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If I have Dilbert comic strip artist Scott Adams to thank for anything this week, it's for causing me to reflect on a few important questions:

Where is my attention going? What gets my time? Who deserves my outrage, and why?

Adams has a blog. Earlier this month, he posted (what I thought as soon as I read it was) a rambling diatribe about men's rights, that included what could have been construed as incendiary comments about women and people with disabilities and, to a different degree, incarcerated men.

He pulled the post, but lots of people read it anyway, cached and copied it, and sent it about the Internet.

Here's the part where he explains that men's rights are for pussies who are not cats:

The reality is that women are treated differently by society for exactly the same reason that children and the mentally handicapped are treated differently. It’s just easier this way for everyone. You don’t argue with a four-year-old about why he shouldn’t eat candy for dinner. You don’t punch a mentally handicapped guy even if he punches you first. And you don’t argue when a women tells you she’s only making 80 cents to your dollar. It’s the path of least resistance. You save your energy for more important battles.

Charming. People reacted angrily, as people of the Internet will do. Feministing responded, and Adams commented on the post, saying that the people on Feministing couldn't read very well, and that he wrote what he wrote for the specific, very astute (read: they think like he does) readers of his blog, and therefore others couldn't be expected to understand it. Seriously.

As emotion increases, reading comprehension decreases. This would be true of anyone, but regular readers of the Dilbert blog are pretty far along the bell curve toward rational thought, and relatively immune to emotional distortion.

Yesterday, he wrote another post, responding to people who he says referred to him as a misogynist, asshole douchebag, rehashing and adding to what he said on Feministing. He mused on how basically everyone who responded to his original post emotionally just took it out of context, but thanks for the traffic.

The short answer is that I write material for a specific sort of audience. And when the piece on Men's Rights drew too much attention from outside my normal reading circle, it changed the meaning. Communication becomes distorted when you take it out of context, even if you don't change a word of the text. I imagine that you are dubious about this. It's hard to believe this sort of thing if you don't write for a living and see how often it happens. I'll explain.

I write for a living, and I don't believe this.

He then claims to be "trying to add diversity" to my "portfolio of thoughts," which he just said was impossible, so I don't know. I'm thinking that Scott Adams is playing with my mind now. I was also told there would be no math.

Let's consider this comment:

But part of being male is the automatic feeling of team. If someone on the team screws up, we all take the hit. Don’t kid yourself that men haven’t earned some harsh treatment from the legal system. On the plus side, if I’m trapped in a burning car someday, a man will be the one pulling me out. It’s a package deal. I like being on my team.

If I interpreted this as a ridiculous expression of white male privilege by someone who has (to my knowledge) never been incarcerated or stuck in a burning car? I'm distorting his words. If I think he's insinuating the irrelevance of the true public sphere as I understand it from communication theory, I'm just not in my right mind. It's Scott Adams's genius world, we're just living in it. Also women can't be president because of PMS, and damned if I didn't just get an excuse to leave rants all over the place that can't be helped

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Lesbian Dad 5 pts

I like what nellewrites says:

I have a hunch there is an equal percentage of horses arses as there is in the general populace, same number of nice folks, disengaged folks, activist folks, and onward.

I passionately believe that. And also in the proactive, creative response you're advocating, Laurie. The funny thing about limited vision is, you don't know it's limited! That's the whole point! This poor chap has got his hand rummaging around the arse end of an elephant & is describing the whole beast based on that, er, limited vantage point.

An admittedly bawdy take on the "3 blind men describe an elephant" metaphor, but I think the shoe fits.

Utlimately the loss is his, and anyone who opts for narrow-mindedness over broad-mindedness (!), negative reactionariness over positive creativity, etc.

And as to the feelings? Well! First time he and his team respond to a super bowl win with gracious decorum and NOT a riot throughout the city, and as soon as one of the leading killers of women is NOT a crazed ex-husband or ex-boyfriend (help yerself to some statistics ( http://www.now.org/issues/violence/stats.html ), Mr. Adams et al), then I'll be willing to decide they have sincerely divorced themselves from the power of their feelings.

I say with all decorum and dispassion.

Thanks again, Laurie, for the big picture view.

Lori Randall Stradtman 5 pts

Love your post Laurie! We don't need their permission or approval to write quality content.

It's all smoke and mirrors. Well done for calling him out!

Lori Randall Stradtman also blogs at Social Media Design ( http://www.social-media-design.com/ ).

nellewrites 6 pts

We have a tendency to believe those who achieve celebrity status through their artistry are somehow larger than life and perfect in all the ways we wish them to be.

Well, I have a hunch there is an equal percentage of horses arses as there is in the general populace, same number of nice folks, disengaged folks, activist folks, and onward.

In the Adams case...whatever Scott. The keyword in his attempt to shift blame to us was in his referring to 'everyone' as who goes along with what we say as the easier route to take. Last I knew, I am part of 'everyone', aren't you?

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jaelithe 5 pts

And what I have been wondering ever since I read his post is, if a woman firefighter or police officer ever comes to rescue Scott Adams from a burning car, will he say, "No thanks, babe, you're on the wrong team"?

lauriewrites 5 pts

Or at least skim it. I skim a lot these days.

Thanks for reading, my friend.

Laurie
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lauriewrites 5 pts

Of the shirts, that is. :)

Yes, I think I'm just tired of recycling and/or responding to other ideas. It doesn't have to be that way.

Laurie
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lauriewrites 5 pts

I'll take props from you anytime. (I could have delved deeper into his actual statements, but of course they would have been out of context and I'd have been wrong. ;) Plus my eye was twitching too much to read.)

Laurie
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lauriewrites 5 pts

I'm trying to be better about producing my own rage-inducing stuff instead of jumping every time someone writes something that seems designed to piss me off. :)

I don't always make it, but I try. Glad you liked it.

Laurie
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jennyappleseed 5 pts

I remember you just saying that you should start blogging feminism or politics or both. Bang up job on this one and still advocating for channeling the anger (emotion) back to self-preservation, care and creativity. Love it.

And since I can't read, I'll resort to my baser female instincts so childlike and mentally challenged...F this dude!

Now, I'm going to go look for the burning car with Scott Adams in it and not pull him out.

suebob 7 pts

A male blogger I love, Dave II at Blogography, wrote a long post taking Scott Adams apart line by line, which was great. But I couldn't even really muster the interest to read it. I think, with you, I have outrage fatigue. I am filing Scott Adams under the category "Someone is wrong on the Internet" and leaving him there.

Heather Clisby 5 pts

Laurie,

As my best male pal said to me once, "It must be hard being a woman - all that feelin' and thinkin', thinkin' and feelin'."

Yes, it's hard to even focus on the the words in my People magazine - Too. Much. Emotion.

Your take on this ridiculous man's sole opinion was exactly what it deserved - a calm, measured, intelligent ponderence, ending with a "Meh" shoulder shrug. But your point, and AV's too, is well taken.

It aptly describes an approach I've only slipped into the last couple of years. Although it can chafe under the chin, I now wear an idiot filter. Unless there is a useful grain of wisdom or comedy to be found in the rant and/or conversation, I flip the page, change the channel, close the window or walk away. It's really that simple. Plenty of smart, open-minded humans walk the earth, no need to waste time with the morons who are boring and predictable.

Now then, where can I get that "Counter Idiocy" t-shirt? I'm gonna need a Large.

~ClizBiz

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Rita Arens 7 pts

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Mir Kamin 6 pts

... I think maybe my reading comprehension is very poor, but I think the exhortation to turn away and create that which drowns out the ridiculousness is spot-on. Love it.

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Susan Getgood 5 pts

Sometimes I don't read so good either, but I've got no problem parsing Adams' misogyny.

As for the tiger blood dude, I've managed to tune out the whole damn thing, for much the same reasons as you describe. I find it dull and sad and have far more interesting things to do.

Like read this wonderful post by you!

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