I debated whether or not I would even watch this show, and so I didn't watch. Neither did I tape it. Really, who wants to watch a man beat up a woman and know that the person videotaping the horror is the son of the mother and father? That's what some of the Oprah promos said, that the tape was never meant to be public and the father made the son, a 13-year-old child, tape his mother's beating.