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Scrapping Our Own Life Stories

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“If you’re not married and you don’t have any children, then what do you have that’s worth putting in a scrapbook?”

She may have thought she was asking a real question, but all I heard was the bit about my life not being worthy of a scrapbook page. Ouch.

This line from Shimelle's week long look back at her scrapbooking history caught my breath.  I'm sure my reaction would have been to crawl into a corner and never show my work again.  Shimelle reacted differently and the scrapbooking world is better because of that.

This past week Shimelle has been looking back over her years of scrapbooking and telling the story of these years. She began in 1998 when she found a scrapbooking kit in a Big Lots:

The kit contained a cardboard 3-ring binder, ten page protectors, ten sheets of white cardstock, a dried up glue stick, some faded construction paper and a plastic shape template. And I did actually use all of the contents of this kit to make my very first scrapbook, a gift from the cast for the director of a play I was in that term. So if you haven’t figured it out, that means I can not hide my very first pages from the world. They are in someone else’s house. Sometimes this gives me nightmares. Because I remember just how terribly frightening those first ten pages were. And of course I was already taking it seriously—I had to double my investment by paying at least another $4 for a set of Crayola markers to make the beautiful titles and clever captions in that book. Imagine the beauty.

In 2000, she was scrapping with paper dolls.

Okay, time to be a bit more serious: my pages from the year 2000 still make me cringe, but there are a few things that I learned and there might even be a smidgen of style starting to show up. A tiny speck. Like smaller than dust, but still…let’s see.

Thing progressed for Shimelle from 2001 when she started entering her pages for magazines and contests.  But in 2002, Shimelle had that encounter at an organized crop. The women were dubious of her supplies and baffled by the idea that she was scrapbooking pictures of herself.  Later that year, Shimelle was approached to contribute to a project organized by Angie Pedersen, called The Book Of Me.

In the foreword, journaling guru Joanna Campbell Slan tells the story of a young mother dying of brain cancer, who spent her last days creating a legacy album about her life so her young sons have something to remember her by.

“She wanted them to know how much she loved them, and she wanted them to have a mother forever, even if she only existed in a picture album and in their memories. If she had had Angie’s book, her task would have been much simpler...

...The woman dying of cancer knew exactly how best to spend her final days. You and I have a responsibility to create the same loving journal for our own families.  Let’s get to it...”

Would your children and loved ones have something to remember you by?

The Book Of Me project changed Shimelle; other people were becoming aware of her work.

As part of that project, I also started to field a lot of questions from people who I think had shared my thoughts but were too afraid to say anything at the time. Because the pages that graced the magazines usually had beautiful pictures of traditional families, it was often a little awkward to scrapbook something that wasn’t as perfect as a storybook. After several people asked me how I dealt with this in my albums, I wrote this article for Angie’s mailing list. To my knowledge, it was the first time something was published using the phrase “hidden journalling” (though there may very well be other sources first that I didn’t know about).

When you go read the entire series, make sure to click through to each Time Warp Video.  Can't wait to see what happened to Shimelle in the next 5 years.  She thinks she these years will be wrapped up in one more post.

Additional Reading on Hidden Journaling:

Nicole Humphrey takes it Back to the Basics.

Sharie used hidden journaling about her two Angel Boys.

Cricket used hidden journaling and pockets to hold money, ticket stubs and other ephemera in her Cambodia.mini-album.

Debra

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ecstewart 5 pts

After many years hiding behind the camera for self-inflicted reasons, I decided to change my attitude.

I wanted more photos of myself because no one else was going to take them and of course, I had discouraged my DH from taking photos. So, I decided to teach him how to take photos of me that would promote a better outcome and satisfaction.

Additionally, we were finally taking our belated honeymoon late last year and dammit, I wanted to remember how happy I was tripping around the world with my best friend. So we took our time, played with the outstretched arm (and perfected it) and enjoyed the leisure time that included taking photos of each other.

Moreover, I've got add'l tips for those who are self-conscious no matter what the issue:

http://ecstewart.blogspot.com/2007/12/edinburgh-ho...

Lisa, Creative Goddess
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onescrappymama 5 pts

That's kind of the point, Debra - we're so often behind the camera, that there's so little to show of how we participated in the lives of those we love.

Many students in my Book of Me classes give similar complaints about not liking pictures of themselves. Here's what I tell them - even if no one has a picture of you, they *still know what you look like*. It's not like you're keeping your weight/hair/bad skin/etc a "secret" because there's no photographic evidence. They already know what you look like, and they love you ANYWAY.

Think of how much you (would) treasure a photo of your mother or grandmother, or other influential woman in your life. When you look at that photo, do you think, "Man, I wish she would have lost 15 pounds before she let someone take a picture of her!" No. You look at the photo with fondness for all the memories you shared, and all that she contributed to your life. You mean the same to someone else. So, photos of yourself, and your stories, are your gift to them, something they can turn to when they need comfort.  Sharing that gift isn't selfish or self-centered - it's selfLESS.

Just something to think about. Thanks for sharing the links to my blog and book. :)

Angie

Author, The Book of ME: A Guide to Scrapbooking about Yourself

Marketing Consultant, ScrapbookMarketing.com

Debra Roby 5 pts

A part of me wants all of our blogs to serve as those "books of me" that the world can look back on, study, and really know about the writers.

Yet, I very seldom write honestly enough, or openly enough to show all of me in my blog.

And pictures? I have always hated pictures of me, so rarely post them. I will be this shadowed individual with no body...

But there is time to fix this.

Debra
A Stitch In Time ( http://astitchintime.blogspot.com )
Deb's Daily Distractions ( http://debsdistractions.blogspot.com )

washwords 5 pts

How horrible!  Kudos to Shimelle for getting the best revenge. 

washy || http://washwords.wordpress.com || washwords.dc@gmail.com

sassymonkey 16 pts

If someone implied that my life was unworthy of a scrapbook page because I'm umarried and don't have childen. But I don't believe it would be positive or pleasant. Ouch and grrr! but mostly grrrrr!

Sassymonkey ( http://sassymonkey.ca/ ) and Sassymonkey Reads ( http://sassymonkeyreads.wordpress.com/ ).