck.  While this won't keep your face covered, it's great for days when you're wearing something that exposes any part of your neck or cleavage (although seriously, if it's five degrees, keep your cleavage covered).  This is also a good look with a coat; center the hanging ends of the scarf so they fall straight down from your chin, right where your coat buttons.

But what if it's five degrees out (or COLDER!) and you have to put gas in your car or wait for a train or walk to the bottom of the very long driveway for the mail?  And you're not trying to be stylish, you're just trying not to FREEZE?!?  Simple.  Take your scarf and hold it across your face, covering your nose and mouth (but not your eyes, obviously).  Wrap it around your face and return the ends to the front, under your chin; tie a loose knot there and head out.  The trick is that you will need a scarf that is wide enough to reach from the bridge of your nose to the top of a crew neck sweater in order to make this really work; a skinny scarf won't stay in place.  Once you've got it lined up and tied, though, you can put your coat on and pull the part covering your face down around your neck like a cowl; pull it up again when you're ready to go outside.  Pair with a hat that comes down over your ears (tuck the scarf up into the hat, at the sides, for extra warmth and security) and you'll be completely covered.

StyleNosh goes coatless with a chunky sweater and a great scarf.

Lavish & Lime list five good reasons to wear a scarf (other than warmth, although they're Canadian so they know ALL about that).

Finally, the girls at Who What Wear have put together this super-helpful video tutorial on how to wear scarves.  Check out all their videos here -- so much fun!

 

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Susan Wagner 5 pts

Mata, this is why Denise wanted video.

The "long end" is the part that is NOT the loop -- the actual ENDS of the scarf, where you have folded them so they touch each other.

Hey that's not any clearer is it?

Kelli is right -- I wrote another post on this for Work It, Mom! a while back, with photos.  And by god I will figure out the video component of this for tomorrow.  If it kills me.  Which it may.

Also this is easily one of my favorite comments threads ever, on anything I have written.

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Mata H 5 pts

OK here is what I don't understand. You said "Fold your scarf in half at the middle, creating a loop ... put that around your neck and slip the long end through the loop. "

If I folded it through the middle, width wise, creating a loop, both halves are equal. If I fold it through the middle length wise and create a loop (presumably by folding it width wise) both haves are equal. So which end is the "long end"?

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shoalswriter 5 pts

 It's all in the attitude. An elegant woman who always looked so put-together told me once, after I asked her for scarf tips, that she just wrapped/knotted/flung it on and didn't worry about it. "It's your confidence that matters," she said. "If you think it looks good, then it will look good." Great style advice, although I have yet to achieve her level of scarf-confidence. And I do believe this is a common fashion problem: When I recently wrote about being scarf-challenged on my blog and in my newspaper column, I got tons of been-there-done-that feedback. A couple days later I was to meet several friends for lunch, and they all showed up with perfectly tied scarves!

Cathy

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Jill Miller Zimon 5 pts

Does anyone else remember her ( http://www.highbeam.com/doc/1G1-8311581.html ) from the mid-1980s?  I still have the scarf and the tying instruction booklet that came with it when office friends gave me one as a going away gift when I left New Haven and moved out to Ohio. I'm trying to find an image of one like the one I have but not much luck - here ( http://images.google.com/images?ndsp=18&um=1&a... ) are a few images though. Mine has an ivory background with pale pinkish peach edging and beige and pale green designs.

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Denise 9 pts moderator

I'll take you up on that!

~Denise
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Denise 9 pts moderator

That looks fabulous.

~Denise
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Denise 9 pts moderator

You understand my problem, and that helps!

When TW knitted my scarf, I told her it was the first scarf I've ever owned and she was shocked. But it's true, I've never needed one before!

Right, that wrapping thing - I'm good with an ACE bandage but not so much wrapping my face with one. I think I should just practice a lot more.

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Virginia DeBolt 5 pts

Virginia is now a leading scarf expert.

( http://www.flickr.com/photos/veesees/3236139855/ )

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KatieBeez 5 pts

I needed a 101 for the past few years actually.  The thing with scarves is that there is usually some trend to follow - if you aren't wearing it for it's best purpose, to keep your heat.

Coming from Florida, my first few scarf attempts were pretty poor. Sadly, I think I've gotten scarves stuck in both car and building doors. Embarassing.

What I do now, when I want to be warm, is start from one end, leaving about 4-6 inches free, and wrap my neck and face - I imagine it's either a loose sports bandage or like you'd wrap a mummy, maximizing the width of the scarf and the coverage area but overlapping for multiple layers until I get to the end, and then tuck both edges into the scarf or my coat. 

carablogs 5 pts

Simple subject with useful tips. I think, secretly, there are LOTS of people who don't know how to tie a scarf. But they wouldn't dare admit it!

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sassymonkey 6 pts

I promise to show you when I'm in Chicago this summer. I'd do the video but always fail at video, unless it's of the fake cat.

Have you asked at your LYS? I'm sure they could show you.

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sassymonkey 6 pts

I just wrap, wrap, wrap and then let the ends hang. Sometimes I twist them if it's a really long scarf but I don't tie them. Or sometimes I tuck in the ends. It seems whenever I tie them and go out in the cold I find a cold spot and have to readjust and that's near impossible when you knot the scarf and are wearing mittens. So no tying.

I do occasionally do the hacking knot if I know I'll be walking around with my coat unbuttoned...like in a mall or if I'm going to someone's house and I'm unsure of the heating and want to keep my scarf with me instead of saying, "Your house is freezing. I'm keeping my scarf."

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Keilexandra 5 pts

There's also your own photo essay on scarf tying ( http://www.workitmom.com/bloggers/workingcloset/20... ), Susan, although it focuses more on aesthetics than warmth. What, am I the only one with prolific and meticulously filed bookmarks? ;)

Denise 9 pts moderator

Photo, we need a photo of your new scarf tying expertise!

~Denise
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Virginia DeBolt 5 pts

by a fashion post. Susan, I never in my whole life thought I would say that. I was watching something on TV the other day and noticed a really cool looking way to wear a scarf. This in and of itself is a bit out of the ordinary for me, but notice a scarf I did. I wanted to wear my own scarf this way and could not for the life of me figure out how to tie it. I think it was what you called the hacking knot. OMG, I'm stylin'!

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Denise 9 pts moderator

I understand video FAIL, completely understand. Obviously, since I'm a scarf FAIL kinda person.

~Denise
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Susan Wagner 5 pts

But I totally failed at the video. You don't even want to KNOW what happened.

HOWEVER, I'll bet there's a BlogHer out there with madd video skilz AND madd scarf tying skilz.  How can there NOT be?

Who wants to show Denise how to tie her scarf so that she doesn't freeze?  Come on -- she does a LOT of nice things for you all ...

;)

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Denise 9 pts moderator

You said you would videotape yourself tying a scarf because these written directions do not work for me. I've read a million different types and it makes no sense! This video is cute and stylin' but totally not what I care about. I care about the cold.

Since Susan let me down with that video thing - maybe someone else with scarf tying experience and a video camera might help out? I'd be forever grateful. Really.

It's cold in Chicago.

~Denise
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