One of my favorite things about giving fashion advice is getting e-mail from people who are getting spiffed up for various things: weddings, reunions, life in general. New clothes are always such an optimistic thing, that whole idea that you can recreate yourself with a really great dress or the right pair of jeans. And of course, you're not really CHANGING who are you, you're just finding things that fit better and feel better and look better. You, only BETTER!